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I have lost my best friend

IvanOffelitch

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Not my "human" best friend, but my real best friend...my beloved Golden Retriever "Moose."

For the last 13 3/4 years, Moose has been by my side through thick and thin. He has never once let me down. He was always glad to see me. There was never any question whether or not the love I gave him was given back in return--tenfold.

I've had a dog since as far back as I can remember, and I can remember every one of their names. Every one has been a great dog (which I believe has more to do with the owner than the dog itself), but Moose was the "special one"...the kind of dog every dog owner hopes to some day share their life with.

My veterinarian has verbally complimented me on him every time she's seen him. His groomer has stated on more than one occasion that Moose (and his now heartbroken housemate "Punkin'", my female Golden Retriever) was the best-behaved and friendliest dog they'd ever worked with.

And now he is gone.

And I am devastated.

I can't even look out into the back yard without my eyes welling up with tears.

If you're not a dog (or for that matter, any animal) lover, then I don't expect you to understand. If you are an animal lover, than you probably do understand.

They're not just pets, they're family...which for me, is something I have precious little of.

The last 13 3/4 years of my life were made that much more enjoyable by Moose, and I am eternally grateful.

Some of you may have seen the following--it's called "Rainbow Bridge".

I can only pray this is how it will be;

"Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.

When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge.
There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together.
There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by.
The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.

They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent; His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....

Author unknown..."


This picture was taken a few months ago as Moose lay on my living room floor sleeping.

Sleepy Moose

Goodbye buddy. I only wish I could have loved you more.

Don't ask me why I posted this here. Hell, no one here even knows me, and I'm sure most could care less about my dog. I guess I just needed to tell a little corner of the world that I'd lost my best buddy.

OK, it's time for me to stop. I can't even see my monitor anymore.

If you have a pet...ANY pet...give them a hug and let them know you love them. Then give them an extra hug from me.
 
sorry bro...my muts getting old and has numerous health problems now too....condolences to your loss
 
oh sorry ivan bout losing your dog
 
I've never met you, but I know you still. My heart goes out to you and I cry with you.
 
Damn that sucks...sometimes i wonder if it is better never to have pets cause they always die waay before there time. RIP Moose

does punkin realise what's up?? is she bummin?
 
Sorry to hear about Moose, Ivan
 
My grand dad was a very good man. He had 2 dogs and they both died soon after he did and they weren't real old. I think they just lost their will to live because he was their everything.
 
shit that sucks man. my mom had to put our German Shepherd down we had her for 15 years my mom got her cremated and my grandma passed away last year and she was cremated also and they mom had her dogs ashes in her ttuck cause she always liked to ride in the truck and 2 weeks ago my mom set her moms and her dogs ashes free together. ithought that was really cool
 
i lost my dog in feburary i think it was

i got over it fast but my mom cried for months

get a new one bro
 
Sorry to hear about your loss. It is nice coming home to someone that is always happy to see you.

How is Punkin doing?
 
Thanks to all. I've been a wreck these last 2 days, this place seems so empty without Moose here. :(

lundmaster said:
I am sorry about loosing your dog. If you makes you feel better kick a cat!

Nah...I'm a dog lover through and through, but I could never inflict harm on a cat.

Biteme said:
I've never met you, but I know you still. My heart goes out to you and I cry with you.

Thank you brother.

Gambino said:
Damn that sucks...sometimes i wonder if it is better never to have pets cause they always die waay before there time. RIP Moose

does punkin realise what's up?? is she bummin?

They say it is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. I ain't too sure I buy into that.

Moose was almost 14 years old...pretty damned good for a Golden Retriever so I'm told, but that doesn't matter. He still left WAY too soon for me.

Punkin' seems pretty upset...she was with Moose when he collapsed in the yard thursday, and since Moose never made it back from the vets office, she's been sticking close to me and the GF, won't let either of us out of her sight. She doesn't want to eat or go outside either. She went out onto the back patio, but wouldn't go into the yard (where Moose collapsed).

I think she knows.

EnderJE said:
I don't get it. I guess I just don't get attached to my pets.

In a way, I envy you. This is a pain I hope you never have to endure.

SublimeZM said:
...get a new one bro

I'm not sure that's such a good idea at this point. I've been saying for the last few years that once my current family of pets had passed, that there would be no more...not because I don't want anymore, but because it simply hurts too bad to lose them.

