How shy are you?

[Scotsman]

LMFAO! I was so out of it I thought I was dreaming... er, having a nightmare. I had to go through my call log the next day just to verify that I actually talked to you.

I'll remember to turn my phone off next time. Give me a heads up text before you get to the bar.

LOL, you sounded like you had no idea who you were talking to.

If I send you a heads up text then I can't very well suprise you now can I?

Cheers,
Scotsman

 

[Spartacus]

So true... thats why I'm glad I've made an ass out of myself so many times, been overeager so many times, and blown it to decondition myself get over that voice that reeks of self importance... hard voice not to listen to though.
Can be so convincing at times.. but he's cost me too much

it's not self-importance
for me it's more about having the right intro and to avoid the come on approach
I hate the idea that I'm coming on to a chcik

so I'll bide my time and wait for a better angle
and even then when I'm satisfied it's time
I don't go

 

[Stefka]

It really varies for me. Some days I'm super social and some days I get uncomfortable if someone even looks at me.
I can get over my shyness and meet fun people and have a fantastic time, but I have to get in the right mindset as it takes work.

 

[vansmack2000]

dialing the digits to ask for a first date can be a tough one

 

[calveless wonder]

if i'm not feeling right about something or i'm insecure (know that i'm looking bummy etc) i keep alot more to myself. when i'm looking and feeling good, i'm pretty outgoing.

it varies though, sometimes i get anxiety for no reason.

i'm awesome with strangers though (moreso with a little alcohol)

 

[-Ariel-]

it's not self-importance
for me it's more about having the right intro and to avoid the come on approach
I hate the idea that I'm coming on to a chcik

so I'll bide my time and wait for a better angle
and even then when I'm satisfied it's time
I don't go

I agree, I see that, I dunno whether its a cultural thing where flip women are vain, and the men even vainer...

too many times I've came in just reeking of self exuberance and then shot down, I've gotten a little wiser, but the best times are when I'm able to actually just connect... I don't care with who... that feeling of being understood, making the self known is why we are alive.

you are right, i think you lose a lot of the total experience of actually meeting people when you put the seduction hat, it does cheapen things... but who actually knows that at 23-27. If they do, thats a very wise kid.

 

[PICK3]

I'm shy around Mo's

 

[AztecWarrior]

I'm anything but shy.

 

[Longhorn85]

Mrs Longhorn says I am good at engaging all kinds of people. I like to talk and listen and I'm openly curious.

 

[Mr. dB]

Dealing with strangers gives me social anxiety, but I can be gregarious if I'm in my comfort zone.