If you found out your spouse had an affair. What would you do?

[wootoom]

He came in her too and didn't use a rubber. He's had a vasectomy. I don't know why that bothers me more, but it does.

I swear to god if my wife did that i would fuckin kill her

 

[curvymommy]

hmmmmmmmmm, honey if you're reading this, it's ok to cheat on me.

off to google the bmw sites


cya

LOL! I needed a bigger dream back then. I was young what can I say? Back then it was really more about the chrome wheels and stuff. It was only a tricked out Toyota! I still loved that car though. Not that I don't love my Honda Odyssey now. Let's just say he can't afford to cheat on me now! LOL!

 

[wootoom]

This thread makes me hate women. No disrespect to the married ones that dont cheat. Fuck!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Biteme you dotn deserve this man. I would be a complete fuckin mess. You are taking this really well bro. You have to fuckin get rid of her bro. Please. Shes a fucking tramp that doesnt care man. I cant abelieve this shit happens to people fuck sakes it just pisses me off. Did this guy know that she was married? I would fuckin scythe her man. Fuck this shit im out im too pissed off. Have a good day everyone.

 

[wootoom]

And then its our fault awhy they fuckin go and cheat on there husbands.....makes me fucking sick. nice fucking excuse. just move on bro. it will get easier trust me.

 

[curvymommy]

And then its our fault awhy they fuckin go and cheat on there husbands.....makes me fucking sick. nice fucking excuse. just move on bro. it will get easier trust me.

I know...it cuts both ways. I was made to feel it was my fault he cheated too. I KNOW if he ever did it again it would be twisted around to be my fault again...dang now I'm gettin pissed!

I better go dry my hair and stop living in the past. It's a sore subject.

 

[velvett]

I'd like to say I know what I would do but the reality you don't really know wha you or anyone is capable of until you're in a situation that calls for you to react.

 

[wootoom]

I know...it cuts both ways. I was made to feel it was my fault he cheated too. I KNOW if he ever did it again it would be twisted around to be my fault again...dang now I'm gettin pissed!

I better go dry my hair and stop living in the past. It's a sore subject.

Ya that sucks. Forgiveness is tougher than people think. Anti-depressants became my best friend for the past month with the all the problems im having in my life. I was scared i was going to end up in the hospital long term for awhile but then my mind triggered and just told me not to give a fuck anymore. Life moves on. Hopefully you can move on with it, which is the path i took. I cant spend my whole life feeling depressed its not worth it.

 

[blueta2]

Ya that sucks. Forgiveness is tougher than people think. Anti-depressants became my best friend for the past month with the all the problems im having in my life. I was scared i was going to end up in the hospital long term for awhile but then my mind triggered and just told me not to give a fuck anymore. Life moves on. Hopefully you can move on with it, which is the path i took. I cant spend my whole life feeling depressed its not worth it.

forgiveness is tough, but not impossible. Regainng trust is close to impossible.

Depression is a killer

 

[wootoom]

Biteme its tough for the first month bro to let go.....It gets better man. Im here also if you need to talk brother.

 

[cindylou]

Wow. I did not read this thread so I dont know what direction it went...but I know that if my husband had an affair....I would be extremely hurt...thats to say the least .....and I dont know what I would do.

Hed never do that to me though. Never in a million years.