How many of you ladies snoop?

[Go For Gains]

I checked her phone and there was a missed call from "new boyfriend" (yep that's what name he was saved under) so i changed my name to "it's over."


LOL...need to remeber that one

 

[blueta2]

Dude must have had clintonesque social skills... I would've thought you could smelled defective right away... usually insecurites that deep come to the surface or manifest themselves... I dunno, he must have depersonalized the whole experience... I've dated a crazy one before with border line issues, but nothing that even smells like this... But bondage.... the word sounds bad, and the imagery is much worse... If that shit happened to me I would hire a PI everytime I even thought about letting someone get close...

I had some indication, but I was trusting by nature and a little naive. I was with somoene 11 yrs before him so was not too savvy about dating.

I actually felt bad for this guy and wanted to help him. Like I take in the stray cats all over my neighborhood, I wanted to "safe" this guy.

 

[blueta2]

You dated pick3?

I WISH ;-)

 

[blueta2]

LOL. She was a dumbass for saving it under "new boyfriend".

Every girl knows you save the other guy under "Jessica". lol

HAHAHA.......funny

 

[GUARDIAN]

pick3 would like the link to his profile please

I was with my guy for 11 yrs and not once snooped on him even when he came home after 11 yrs and said "I'm leaving".
Two yrs later I was with the younger dude and for the first yr we were together, I never once snooped. It was not in my make-up to snoop.
UNTIL, my friend suspected he was a liar, so her and I figured out his hotmail password and she was right, he was cheating on me. I also found out he was on 4 diff on line pick up sites, on bondage web sites and so much more!
I went into his bondage web site and found his profile where he hasd 5 pics of himself was wearing a dog chain and masturbating and asking to have sex with men.
I'm glad I snooped, but this experience made me mistrust all men.

I think once someone (MEN or women) have been burned badly, they have an instinct to look out for their best interests. Which dispels the silly theory that if you don't trust someone don't be with them. No one gets my trust until they earn it

 

[GUARDIAN]

my ex used to snoop all the fucking time. she left her purse in my car one night and told me to go get it. i heard a beep (her phone) so i was like hmmm. now i'm not the snooping type myself and i absolutely hate chicks who do that. but curiousity came over me and i never expected to find dirt on her. I checked her phone and there was a missed call from "new boyfriend" (yep that's what name he was saved under) so i changed my name to "it's over."went inside gave her the purse like nothing was wrong. we finished watching the movie and i took her home. I called her a few hours later and she answered and i just hung up... i won't bother with snoopers. that was the first and last time i'll ever do that shit.

thats fucking awesome!

 

[NEO1]

Aaaah the days of having 2 cells.....I remember them well

 

[-Ariel-]

I was with my guy for 11 yrs and not once snooped on him even when he came home after 11 yrs and said "I'm leaving".
Two yrs later I was with the younger dude and for the first yr we were together, I never once snooped. It was not in my make-up to snoop.
UNTIL, my friend suspected he was a liar, so her and I figured out his hotmail password and she was right, he was cheating on me. I also found out he was on 4 diff on line pick up sites, on bondage web sites and so much more!
I went into his bondage web site and found his profile where he hasd 5 pics of himself was wearing a dog chain and masturbating and asking to have sex with men.
I'm glad I snooped, but this experience made me mistrust all men.

I think once someone (MEN or women) have been burned badly, they have an instinct to look out for their best interests. Which dispels the silly theory that if you don't trust someone don't be with them. No one gets my trust until they earn it

This should get thread of the week just for her post... Trust... I would have that word revoked in my vocabulary if that shit happened to me... I had to repost this cause it woke my shit up more than the pot of coffee I downed this morning. I give major props to BlueTa for being strong and getting past that shit... I've heard some stories and I still admit I'm naive... but
damn

 

[GUARDIAN]

This should get thread of the week just for her post... Trust... I would have that word revoked in my vocabulary if that shit happened to me... I had to repost this cause it woke my shit up more than the pot of coffee I downed this morning. I give major props to BlueTa for being strong and getting past that shit... I've heard some stories and I still admit I'm naive... but
damn

well if it gets enough posts in it, it would be in the running to be voted on

 

[Spartacus]

"Catch" is the key word, they are sneaky bro. In and out of your phone, wallet, drawers, etc and you don't even have a clue

take a strand of hair and lay it just so across the shit in your drawers
if the hair has moved as if someone has been in your shit messin' around
well then you know