Biteme Sorry about your girl and her drinking problem. Hope things work out for you.
Your a little older then me. I need some advice. I'm about to get into the same situation you were in. this girl I've been talking to jokes around all the time that she's an alcoholic. On the weekends we hang out together some, I can tell she is an alcoholic, but I really enjoy hanging with her, we get along get and i don't really blame her for drinking because of all the shit she's gone through in life. But the drinking scares me, cause I've been down that road before with a girl and promise myself that I wouldn't date a girl who drinks. Honestly I'm not really that attracted to her, but we get along so good i dont care what she looks like plus I've known this girl since i was like 6 years old. i care about her a lot.
i keep thinking i can help her better herself, she is trying hard! But she said she would never give up drinking.
I keep thinking should i date her or not. Or go with this other girl that i've been talking to for about a year online. She doesn't have any addiction that i know of, but we haven't even met in real life even though we live in the same town. I feel so at ease and comfortable when i talk to the girl who drinks the other girl seems always too busy for me, hell we haven't even talked on the phone just through emails, when i do try to call her all i get is her voicemail, she says she likes me but just waiting for me to make the first move. Which i thought i was?!?
I dont know if I am making sense. I never post on the boards. so I'm ending this. didnt mean to hijack your thread.