I don't think I want to date again for a long time.

[biteme]

You can't help someone that doesn't want help; If she's lucky then she'll "hit bottom." Otherwise, she may very likely die from her disease and there is/was nothing you could do to "make her change."

You definitely know about it. I didn't until I lived with it. It's insanity. Jekyl and Hyde. Sometimes were great, but you can't go on living that way.

 

[javaguru]

You definitely know about it. I didn't until I lived with it. It's insanity. Jekyl and Hyde. Sometimes were great, but you can't go on living that way.

Look into Al-Anon bro.

 

[Cal_21]

Sorry to hear bro. Hope things get better. You have the right approach. Don't be afraid to let the hurt out, even if it's just by yourself.

 

[SaladFork]

Damn bro, i'm sorry. I was wondering where you have been. I haven't seen you in a few weeks. Keep that head up broly!!!

 

[canadianhitman]

Life's too short to hurt for long.

Great attitude...but, lay off of the ice cream. Eating ice cream like a hog after a breakup is such a chick thing to do. Replace ice cream with beer, and you're good to go.

 

[biteme]

Great attitude...but, lay off of the ice cream. Eating ice cream like a hog after a breakup is such a chick thing to do. Replace ice cream with beer, and you're good to go.

It's Cappucino fat free. I may have a beer or 2 tomorrow... Off to the gym!

 

[all the whey]

You can't help someone that doesn't want help; If she's lucky then she'll "hit bottom." Otherwise, she may very likely die from her disease and there is/was nothing you could do to "make her change."

I thought she hit bottom when she married biteme.


JK!

Sorry, to hear biteme. We have all been there. Sounds like you are going to be all right though.

 

[Mr. dB]

Sorry B. You seemed really happy there for a while, too bad it was not to be.

 

[biteme]

Sorry B. You seemed really happy there for a while, too bad it was not to be.

Yes there was a lot of potential so it's a huge disappointment and I really did love her. I took her in when she had nothing. Lost it all to alcoholism and then got everything back including a great job, started drinking again and is losing it all again, and I just hoped it would stop, but it's an ugly beast that often destroys lives. We all have some problems, but alcoholism is one of the worst ones to have. They are in denial and think you are judging them, but it's so not true.

 

[puddlemonkey]

Can only get better from here.