I think I've finally understood why I'm afraid to hit on women I dont know that well

[evansteve]

It always baffled me, how I would have the hardest time making myself flirt with a girl I didnt know, and God knows how nearly impossibly hard it would have been for me just to go up to some cute girl and ask her out.

In my Cross Cultural Psychology class today (there are a LOT of hot hot hot girls in this class) I was sitting there and thinking about it and it finally hit me...

It isnt rejection that I'm afraid of, I'm afraid of getting involved. If I talk to some girl that I dont know that well and ask her for a bite to eat or something, I run the risk of becoming attracted to someone that I dont know. I run the risk of a higher chance of myself falling head over heels over a woman that I barely just met.

Does anyone see how unhealthy this could be?

I know this is thinking to far ahead, but I have a feeling this is how bad relationships start. Both the man and the woman jumped the gun too soon.

I guess in the meantime then, all the hot girls that I see every day but that I dont know, are just going to be a tease, since I know that getting involved with them would be a bad idea. Maybe you should only get involved with girls that you've been friends with for awhile, and really know.

 

[d3track]

why dont you just say hi to some people and see if they say hi back
one step at a time bruh

 

[evansteve]

why dont you just say hi to some people and see if they say hi back
one step at a time bruh

I've been doing that for years, it gets me no where.

 

[string_bean00]

jesus h christ

 

[EnderJE]

Sheesh, just take it for what it is. Harmless flirting and not a torrid love affair.

 

[evansteve]

Sheesh, just take it for what it is. Harmless flirting and not a torrid love affair.

What I'm saying is that maybe flirting isnt the way to get off to a good start.
Or at least not until you know the person really well.

 

[string_bean00]

What I'm saying is that maybe flirting isnt the way to get off to a good start.
Or at least not until you know the person really well.

shoot yourself

 

[Yarg!]

if u dont flirt with the hottie u like, youll forever be in the dreaded "friend zone". and shes not gonna fall head over heels right away, dont be so pretentious casanova.

 

[Y_lifter]

I'm picking up what you are funking out BroSpaz..

Afraid you might get hooked into some psycho bitches life plans for you,
and be either unable to extricate yourself from her, or doing it making
your life a miserable living hell.

 

[geoboy]

dude, you keep looking for excuses for why you shouldn't make your move.

YOU BEST UNFUCK YOURSELF. Nobody can do it for you.

Building up your body will do wonders for your self-confidence. Everything else will flow from that. Radar offered to help you, why don't you take him up on that offer?

Do you want to be 50 and alone and still making excuses?

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