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I am gonna be nice from now on...

Nobledude

Nobledude

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At least I am gonna try...

Maybe due to my state of my depression my anger level is high and my temper can flare at any time without warning if I feel that I am being dissed ...

I cant stand idiots, especially those customer service people whose IQ barely go over two digits or morons on the road...I tell myself before I go behind the wheels...."relax and dont get confrontational if idiots pisses you off"...but as soon as some asshole cuts me off or drive too slow on the fast lane....my own caveat is out the window...

I am gonna try to be a bit nicer ....

ND dixit!
 
there is no sanity like "clearing your head". push everything out. thats what iv decided im going to do as of last saturday
 
I saw a shrink a year ago to get some advice as to how can I stifle and manage my anger...That dude was weird and seemed to need more help than I needed...
I guess in order to be a shrink you need to have some serious issues.....


So any tips from the nice peeps as to how to become nicer and ignore the idiots and their actions?

Angry peeps feel free to pitch in too....
 
fact is, you can't control what other people do and how they respond.

you can only control what your reaction and perception is. you're only harming yourself by getting upset over other people.

if i lived in the city i live in now and let every little thing get to me (which i did for awhile), i'd be standing on a ledge or in jail. people will always be stupid, fuck it. thats their issue

i use humor now as a mature response to stupidity...usually leaves a smile on my face
 
anger feels like fear or panic I'd hate to be angry all the time - its not healthy either.

Try to control your anger in the same way you would deal with stress, deep breaths, happy thoughts (lol) and imagine that those people that are cutting you off are rushing to the hospital to be with their dying fathers, or the slow person is your grandma, sweet old lady. Try and picture yourself having a drink with them or something and it makes you see them as a person instead of a car.

good luck on trying to be nice.
 
calveless wonder said:
fact is, you can't control what other people do and how they respond.

you can only control what your reaction and perception is. you're only harming yourself by getting upset over other people.

if i lived in the city i live in now and let every little thing get to me (which i did for awhile), i'd be standing on a ledge or in jail. people will always be stupid, fuck it. thats their issue

i use humor now as a mature response to stupidity...usually leaves a smile on my face
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That line was used by the shrink I saw last year....I saw him two times....couldnt see him again as he seemed a bit off..

I wish there was a panacea that would sanitize my cerebrum and take away my anger issues///
 
Nobledude said:
That line was used by the shrink I saw last year....I saw him two times....couldnt see him again as he seemed a bit off..

I wish there was a panacea that would sanitize my cerebrum and take away my anger issues///
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do you juice?
 
Nobledude said:
I saw a shrink a year ago to get some advice as to how can I stifle and manage my anger...That dude was weird and seemed to need more help than I needed...
I guess in order to be a shrink you need to have some serious issues.....


So any tips from the nice peeps as to how to become nicer and ignore the idiots and their actions?

Angry peeps feel free to pitch in too....
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I wish I could give you some tips.:( I'm in the same boat as you. The last few months I swear I can actually feel my blood heating up and pushing against my skin, never had that happen before. Am I gonna die?
 
Prozac will help bro. Take 5-10mg every morning and your outbreaks should lower. I am very high strung, as most of you know, and that helps me a lot. Also take a sleeping pill so you get enough rest.
 
Nobledude said:
At least I am gonna try...

Maybe due to my state of my depression my anger level is high and my temper can flare at any time without warning if I feel that I am being dissed ...

I cant stand idiots, especially those customer service people whose IQ barely go over two digits or morons on the road...I tell myself before I go behind the wheels...."relax and dont get confrontational if idiots pisses you off"...but as soon as some asshole cuts me off or drive too slow on the fast lane....my own caveat is out the window...

I am gonna try to be a bit nicer ....

ND dixit!
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Just hit and run a single mom. You will feel better.

Bluta says they are all crazy and it is ok.
 
LuluDeren said:
I wish I could give you some tips.:( I'm in the same boat as you. The last few months I swear I can actually feel my blood heating up and pushing against my skin, never had that happen before. Am I gonna die?
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anger attack kinda like a panic attack

My hands will actually shake everything is the same like a panic attack only no doom is coming to me. haha
 
cindylou said:
anger attack kinda like a panic attack

My hands will actually shake everything is the same like a panic attack only no doom is coming to me. haha
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Yes, it's similar to that, and my body kind of shivers, it's bizarre.
 
