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i need help with chicks... very badly.

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i very much would like to start meeting "prospects" to date....

i dont know, things just arent going how i want... i've been told that i come across as arrogant or cocky, until i talk to someone.. and then they always say how sweet i really am... what the fuck can i do about that?

give me advice on dating (more like the meeting part)
 
madbomber31 said:
i very much would like to start meeting "prospects" to date....

i dont know, things just arent going how i want... i've been told that i come across as arrogant or cocky, until i talk to someone.. and then they always say how sweet i really am... what the fuck can i do about that?

give me advice on dating (more like the meeting part)
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your arrogance is just a front to hide the fact your shy,or nervous.:confused:
 
Is it your looks? Are you very built? Dress well? Some people will consider that arrogant until they get to talk to ya.
 
i'm average looking i think.. i mean, i'd do me if i were a chick...

i think i'm built ok... bigger than average thats for sure... but it kills me to see drunk obnoxious bastards that are 5'6 move in and get the girl.. all be it, a girl i would probably not date, but thats besides the fact.


i am quiet.. shy to a point, until i get to know someone.. i'm a very private person... hell, my mom has met 2 girlfriends of mine and that is it... i'm VERY private.
 
and i'd feel like a complete jack ass when i just walked up to someone i didnt know (it's based on looks alone at that point).

so i'm pretty much in a no win situation... and starting off a conversation with no reason seems snobbish to me.. like "i'm just this good to talk to you baby".
 
oh, i'm also very keen to meeting a gym girl.. and that is such a huge no no in my mind...

uh, nice biceps baby.. how you doin?
 
madbomber31 said:
i very much would like to start meeting "prospects" to date....

i dont know, things just arent going how i want... i've been told that i come across as arrogant or cocky, until i talk to someone.. and then they always say how sweet i really am... what the fuck can i do about that?

give me advice on dating (more like the meeting part)
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My friend, this might come off strange, and, for most, hearing this is out of the norm (so is doing it for that matter). I know many people that were in your situation, and their solution was online dating. Basically, chatting and personals where you can find people that can talk to you and understand who you REALLY are as a person before they make up their mind in the consensus of a first impression. Remember, the first impression will last a life time, but if the woman is already fond of you as a person, when she meet you it's going to be a much more comfortable situation. You're not going to have a problem coming off as arrogant because, from what I read at least - your post, you will show them your true sweet self. You will not be intimidated by the public eye, and a higher level of comfort will reach your life. Yes, I know it seems strange, but traveling to the moon was, at one time, a ludicrous idea in people's mind. All I can tell you is to try to open your mind and explore other possibilities, maybe the right person is just a click of a mouse away (or maybe not!).

Mr.X
 
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Mr.X said:


My friend, this might come off strange, and, for most, hearing this is out of the norm (so is doing it for that matter). I know many people that were in your situation, and their solution was online dating. Basically, chatting and personals where you can find people that can talk to you and understand who you REALLY are as a person before they make up their mind in the consensus of a first impression. Remember, the first impression will last a life time, but if the woman is already fond of you as a person, when she meet you it's going to be a much more comfortable situation. You're not going to have a problem coming off as arrogant because, from what I read at least - your post, you will show them your true sweet self. You will not be intimidated by the public eye, and a higher level of comfort will reach your life. Yes, I know it seems strange, but traveling to the moon was, at one time, a ludicrous idea in people's mind. All I can tell you is to try to open your mind and explore other possibilities, maybe the right person is just a click of a mouse away (or maybe not!).

Mr.X
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Good advice. It seems that the days of going to bars and what not to meet women has been replaced by the internet.
 
madbomber31 said:


seriously, i see some hotties grocery shopping...
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when you meet a girl out (like at a bar or cub) they have their "guards up"...they know guys want sex so they are very cautious

now at the supermarket the women don't expect to be hit on or picked up...they have their "guards off"

this is were you ask them for their number
 
can i squeeze your melons? and have your phone number?

hmmmm, interesting.
 
madbomber31 said:
can i squeeze your melons? and have your phone number?

hmmmm, interesting.
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Or, you can try: "can you feel my cucumber"? ..."I'm not sure it's hard enough..." lol, yeah that's the ticket...:p

Mr.X
 
I have met some of the hottest girls ever at the mall. Like the grocery store, they dont have their guards up. If I see a hot girl working at a store in the mall I will look around until she asks me for help, then make a joke and then I'm in. We'll chat for awhile and I'll ask her when she gets off if she wants to get a drink. Its as simple as that. And trust me, Im no prize piece, Im just VERY confident and am not scared to get shot down.
 
