i need help with chicks... very badly.

[madbomber31]

i very much would like to start meeting "prospects" to date....

i dont know, things just arent going how i want... i've been told that i come across as arrogant or cocky, until i talk to someone.. and then they always say how sweet i really am... what the fuck can i do about that?

give me advice on dating (more like the meeting part)

 

[sermon_of_mockery]

i very much would like to start meeting "prospects" to date....

i dont know, things just arent going how i want... i've been told that i come across as arrogant or cocky, until i talk to someone.. and then they always say how sweet i really am... what the fuck can i do about that?

give me advice on dating (more like the meeting part)

your arrogance is just a front to hide the fact your shy,or nervous.

 

[Puddles]

Is it your looks? Are you very built? Dress well? Some people will consider that arrogant until they get to talk to ya.

 

[madbomber31]

i'm average looking i think.. i mean, i'd do me if i were a chick...

i think i'm built ok... bigger than average thats for sure... but it kills me to see drunk obnoxious bastards that are 5'6 move in and get the girl.. all be it, a girl i would probably not date, but thats besides the fact.


i am quiet.. shy to a point, until i get to know someone.. i'm a very private person... hell, my mom has met 2 girlfriends of mine and that is it... i'm VERY private.

 

[sermon_of_mockery]

your tendancy to remain quite,makes them believe your a snob.

 

[madbomber31]

and i'd feel like a complete jack ass when i just walked up to someone i didnt know (it's based on looks alone at that point).

so i'm pretty much in a no win situation... and starting off a conversation with no reason seems snobbish to me.. like "i'm just this good to talk to you baby".

 

[madbomber31]

oh, i'm also very keen to meeting a gym girl.. and that is such a huge no no in my mind...

uh, nice biceps baby.. how you doin?

 

[Mr.X]

i very much would like to start meeting "prospects" to date....

i dont know, things just arent going how i want... i've been told that i come across as arrogant or cocky, until i talk to someone.. and then they always say how sweet i really am... what the fuck can i do about that?

give me advice on dating (more like the meeting part)

My friend, this might come off strange, and, for most, hearing this is out of the norm (so is doing it for that matter). I know many people that were in your situation, and their solution was online dating. Basically, chatting and personals where you can find people that can talk to you and understand who you REALLY are as a person before they make up their mind in the consensus of a first impression. Remember, the first impression will last a life time, but if the woman is already fond of you as a person, when she meet you it's going to be a much more comfortable situation. You're not going to have a problem coming off as arrogant because, from what I read at least - your post, you will show them your true sweet self. You will not be intimidated by the public eye, and a higher level of comfort will reach your life. Yes, I know it seems strange, but traveling to the moon was, at one time, a ludicrous idea in people's mind. All I can tell you is to try to open your mind and explore other possibilities, maybe the right person is just a click of a mouse away (or maybe not!).

Mr.X

 

[OXANDRIN]

bro, the supermarket is where i have met the most women.

 

[MFMan]

Re: Re: i need help with chicks... very badly.

My friend, this might come off strange, and, for most, hearing this is out of the norm (so is doing it for that matter). I know many people that were in your situation, and their solution was online dating. Basically, chatting and personals where you can find people that can talk to you and understand who you REALLY are as a person before they make up their mind in the consensus of a first impression. Remember, the first impression will last a life time, but if the woman is already fond of you as a person, when she meet you it's going to be a much more comfortable situation. You're not going to have a problem coming off as arrogant because, from what I read at least - your post, you will show them your true sweet self. You will not be intimidated by the public eye, and a higher level of comfort will reach your life. Yes, I know it seems strange, but traveling to the moon was, at one time, a ludicrous idea in people's mind. All I can tell you is to try to open your mind and explore other possibilities, maybe the right person is just a click of a mouse away (or maybe not!).

Mr.X

Good advice. It seems that the days of going to bars and what not to meet women has been replaced by the internet.