myway said:True. Plus, I really like my job(most of the time).
AND I have always been really independent. I hate the idea of not having any of my own money. The thought of using my husband's money for everything almost gives me an anxiety attack. He would probably give me money if I asked for it. I just don't like the idea of not having ANY of my own money. How does that even work?!??!?!? Do I use his money to buy his birthday presents? I don't get it. I think it would be hard to not have at least a little bit of my own money.
I know. Plus we cant save for retirement or anything. What happens if he leaves us at 35 or 40??? Its just a scary thought nowadays. Useta be that divorce was not such an everyday occurance.