I think I've finally understood why I'm afraid to hit on women I dont know that well

[Pamela]

You shower or bathe every other day? WTF!!!!!

Dude i shower twice daily, i have my teeth cleaned & polished every 12 months. I brush 4 times per day, call me high maintence if you will ,but believe me people take notice in these things!
I like fine jewelry, i dress nice and keep my hair cut every 3 weeks.
Where in the world was your mom when you were growing up?



RADAR

You sound like me!

 

[Forge]

Confidence. In one word, your problem is confidence.








Oh, and if you have to make yourself have better hygene, then I doubt you will stick to that either.

 

[evansteve]

Confidence. In one word, your problem is confidence.

maybe

Oh, and if you have to make yourself have better hygene, then I doubt you will stick to that either.

I disagree. This morning I showered before work, and I also brushed my teeth.

 

[SAGAT]

when i saw the title of this thread i finally thought you found the way. but then you go ahead and over analyze everything.

listen to me:

go to a club. pick a girl you like. now put your left foot forward, then your right, then the rest of your body will follow. they call it walking. open your mouth. make some smalltalk, bullshit conversation, i don't know. but just do it.

ain't nothing to it but to do it buddy.
you come across as an ok guy, NOW JUST DO IT































dag-nabbit

 

[Forge]

I disagree. This morning I showered before work, and I also brushed my teeth.

But WHY did you do it? Answer honestly.

 

[evansteve]

But WHY did you do it? Answer honestly.

for the women,

when i saw the title of this thread i finally thought you found the way. but then you go ahead and over analyze everything.

listen to me:

go to a club. pick a girl you like. now put your left foot forward, then your right, then the rest of your body will follow. they call it walking. open your mouth. make some smalltalk, bullshit conversation, i don't know. but just do it.

ain't nothing to it but to do it buddy.
you come across as an ok guy, NOW JUST DO IT

dag-nabbit

if club girls interested me.

 

[Forge]

for the women,(

You started working out for the women, but when they didn't come running you lost interest. I predict this new hygene kick will go similarly, as will anything you do for the sole purpose of getting women. Someday (hopefully) you will start doing these things for yourself, not for any ulterior motive. Only then will the women truly enter your life (in other words, when you have a life for them to enter).


But in the meantime good job, at least you will get practice brushing your teeth and showering.

 

[jestros]

they didnt unfortunately. Even when I showered twice a day, when I brushed my teeth, when I cared about what I wore, all those things, girls hardly noticed it seems.

Unfortunately, its going to take a lot more than this to land me a woman.

Hygene is the basic minimum. It will not get you a girl. But if you dont shower every day, brush your teeth at least twice a day, you will only be able to pay for sex.
Look, I have great hygene, and I dont expect the chicks are going to just magically flock to me. We are men, so we have to make all the first moves, or it just wont happen.

To recap: good hygene=minimum for non-hooker to talk to you

 

[flexygrl]

Since I'm a girl, I would like to give advice. There are some things I need to know first:

1) How old are you?
2) What do you do for work?
3) Are you the youngest child?

Anyway, without those answers, I'll do the best I can...

You have to love yourself. You want someone who will love you, respect you and treat you the right way? Well, start taking care of yourself. Find something you love about yourself everyday. When you get up in the morning look in the mirror and point out something that makes you different from everybody else. I agree with everyone here who says you have a confidence problem. Girls want confident men. You don't have to be stuck up or arrogant, there is a a difference. Be happy. Smile. Do something you love everyday. Don't have anything? Find something. Make you the best You, You can be and the rest will follow. I promise you.

Oh and hygeine is soooooo important. Fresh breath and a clean body are one of the most important things in my book.

 

[Scotsman]

btw dude.. here are some other reasons u should consider before flirting with women...

she could be an axe murderer
mental issues
could be a man
might have 50 guns at home
dominatrix wholl totally own you with a whip and handcuffs
slutty
gang banger
has (insert STD)
is actually a giant squid in human form

keep making up excuses...

Nice, especially the squid one, just remember don't move most large predators are keyed to movement.LOL

Cheers,
Scotsman