OTOH, I'm waiting to see how Punkin' handles this...if she seems to be getting too lonely (she hasn't eaten anything save for a hamburger the GF hand-fed her yesterday), I may consider another dog for her sake. But that puts me right back to the beginning...Punkin' is 12+ years old herself, so I doubt she has too many years left either. If I get another dog now to keep her company, what happens when she passes away??? :worried: :(

Thanks to all again for the kind words. I've been moping around the house for the last 2 days now, not quite sure what to do with myself right now. Me and Punkin' have been spending some QT together tho.

I still can't look out into the back yard w/o welling up. I went out to my garage today, looked out the side window into the back yard and wound up standing there crying my eyes out for a good 10 minutes.

I can still see him out there wriggling around in the grass laying on his back, grunting and barking at nothing in particular...just letting the world know he was there...or the time he had this mysterious sneezing fit while I was in the garage one day...heard him start sneezing his fool head off clear out of the blue. The GF went to see what was wrong with him--he was sneezing so hard he was nearly knocking himself over! Turns out, the big dope had somehow managed to jam a really long blade of grass up his nose while he was out there squirming around in the grass, and it had gotten STUCK up his nose! He was sneezing trying to get it out! Once we realized what had happened and that he was OK, we both started cracking up @ him...the big dork!

Needless to say, he was QUITE happy when she pulled that blade of grass out of his nose. So what'd he do next???...yup....right back out to go squirming around in the grass acting all a fool lol.

*sigh*

The memories are flooding back again.

I miss you buddy. :bawling:
 
wow Im so sorry bro, this thread literally has me in tears thinking about it, if my dog were to die (and he's 10 now so he's on the later part of his life) I'd be heart broken for a really long time, more so I think then any girlfriend could do to me.

Dogs ARE our best friends, they are the only things on this planet you can completly 100% trust to always be there for you and have unshakable loyalty, I'll have a dog for life and while each one will prob bring there own thing to the table and I'll love them all, thought of losing the current still will break my heart, I feel you man I'm really sorry, at least you got to have such a wonderful addition to your family while he was there
 
It really is unfair that we live so much longer than they do. A good dog becomes more than just family and is sooooo hard to let go. Great pics of Moose man looks like he was quite the good fellow.

Cheers,
Scotsman
 
Scotsman said:
It really is unfair that we live so much longer than they do. A good dog becomes more than just family and is sooooo hard to let go. Great pics of Moose man looks like he was quite the good fellow.

Cheers,
Scotsman

Thank you.

BTW, I agree with what you said in your other message.

I've said this for years, and it still stands true; I prefer the company of a good dog over 90+ % of the human beings I know.

Mankind could learn a LOT about love and loyalty from a dog.
 
There's something so sweet about a big smiley golden when his muzzle is all white/grey. I'm so sorry for your loss. I can see how Punkin' would be lonely but a 12 year old dog doesn't always do too hot with a pup. Those are 2 very different energy levels. Maybe you can find an adult at a shelter that she gets along with?

How sad. :(
 
Raina said:
There's something so sweet about a big smiley golden when his muzzle is all white/grey. I'm so sorry for your loss. I can see how Punkin' would be lonely but a 12 year old dog doesn't always do too hot with a pup. Those are 2 very different energy levels. Maybe you can find an adult at a shelter that she gets along with?

How sad. :(
I've already checked out the local animal shelters online to see if there's any dogs she'd be compatible with, both age and personality-wise. There's a few, but I'm still undecided as to what to do.

I guess I'm hoping she'll tell me what she wants me to do.

She's moping around pretty bad still, and still hasn't touched her food (she's a little on the chubby side, so I'm not too concerned at this point about her lack of appetite...she'll eat when she gets hungry), and she finally ventured out to the back yard today, albeit reluctantly. She made potty and b-lined it right back to the door.

I almost had a game going with her last night, but she just didn't have it in her. At least she's trying.

All in all, I'd say she's coping with this better than I am.

There's a moose-shaped hole in my soul right now, and I'm feelin' mighty low :(

All in due time I suppose. Right?
 
I had a golden retriever. I remember practically balling when burying her. Dogs are the purest companion; their love is always there for you.
 
OK, this is too sad!!!! :(

Punkin' was sacked out in the living room while I was watching TV...a dog on TV barked, and Punkin' jumped to her feet, began looking around, then bolted to the front door looking outside...I think she thought it was Moose coming back home :( :( :(

She spent the last 5 minutes walking around the house looking around, now she's laying down in Moose's traditional spot in the laundry room.

Welcome to hell. Population: me. :(
 
my grandma's dog lived 27 years. heard there was a bulldog in north carolina that lived 33 years . Ever dog i have has been hit since i live in major traffic area.
 
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