ok this is my dilemma...i'm 16 and i just started fucking my gf...and basically i dont finish when i'm with her....EVER....for example...she even gave me head for like 20 minutes and it was good but i just CANT finish...and sometimes i'll be about to fuck her and it will like go limp as i'm inserting...LIKE WTF!!!! lol i'm going insane here...i even didn't jack off for a week just so when i saw her this wouldnt be the case...but was...someone plz help
Just relax and have a good time with your girlfriend.
Take your time with her and don't be so
anxious to have sex with her. Use this time and learn how
to be a good lover... Not just to have sex..
Believe me your girl will appreciate that!
Nerves, anxiety, fear, inexperience, etc. You don't want to be there for whatever reason. Take your time. Don't have to rush into things because all the "other bros" are doing stuff. 16 is pretty young.
My first time was with a guy that was also a virgin and we were a mess. It went on forever cause the dude was too nervous to relax enough to allow himself to cum so it just went on and on. And for my part I wasnt wet enough due to nerves so I got pretty dry after the first 5 minutes and was getting majorly sore after 10.
Well a good way to tell if your issue is psychological or physiological, can you wack off with success? If not then you should go see a doc and get your hormone levels checked. If you can, then you know its in your big head, not the little one.
it just got limp on insertion..it's like i overthink things and i get nervous...and yes i do jack off with success..but i dont jack off too much maybe 3 times a week other than my old routine of 3 times an hour
It's totally nerves. No reason to stop masturbating or anything. Just relax. the point is to have fun, not to spray semen after a certain amount of time.
Also if she is inexperienced too her blowjobs might not really get you off even if they're enjoyable. Again, don't worry about it, you'll both learn what you're doing if you just relax and communicate with each other.