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I cheated on my girl the other night
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conundrum
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silverstar1025 said:
The relationship I'm in now just kind of happened and has been happening for the last nine months. Its more a relationship of convience. As for the random hook up the other night. Thats all it was, just random. I don't generally hook up with random women. I don't ever go looking for anything when I go out. If it happens, it happens. Sometimes I just go along with it, sometimes I don't. I just consider the other night a lapse in judgement. Being it a poor one.
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NEO1 said:Meh, Female logic......who will ever understand it?
If you really loved someone and you were cheated on then you would see why I say what I do. It hurts a lot and you never get over it. He needs to do the girl a favor and don't break her heart if he just wants to have random sex.
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Bino said:
^^ This is THE MAIN reason that I never have and never will cheat. Why ON EARTH would I feed the ego of another man?
Some women are just dumb... Yea, she may have gotten off but good lord, for a woman to put herself down like that just to get some cock that she was probably too drunk to even remember? For the guy it may have been great but for a woman sex like this is ALWAYS "eh" at best and now somedumbass who doesn't give a FUCK about you is strutting around with his chest stuck out like he *just did somethin*.
Dude, you sound young so even though what you did was pretty shitty (Sorry, I don't buy the whole "It just happened" crap. Can you imagine hearing a line like that from your wife? Your dick doesn't just magically slip out of your drawers and into some chick's mouth or hooha accidentally. I've been pretty fucked up in my life but NEVER have I been so fucked up that I didn't know where my nani was at.) I guess it is understandable.
However, if you were MY MAN I would want to know. Just so I could kick your sorry ass to the curb before I wasted one more moment of my life giving my attention and affection to you.
The other reason MAIN reason why I never would/never have cheated? Is because being faithfull gives you power. It means that you will never EVER be in the position of the one to have to beg for forgiveness for such base behavior. I would rather be the one who is ASKED to give my forgiveness.
And finally, the little moral issue of LYING, CHEATING, STEALING.
I can't stand that type of behavior so I certainly don't engage in it.
Oh yea, as for what to do?
A man would dump his girl for whatever reason. If you want to man up and tell her that you can't keep your dick in your pants when you've been drinking and trick hos throw themselves at you, by all means do. She will be hurt (maybe) but she will get over you if she has even *this much* self esteem. If she takes you back you got it made. You have a NO SELF-ESTEEM potential life mate.
As for the other girl, try to tap that ass as many times as you can but remember to wrap that shit tight. If she laid down for you so easily (with all her friends and family knowing the deal) then could you just imagine how many others she has fucked?
Not a moral judgment - sex is a gift.
Just trying to give you the heads up on what type of females you are dealing with.
conundrum
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BIKINIMOM said:^^ This is THE MAIN reason that I never have and never will cheat. Why ON EARTH would I feed the ego of another man?
Some women are just dumb... Yea, she may have gotten off but good lord, for a woman to put herself down like that just to get some cock that she was probably too drunk to even remember? For the guy it may have been great but for a woman sex like this is ALWAYS "eh" at best and now somedumbass who doesn't give a FUCK about you is strutting around with his chest stuck out like he *just did somethin*.
Dude, you sound young so even though what you did was pretty shitty (Sorry, I don't buy the whole "It just happened" crap. Can you imagine hearing a line like that from your wife? Your dick doesn't just magically slip out of your drawers and into some chick's mouth or hooha accidentally. I've been pretty fucked up in my life but NEVER have I been so fucked up that I didn't know where my nani was at.) I guess it is understandable.
However, if you were MY MAN I would want to know. Just so I could kick your sorry ass to the curb before I wasted one more moment of my life giving my attention and affection to you.
The other reason MAIN reason why I never would/never have cheated? Is because being faithfull gives you power. It means that you will never EVER be in the position of the one to have to beg for forgiveness for such base behavior. I would rather be the one who is ASKED to give my forgiveness.
And finally, the little moral issue of LYING, CHEATING, STEALING.
I can't stand that type of behavior so I certainly don't engage in it.
Oh yea, as for what to do?
A man would dump his girl for whatever reason. If you want to man up and tell her that you can't keep your dick in your pants when you've been drinking and trick hos throw themselves at you, by all means do. She will be hurt (maybe) but she will get over you if she has even *this much* self esteem. If she takes you back you got it made. You have a NO SELF-ESTEEM potential life mate.
As for the other girl, try to tap that ass as many times as you can but remember to wrap that shit tight. If she laid down for you so easily (with all her friends and family knowing the deal) then could you just imagine how many others she has fucked?
Not a moral judgment - sex is a gift.
Just trying to give you the heads up on what type of females you are dealing with.
very well put...but I'm still not going to admit to anything.
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conundrum said:
K... understandable as you want your cake and eat it to.
But lemme ask you this: if your girl did to you what you did to her, wouldn't you want to know? Purely so that you would be free to make an intelligent decision as to whether or not you would want to invest any more of YOUR TIME in the relationship?
BTW - how old are you and your girl?
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conundrum said:
then why bring it up at all? bragging rights?