LuluDeren said:
I wish I could give you some tips.:( I'm in the same boat as you. The last few months I swear I can actually feel my blood heating up and pushing against my skin, never had that happen before. Am I gonna die?
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Damn that Banana pronz really pisses you off!!!

bannaaa.jpg
 
yonkers weights said:
Prozac will help bro. Take 5-10mg every morning and your outbreaks should lower. I am very high strung, as most of you know, and that helps me a lot. Also take a sleeping pill so you get enough rest.
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fuck that...I have read about it...it doesnt treat the underlying problems ...it just stifles your emotions..plus some horrible side effects...

I am not a proponent of medications...I am willing to give it try to homeopathic remedies.
 
Meds or Meditation

I went with meds and it helps a lot. I feel more relaxed.

Think of the meds as a bucket. Think of stress as water.
The more stress you have the higher the bucket fills. The meds = a larger bucket which in return lets you handle more stress and you don't get as worked up so fast. It works for me.
 
LuluDeren said:
I wish I could give you some tips.:( I'm in the same boat as you. The last few months I swear I can actually feel my blood heating up and pushing against my skin, never had that happen before. Am I gonna die?
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Angry peeps lets unite....bring Blueta too to the Anger Boat....fuck Love Boat...
 
LuluDeren said:
It's only been banana pron the last few days.....don't EVEN be mentioning pomegranates. :evil:
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Ok I won't!

I learned my lesson by bringing up single moms to Bluta. She really let me have it!
 
cindylou said:
anger feels like fear or panic I'd hate to be angry all the time - its not healthy either.

Try to control your anger in the same way you would deal with stress, deep breaths, happy thoughts (lol) and imagine that those people that are cutting you off are rushing to the hospital to be with their dying fathers, or the slow person is your grandma, sweet old lady. Try and picture yourself having a drink with them or something and it makes you see them as a person instead of a car.

good luck on trying to be nice.
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How would you deal with those dumbasses cust service people ? They easily arise the anger level on me when instead of being helpful are downright idiots ....

I always end up asking to speak with their supervisor or threaten them with canceling my account....mot of the time it works and I get my issues addressed but my emotions are at a high level and I feel exhausted after one of those battles..
 
Nobledude said:
How would you deal with those dumbasses cust service people ? They easily arise the anger level on me when instead of being helpful are downright idiots ....

I always end up asking to speak with their supervisor or threaten them with canceling my account....mot of the time it works and I get my issues addressed but my emotions are at a high level and I feel exhausted after one of those battles..
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I ridicule them and try to make them feel bad for being stupid, it's very cathartic.

I actually like getting angry it's like a fuel.

Cheers,
Scotsman
 
Scotsman said:
I ridicule them and try to make them feel bad for being stupid, it's very cathartic.

I actually like getting angry it's like a fuel.

Cheers,
Scotsman
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I dont really enjoy getting angry but I cant help it....I turn into a volcano if the person at the other end of the line doesnt properly address my issues....funny thing is ...it works most of the time....I get what I want at the end but my anger level is always at the boiling point....
 
Nobledude said:
I dont really enjoy getting angry but I cant help it....I turn into a volcano if the person at the other end of the line doesnt properly address my issues....funny thing is ...it works most of the time....I get what I want at the end but my anger level is always at the boiling point....
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I use the anger at the gym a lot. I also am constantly cursing people while driving because it makes me feel better to call them a halfwittedfuckstickcockmonger than to try and calm myself.

Cheers,
Scotsman
 
well since I'm on a mission to be mean, Can't help you. Being nice makes you absorb too much of the outside world.
Being nice and being angry are two diff things, You can be a nice angry person. I never ever get angry to strangers or lose it in public. I keep my cool and am always pleasant.

But you and I will talk later :-)
 
Scotsman said:
I use the anger at the gym a lot. I also am constantly cursing people while driving because it makes me feel better to call them a halfwittedfuckstickcockmonger than to try and calm myself.

