How many partners is tooo many?

[Test boy]

Reality check for those who say it doesn't matter. Every time you do something it becomes easier to do. Promiscuous people make a very poor risk if you value loyalty.

I'd say that more than one partner/year would concern me. It's just statistics....I look at those closely.

If we are just having fun then I do not care about her past.

 

[Taps]

Well...

There's a girl I'm becoming interested in. She's a good friend and it looks like something more may develop.....
She's been with a LOT of guys. I won't say how many, but's it's like 5 times the number of girls I've been with.

Know what? It doesn't bother me at all. I care about her and she cares about me. Whoever came before and whoever may come after just isn't a factor.

I'm the most openminded person I know when it comes to sex, so maybe I'm unique. I know 99% of other guys coun't hanlde it. But hey, if you hold someones past against them, it's your loss.

 

[danielson]

echoing what taps, havoc, matt and other said, the past is the past

men who sleep around are ok, but women arent? whats a good no. for men?

is there any difference between a woman who sleeps with 80 guys or a woman who has slept with 2 guys 40 times each, provided they are all with a condom?

i WOULD hold it against her if she did any of them unprotected. she's at WAYYY higher risk of contracting EVERYTHING


i wuite liberal in this respect i guess, but i have no problem with free love and shit. if a person wants to satisfy thenmselves that way they can and i would have no problem with it. i wouldnt think about it either as i can detach myself from a lot of stuff like that.

 

[FreakMonster]

Well...

There's a girl I'm becoming interested in. She's a good friend and it looks like something more may develop.....
She's been with a LOT of guys. I won't say how many, but's it's like 5 times the number of girls I've been with.

Know what? It doesn't bother me at all. I care about her and she cares about me. Whoever came before and whoever may come after just isn't a factor.

I'm the most openminded person I know when it comes to sex, so maybe I'm unique. I know 99% of other guys coun't hanlde it. But hey, if you hold someones past against them, it's your loss.

Number 256, please step forward!!!

 

[Test boy]

echoing what taps, havoc, matt and other said, the past is the past

men who sleep around are ok, but women arent? whats a good no. for men?

is there any difference between a woman who sleeps with 80 guys or a woman who has slept with 2 guys 40 times each, provided they are all with a condom?

i WOULD hold it against her if she did any of them unprotected. she's at WAYYY higher risk of contracting EVERYTHING


i wuite liberal in this respect i guess, but i have no problem with free love and shit. if a person wants to satisfy thenmselves that way they can and i would have no problem with it. i wouldnt think about it either as i can detach myself from a lot of stuff like that.

Yep...huge difference. One person had 80 partners and the other had 2 partners.

You really expect people to use a condom the first time they have sex with a new partner? Most of us too eager to get it on... to start the girl to wondering if she would really be doing this. Of course we should wear condoms but I'll confess I don't use them as much though I should. But then....I think promiscuous but I'm not really.

Doesn't the day after pill make someone bloat?

 

[danielson]

Yep...huge difference. One person had 80 partners and the other had 2 partners.

You really expect people to use a condom the first time they have sex with a new partner? Most of us too eager to get it on... to start the girl to wondering if she would really be doing this. Of course we should wear condoms but I'll confess I don't use them as much though I should. But then....I think promiscuous but I'm not really.

Doesn't the day after pill make someone bloat?

well a lot of people do. some dont, which is why i would always use a condom.

if she had sex with 80 people safely, assuming no condom breakage, her risk for HIV should be fairly low. if she had sex with 1 guy, and he had HIV her risk of infection would be higher.

ok....so a lot more comes into play, those 80 people are all unknown status etc....but if she took precautions her risk should be low

no idea about the bloating...id think that would be the least of her worries though

 

[Test boy]

well a lot of people do. some dont, which is why i would always use a condom.

if she had sex with 80 people safely, assuming no condom breakage, her risk for HIV should be fairly low. if she had sex with 1 guy, and he had HIV her risk of infection would be higher.

ok....so a lot more comes into play, those 80 people are all unknown status etc....but if she took precautions her risk should be low

no idea about the bloating...id think that would be the least of her worries though

Easier said than done(using a condom). Getting laid sometimes involves various forms of deception and trickery. Pulling out a condom is wise but I could easily see it putting the brakes on the seduction. You couldn't provide the needed friction to keep her brain shut down while you fussed with the condom.

 

[danielson]

Easier said than done(using a condom). Getting laid sometimes involves various forms of deception and trickery. Pulling out a condom is wise but I could easily see it putting the brakes on the seduction. You couldn't provide the needed friction to keep her brain shut down while you fussed with the condom.

maybe but if she didnt wanna screw with a condom id have doubt about giving it to her at all. if you bring your own one it shouldnt be a problem getting it to fit

 

[Test boy]

maybe but if she didnt wanna screw with a condom id have doubt about giving it to her at all. if you bring your own one it shouldnt be a problem getting it to fit

Probably wise thinking in the final analysis.

I don't need the XLG condoms though I once ordered some because the Playboy poll said that I should based on measurements. An average condom will fit over your arm. Guys who claim that condoms are too small are dreaming.

However...telling some dames that you buy custom condoms will not hurt your cause in my experience.

Didn't you say that you can do extraordinary things with your tongue? That should score more pussy than you can handle. I'll bet I could get 33% of the girls in a typical bar if I walked up to them and offered to go down on them. They love it more than anything. Anything!

 

[Wynn]

If she's raised enough crabs to open a seafood restaurant- reconsider.

I'm not sure I'd use previous relationships to determine if she's marriage material.