I will probably never find love...

[MichaelScott]

the sad thing is more dudes than u could imagine probly do that shit

 

[Cal_21]

that chivalric attitude will get you lots of internet play, Capt. save-a-ho. i've never heard of anyone standing up so vehemently to something considered socially unacceptable. you are truly unique....

It's about principle, nothing to do with anyone else. I have no need or desire for "internet play". I must have really touched a nerve with you...wonder why.

 

[H_T_]

bones, in the short time you've been here, we've learned that you're an ER nurse who's boyfriend convinced her to try gh - growth hormone (somatropin) - and then got caught, causing you to have to go to rehab and almost needing to shave your head to save yourself from further problems, and then he abused you.

You said you have a 13 year old son- are you being the mother you want to be?

lmfao. word?

 

[MichaelScott]

well?

 

[bones1435]

WERD also agree 100% with Stiletto's statement.

Get yourself some therapy to find out what it is IN YOU that you choose this type of partner. I am also willing to be that your friends aren't very nice to you either.

Took me losing my entire life - I mean ALL OF IT before I hit rock bottom before I reached out for help. YEARS OF THERAPY and bigtime cleaning out my closet and major life changes have FINALLY helped me to figure it out. I have a very loving doting supportive husband, one VERY VERY dear friend, only those family that truly love and support me.... now it's just a matter of time and tremendous effort to get it all straightened out.

If I did it.... anyone can.

This is generic advise for ANYONE who finds themselves in an abusive situation.

no, thats the thing. i have great friends. and my self esteem is fine. i look forward to moving on and finding someone else. I cant get him out of the house. He wont leave. its my house. and he's from Jersey. The lady at the courthouse said that as long as he's getting mail here, this is his primary residence and i have to file papers to get him out. He's from Jersey so he doesnt have family here. And im sure if his mother found out what he did, she wouldn't take him in. I

 

[H_T_]

It's about principle, nothing to do with anyone else. I have no need or desire for "internet play". I must have really touched a nerve with you...wonder why.

because you made an assumption, i said nothing about women beating. but now, i will. women who let that happen to them are just as responsible....once is an assault. twice is a lifestyle choice....

 

[bones1435]

bones, in the short time you've been here, we've learned that you're an ER nurse who's boyfriend convinced her to try gh - growth hormone (somatropin) - and then got caught, causing you to have to go to rehab and almost needing to shave your head to save yourself from further problems, and then he abused you.

You said you have a 13 year old son- are you being the mother you want to be?

oh hell no. im glad my son is on vacation with his grandmother. His father (my husband) died two years ago. I dont want him to ever see that kind of behaviour. Its truely a messed up situation. im not a victim. i just need to clean house before my son gets home

 

[H_T_]

no, thats the thing. i have great friends. and my self esteem is fine.

according to your already proven poor judgement....oh well....the world will never have enough waitresses.....

 

[heatherrae]

oh hell no. im glad my son is on vacation with his grandmother. His father (my husband) died two years ago. I dont want him to ever see that kind of behaviour. Its truely a messed up situation. im not a victim. i just need to clean house before my son gets home

You know what you need to do. That is good. I know it is tough to get rid of this type of guy.

 

[stilleto]

oh hell no. im glad my son is on vacation with his grandmother. His father (my husband) died two years ago. I dont want him to ever see that kind of behaviour. Its truely a messed up situation. im not a victim. i just need to clean house before my son gets home

maybe things look different from this end...