I think I've finally understood why I'm afraid to hit on women I dont know that well

[Evil_Frisky]

Puberty

 

[Razorguns]

I used to be like that...

Til i mastered the art of just talking to ANYONE ANYWHERE at a moment's notice. A very excellent skill to master and can come in handy in many other areas in life.

Now when i see a hot girl -- i see her as anyone else. A fat girl for all that it matters.

I approach a hot girl like a circuit city sales geek approaches a customer: "Hey, how you doing today?"

 

[evansteve]

I'm picking up what you are funking out BroSpaz..

Afraid you might get hooked into some psycho bitches life plans for you,
and be either unable to extricate yourself from her, or doing it making
your life a miserable living hell.

that could be one consequence, yes.

Or I might date a woman that I think is beautiful only to find out that she is a total bitch and breaks my heart.

I'm sure I could think of many more bad scenarios if I sat down and thought about it for awhile.

 

[Evil_Frisky]

Or I might date a woman that I think is beautiful only to find out that she is a total bitch and breaks my heart.

Honey.. hate to bust your bubble.. but thats 99% of us



























J/K

 

[Gambino]

dooode, are you taking the lead out of the rocket before you are going out? If you want to be more honest and at ease, blow a few manual loads before you lay your game down. Your smoothness will increase considerably.

Yours in debaunchery,
A.Gambino

 

[evansteve]

dude, you keep looking for excuses for why you shouldn't make your move.

YOU BEST UNFUCK YOURSELF. Nobody can do it for you.

Building up your body will do wonders for your self-confidence. Everything else will flow from that. Radar offered to help you, why don't you take him up on that offer?

Do you want to be 50 and alone and still making excuses?

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I already tried getting the "good body" long ago, and I failed because I didnt have the willpower. (and unfortunately thats not something that RADAR can fix) I couldnt even maintain 9% bodyfat (the lowest I ever got) for longer than a month or so.

And even back when I did have a decent body I still didnt have confidence 'radiating out of my skin'.

And even if I was confident, I dont see how that would help me. I could still end up with the wrong girl, and fuck myself over.

Look, I dont want to be 50 and divorced 4 times.

 

[evansteve]

dooode, are you taking the lead out of the rocket before you are going out? If you want to be more honest and at ease, blow a few manual loads before you lay your game down. Your smoothness will increase considerably.

Yours in debaunchery,
A.Gambino

jacking off is not going to help me go up and talk to a woman.

 

[Ralph_Wiggum]

Re: I think I've finally understood why I'm afraid to hit on women I dont know that w

you have to realize how much of a placebo everything is. It is all in your head. It is not about jerking off 10x before talking to a girl, or drinking, or getting yourself to 8% BF...if you need to do all of that beforehand, then you have allready lost. By taking all of those steps beforehand, you are treating social interaction as if it is something on a pedestal that is above you that you need to prepare for...don't EVER place it on a pedestal, b/c the girl that you will instinctively place on a pedestal is NOT perfect..she is human just like you, and you have to realize that in order to get in the right frame of mind.

Think of thoughts and times that get you naturally at ease. Hang out w/ people that make you feel good about yourself instead of inferior. Once you have the right frame of mind, and are naturally at ease, the confidence will come and you won't need to worry about all the bullshit. Heck..once you are in the right frame of mind..getting to a low BF% and staying there will come more naturally.

Everything is in your head...trust me.

 

[Gambino]

Re: I think I've finally understood why I'm afraid to hit on women I dont know that w

jacking off is not going to help me go up and talk to a woman.

A man is most honest (honest = at ease) after a blown load.

 

[AristotleBC]

No one here cares about you enough to ponder your predicament at any length.

Except me of course.