Mad,

Listen to me my firend; you must dowload and install Kazaa. After you have done this, do a search using the following string:

"Dale Carnegie books how to win friends"

The book. "How to Win Friends and Influence People," is available as eight seperate mp3 files, and is WELL worth the download.

It will change your life. I promise.

Peace
 
Do a search for "Citruscide" and "B.I.T.C.H.S.'" -- you'll have all you need to know to be happy... check out my avatar... chicks dig strong thinkers. :)

C-ditty
 
Big Johnson said:
Mad,

Listen to me my firend; you must dowload and install Kazaa. After you have done this, do a search using the following string:

"Dale Carnegie books how to win friends"

The book. "How to Win Friends and Influence People," is available as eight seperate mp3 files, and is WELL worth the download.

It will change your life. I promise.

Peace
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i have read and i own this book.... i've used the part about letter writing and customer service..... and the job stuff.. but the relationship thing.... (well, the smiling thing) hasnt worked... the smile and greet... but thanks for the reminder, it looks like i'll be making an ass out of myself at the gym and grocery store... but i'll be sincere :)
 
1st. Get rid of all your iggles stuff and don't ever get caught wearing any iggles stuff or rooting for them. they will automatically think that you are going nowhere fast if you got iggles stuff on.

2nd. It's a numbers game. Sooner or later you are going to get a yes, unless you are the iggles and are looking to win the superbowl then the answer is no forever and ever

3rd. Eat lots of Chunky's Soup. It will bring up your confidence. Look at McCripple, he started eating it and there went the NY Giants 9 game winning streak against the team he plays for.

4th. Don't stare at their tits with this kind of face :p

5th. Keep repeating to yourself, "there is nothing to fear except fear itself." Nobody is going to make fun of you to your face if you get a no from a woman.
 
madbomber31 said:
i very much would like to start meeting "prospects" to date....

i dont know, things just arent going how i want... i've been told that i come across as arrogant or cocky, until i talk to someone.. and then they always say how sweet i really am... what the fuck can i do about that?

give me advice on dating (more like the meeting part) ....

and i'd feel like a complete jack ass when i just walked up to someone i didnt know (it's based on looks alone at that point).

so i'm pretty much in a no win situation... and starting off a conversation with no reason seems snobbish to me.. like "i'm just this good to talk to you baby".
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HOLY SHIT i think your my clone
 
Since like me you are not into the WALK UP AND ATTACK mode of meeting people you must find something where you will see the same people several times.

This way you can take your time and let them get to know you
a bit each time they see you.

School, clubs, classes etc where you see a woman you think would be your type and gradually let her get to know you.

Find a class at the Gym or School or other such place that a person attends that you are attracted to
Go every time it's available and for the first couple of classes just stand or sit next to them.
If they show interest move in slowly over time and you won't come off as desperate.

Also Home Improvement Centers are supposedly the place to find women these days as well.
Over 50% of the purchases there are made by women.
It's Ripe for meet and greets
 
Its funny you guys say that about the supermarket, I am always seeing hot chicks in the supermarket, i have never come up with the right line to use in a food store.
 
fistfullofsteel said:
1st. Get rid of all your iggles stuff and don't ever get caught wearing any iggles stuff or rooting for them. they will automatically think that you are going nowhere fast if you got iggles stuff on.
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What is iggles? :confused:
 
make small talk.....

make a girl laugh...(well not AT you)

sometimes it's hard to talk about nothing...

compliments always work, and usually lead to other conversation....plus people always like to hear nice things about themselves and talk about themselves in general....

pratice on someone you aren't really attracted to...that way you're not so nervous

if none of this works, try the melon squeezing thing.
 
make small talk.....

make a girl laugh...(well not AT you)

sometimes it's hard to talk about nothing...

compliments always work, and usually lead to other conversation....plus people always like to hear nice things about themselves and talk about themselves in general....

remember her name

women always are expecting to be hit on....and if they are attracted to you, they don't mind being hit on.

pratice on someone you aren't really attracted to...that way you're not so nervous

if none of this works, try the melon squeezing thing.
 
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