Cheers,
Scotsman
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I hate all those people with their fake smile....once I was having an ultrasound and at the end of the procedure I finally brought up a slight smile ...for the most of the procedure I was stoic and serious...

the lady goes.." so you can smile"....I go " yea, I bring it up once in a while when I feel like....I hate having that sealed fake smile all the time...if it aint genuine my smile doesnt come out"...

She was speechless...

I 'd rather have serious peeps with no smiles dealing with me than idiots with fake and just for show smile...
 
blueta2 said:
well since I'm on a mission to be mean, Can't help you. Being nice makes you absorb too much of the outside world.
Being nice and being angry are two diff things, You can be a nice angry person. I never ever get angry to strangers or lose it in public. I keep my cool and am always pleasant.

But you and I will talk later :-)
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will you be fully clothed??
 
Nobledude said:
I hate all those people with their fake smile....once I was having an ultrasound and at the end of the procedure I finally brought up a slight smile ...for the most of the procedure I was stoic and serious...

the lady goes.." so you can smile"....I go " yea, I bring it up once in a while when I feel like....I hate having that sealed fake smile all the time...if it aint genuine my smile doesnt come out"...

She was speechless...

I 'd rather have serious peeps with no smiles dealing with me than idiots with fake and just for show smile...
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Exactly I smile when there's a reason to otherwise I have the super stoic thing going on. I don't even smile for pics unless someone catches me laughing.

Cheers,
Scotsman
 
Scotsman said:
Exactly I smile when there's a reason to otherwise I have the super stoic thing going on. I don't even smile for pics unless someone catches me laughing.

Cheers,
Scotsman
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stingy smile, huh?

my smile is precious and if it aint genuine it stays hidden...
 
Nobledude said:
stingy smile, huh?

my smile is precious and if it aint genuine it stays hidden...
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Very stingy.LOL

I almost got fired from a job because I don't smile. I almost made the manager cry with my response it was awesome.

Cheers,
Scotsman
 
Scotsman said:
Very stingy.LOL

I almost got fired from a job because I don't smile. I almost made the manager cry with my response it was awesome.

Cheers,
Scotsman
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I hear you....I have been told to bring up my smile more often too...

How did you make your manager cry?
 
Nobledude said:
I hear you....I have been told to bring up my smile more often too...

How did you make your manager cry?
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I started getting in his face and yelling at him about how people who smile all the time are stupid fucking jackasses and that my job was to be a doorman (bar job) not everyone's best friend and that if he didn't like it he could go right ahead and fire me and see what happened then. He ran off and hid in the office for a couple of hours, it was awesome.

Cheers,
Scotsman
 
Scotsman said:
I started getting in his face and yelling at him about how people who smile all the time are stupid fucking jackasses and that my job was to be a doorman (bar job) not everyone's best friend and that if he didn't like it he could go right ahead and fire me and see what happened then. He ran off and hid in the office for a couple of hours, it was awesome.

Cheers,
Scotsman
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lol.....you wont last a day at Wall Mart...
 
Nobledude said:
do what?
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just dont deal with anything you dont like/dont want to. if someone pisses you off tell them they suck without actually caring analyzing why they suck, etc
 
SublimeZM said:
just dont deal with anything you dont like/dont want to. if someone pisses you off tell them they suck without actually caring analyzing why they suck, etc
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without further introspection, huh?
 
calveless wonder said:
fact is, you can't control what other people do and how they respond.

you can only control what your reaction and perception is. you're only harming yourself by getting upset over other people.

if i lived in the city i live in now and let every little thing get to me (which i did for awhile), i'd be standing on a ledge or in jail. people will always be stupid, fuck it. thats their issue

i use humor now as a mature response to stupidity...usually leaves a smile on my face
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good post. just make fun of them with a smile, and if they get mad at YOU, then you know u can revert back to anger and beat them down.

you get the same test boost from raging on someone as comedically owning them,
 
Nobledude said:
without further introspection, huh?
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be yourself and dont worry about it.

anger is awsome, but the cortisol from worrying about it isnt. do what you do without hastling your brain about it.

i am not making sense, im trying to though
 
SublimeZM said:
be yourself and dont worry about it.

anger is awsome, but the cortisol from worrying about it isnt. do what you do without hastling your brain about it.

i am not making sense, im trying to though
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I am myself but there are times when my temper boiled over and got me in trouble at work and not only..

