How would you have approached this women

[Machiavellian Muscle]

Ok looking for serious answers...

...I was at the Barnes and Noble yesterday and noticed the most beautiful women looking at the women's magazines. She was stunning to say the least and looking around my age (28) or perhaps a little less. Physically she looked like she could be a dancer/fitness model and I been there done that, but wanted to approach her anyway. I am just getting back into the singles scene and I am still a little uncomfortable approaching on theth spot especially in this type of quite environment (bookstore).

Now back to the question, is it considered rude to go directly up to her and introduce myself or do you think she just wants to read the magazines and not be hit on. Out of respect I didn't do anything, but now I am kicking myself in the ass and feeling like I chickened out.

 

[FISHTALES]

being that you might not ever see her again, should have just talked to her.

 

[alien amp pharm]

Did you check to see if she had a ring on her finger?

Anyways, I would've thought of something funny & clever to say about something she was reading perhaps. Don't ask me exactly what because I never say anything funny & clever.

If she was interested she would then smile, giggle, &/or talk to you. If not you would've been able to tell.

 

[Machiavellian Muscle]

Yeah I know I will never see her again. I am learning from my mistakes. Normally I am really good at these things, but that damn bookstore was so quite that it added fuel to my anxiety. Man if you guys saw the ass on this chick it was unreal.

So hitting on women in this situation wouldn't be out of the question then.

 

[Citruscide]

Ok looking for serious answers...

...I was at the Barnes and Noble yesterday and noticed the most beautiful women looking at the women's magazines. She was stunning to say the least and looking around my age (28) or perhaps a little less. Physically she looked like she could be a dancer/fitness model and I been there done that, but wanted to approach her anyway. I am just getting back into the singles scene and I am still a little uncomfortable approaching on theth spot especially in this type of quite environment (bookstore).

Now back to the question, is it considered rude to go directly up to her and introduce myself or do you think she just wants to read the magazines and not be hit on. Out of respect I didn't do anything, but now I am kicking myself in the ass and feeling like I chickened out.

While it may seem noble to sit back and not talk to her because you didn't want to "bother" her... probably 1000 dudes have done that in the past, and she probably never gets "hit on" at all.

I hit on a girl at the laundramat... she was hot as hell... within 2 minutes of the conversation she told me how no one ever talks to her and she was taken aback by being approached in a laundramat... we talked, and have gone out once... and I'm going out with her again next week.

The best way to approach a stranger, is just to talk to her. I started off with a joke ... it was kind of gay, but when we made Eye Contact and she looked at me a little TOO long to just be a glance, I asked her if she forgot to add her fabric softner, because if she did... they make great sheets now you can just throw in the dryer and I had an extra 54 in my basket she could borrow.

You'd be surprised in yourself man... never sell yourself short and always have confidence... I know, I've approached women/girls without confidence, and they can smell the chicken-shit all over you ... LOL -- it's better if you walk up with confidence as if you just know how to talk to people...

Ok, this is long... e-mail me if you need more advice.

C-ditty -- the kinder, more gentler Citrus

 

[biteme]

You only live once and it's short at that. What are you waiting for?

 

[Y_lifter]

Should have picked up an S&M mag and asked her if she had ever read it..

 

[Machiavellian Muscle]

Your right I should have approached her, but I guess it was so quite and there were a couple of people sipping coffee and reading magazines as well. I felt like the other people would be listening etc. Call it inscecurity I guess or just lack of that type of experience. I will get better though.

 

[Bullit]

Don't ask me exactly what because I never say anything funny & clever.

Thanks for wrecking any crack I could've made.

Jerk.

 

[alien amp pharm]