I broke up with bf/ I'm back

[Bikini Mod]

Thanks everyone! I really appreciate everyone's well wishes very much. My big challenges now are deciding whether to go home to Kentucky, where I am licensed to practice law or staying here and getting a different job. I have to get back up on my feet financially. I gave away most all of my belongings when I came down here. It's sort of an intimidating time for me right now, but I will be okay. =-)

PPPPPppppffffffffffffffffttttt

Intimidating, shmintimidating!!!

You gonna let ONE ASSHOLE decide your future for you? FUCK THAT.

Do you like FL? If so, then stay... but it will be harder because of your ex. You need to decide what is more important to you: You liking FL or getting away from your ex completely and making a fresh start. Regardless, you can always change your mind.

Best part?

YOU GET TO MAKE ALL YOUR OWN DECISIONS INDEPENDENT OF ANYONE!! HOW EXCITING IS THAT:!?!?!

Why not go someplace else altogether? Think about it.

 

[wootoom]

im glad i have a good marriage hearing all this shit makes me sick

 

[Lao Tzu]

The most sound pc of advice ever!
When I fixed me, all of a sudden I started to find wonderful people.

Same here. You attract what you feel you deserve and what you are used to. Once you change that the people you find change as well.

 

[jnevin]

im glad i have a good marriage hearing all this shit makes me sick

...

 

[rubberneck]

I had a g/f like that. Just nuts. Look at the waitress to order my food - and here comes the accusations of what I was looking at! Crazy beotch. The dumbest thing I did - was I kept saying to myself - ok, stop doing this one thing and she'll calm down - then - ok, stop doing this other thing and she'll calm down. Guess what? She never calmed down.

I'm in the same type of relationship!!!!

 

[heatherrae]

PPPPPppppffffffffffffffffttttt

Intimidating, shmintimidating!!!

You gonna let ONE ASSHOLE decide your future for you? FUCK THAT.

Do you like FL? If so, then stay... but it will be harder because of your ex. You need to decide what is more important to you: You liking FL or getting away from your ex completely and making a fresh start. Regardless, you can always change your mind.

Best part?

YOU GET TO MAKE ALL YOUR OWN DECISIONS INDEPENDENT OF ANYONE!! HOW EXCITING IS THAT:!?!?!

Why not go someplace else altogether? Think about it.

Holy shit, you are the coolest chickadee ever!

 

[Longhorn85]

After all the heartache my ex put me through,

and then went and married myself a pathological liar/emotional manipulator and it took a decade before I would acknowlege the situation, could accept that he would never change and things would never get better.

I've been there done that once.

My big challenges now are deciding whether to go home to Kentucky, where I am licensed to practice law or staying here and getting a different job.

I do have firsthand knowledge of how much havoc a nasty black-hearted individual can wreak in the life of someone

Dang, some jilted womens up in here

 

[bigmann245]

wow heather im so sorry. i hope everything works out for you.... you so dont deserve to treated like that. you are a very kind and sweet woman. no man should ever lay a hand on any woman for ANY reason at all. need anything let me know.

 

[heatherrae]

Thank you Bigmann. You are a true gentleman.

Hey longhorn, how are you, my conservative, Republican bud? ;-)

 

[imystify]

stop. talking. to. him. he. won't. change. move. move. move. why would you not a) go practice law and get your lift tight or b) sit the bar elsewhere.. or something.