At one time I was even barred from the vet after the stupid ass receptionist complained to her boss that I was being rude...

My cat had been in a fight and got a nasty wound on her back filled with puss and blood...I was very worried and got really pissed when that dumb ass, slow retarded biatch was asking me tones of questions in order to do her stupid ritual about getting all the info and shit...

I said to her that I will be happy to give her and my waist size if she will take the cat in the back office for examination and later on we can do all the shit she wanted.....My face was getting red and my tone of voice was threatening as the biatch was freaking out....

Later on I got a letter in the mail stating that my presence at the vet wasnt welcome anymore


Fuck'em....When my pets are in trouble I get very upset if they dont get proper attention right away...my situation was an emergency IMO and I saw not use for delaying my cat for those stupid paperwork..

Just one of my stories///
 
Scotsman said:
I'll see if Notre Dame needs a new quasimodo.

Cheers,
Scotsman
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I've already secured a position at Chartes, I'm gonna be Quasifield. I'm gonna eat spiders and throw poop at everyone.
 
Nobledude said:
I am myself but there are times when my temper boiled over and got me in trouble at work and not only..

At one time I was even barred from the vet after the stupid ass receptionist complained to her boss that I was being rude...

My cat had been in a fight and got a nasty wound on her back filled with puss and blood...I was very worried and got really pissed when that dumb ass, slow retarded biatch was asking me tones of questions in order to do her stupid ritual about getting all the info and shit...

I said to her that I will be happy to give her and my waist size if she will take the cat in the back office for examination and later on we can do all the shit she wanted.....My face was getting red and my tone of voice was threatening as the biatch was freaking out....

Later on I got a letter in the mail stating that my presence at the vet wasnt welcome anymore


Fuck'em....When my pets are in trouble I get very upset if they dont get proper attention right away...my situation was an emergency IMO and I saw not use for delaying my cat for those stupid paperwork..

Just one of my stories///
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hahha thats funny. sounds like the shit my mom does, except its more acceptable coming from a woman than a jacked dude.
 
Nobledude said:
At least I am gonna try...

Maybe due to my state of my depression my anger level is high and my temper can flare at any time without warning if I feel that I am being dissed ...

I cant stand idiots, especially those customer service people whose IQ barely go over two digits or morons on the road...I tell myself before I go behind the wheels...."relax and dont get confrontational if idiots pisses you off"...but as soon as some asshole cuts me off or drive too slow on the fast lane....my own caveat is out the window...

I am gonna try to be a bit nicer ....

ND dixit!
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if you find out how to let it go.. let me know.. i'll give it a try..
 
LuluDeren said:
I've already secured a position at Chartes, I'm gonna be Quasifield. I'm gonna eat spiders and throw poop at everyone.
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We should hook up and have little hunchback poop thrower kids.

Cheers,
Scotsman
 
Scotsman said:
We should hook up and have little hunchback poop thrower kids.

Cheers,
Scotsman
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LOL. It'd be a tribe and instead of raping and pillaging villages, we could pepper their streets with poopies!
 
LuluDeren said:
LOL. It'd be a tribe and instead of raping and pillaging villages, we could pepper their streets with poopies!
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Raping and pillaging is fun too though.

Cheers,
Scotsman
 
Scotsman said:
Raping and pillaging is fun too though.

Cheers,
Scotsman
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LOL, true. I'll handle the pillaging part though, I've worked a mall the day after Thanksgiving so I KNOW strategy.
 
LuluDeren said:
LOL, true. I'll handle the pillaging part though, I've worked a mall the day after Thanksgiving so I KNOW strategy.
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Seashell and I always wanted to go cattle prod the x-mas shoppers. Since she's not around anymore you'll do just fine.

Cheers,
Scotsman
 
Scotsman said:
Seashell and I always wanted to go cattle prod the x-mas shoppers. Since she's not around anymore you'll do just fine.

Cheers,
Scotsman
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I'd be honored. I wasn't around when Seashell was here, but she seems to have left a wonderful legacy. I'll make her proud by tazering the rich folks exiting Saks:D
 
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