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How many of you ladies snoop?
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squatmonkey
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I cant hide shit! Its not even worth it. I can hide some gear in place where she never ever goes, the next day she'll just happen to find that shit. I dont really have to hide the shit from her, she knows I do it. I just dont want to do it in front of her and she would'nt like me pinning every day, But where ever I hide it, she finds it every time.
blueta2
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I was with my guy for 11 yrs and not once snooped on him even when he came home after 11 yrs and said "I'm leaving".
Two yrs later I was with the younger dude and for the first yr we were together, I never once snooped. It was not in my make-up to snoop.
UNTIL, my friend suspected he was a liar, so her and I figured out his hotmail password and she was right, he was cheating on me. I also found out he was on 4 diff on line pick up sites, on bondage web sites and so much more!
I went into his bondage web site and found his profile where he hasd 5 pics of himself was wearing a dog chain and masturbating and asking to have sex with men.
I'm glad I snooped, but this experience made me mistrust all men.
I think once someone (MEN or women) have been burned badly, they have an instinct to look out for their best interests. Which dispels the silly theory that if you don't trust someone don't be with them. No one gets my trust until they earn it
Two yrs later I was with the younger dude and for the first yr we were together, I never once snooped. It was not in my make-up to snoop.
UNTIL, my friend suspected he was a liar, so her and I figured out his hotmail password and she was right, he was cheating on me. I also found out he was on 4 diff on line pick up sites, on bondage web sites and so much more!
I went into his bondage web site and found his profile where he hasd 5 pics of himself was wearing a dog chain and masturbating and asking to have sex with men.
I'm glad I snooped, but this experience made me mistrust all men.
I think once someone (MEN or women) have been burned badly, they have an instinct to look out for their best interests. Which dispels the silly theory that if you don't trust someone don't be with them. No one gets my trust until they earn it
AztecWarrior
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blueta2 said:
Thats fuckin nuts Blue. That guy had some issues. Just sick.
blueta2
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cindylou said:
It was so messed up. I would have NEVER thought this guy had deep issues.
Yes he's a sex addict
When I did confront him, he was in denial but then admitted some other crazy stuff. I think he wanted help but wasn't ready for it. His sister was raped over and over by the family butler (they were wealthy) and I believe he was also molested but he would not admit it.
It all comes down to trust. With out this there is nothing.
Dude must have had clintonesque social skills... I would've thought you could smelled defective right away... usually insecurites that deep come to the surface or manifest themselves... I dunno, he must have depersonalized the whole experience... I've dated a crazy one before with border line issues, but nothing that even smells like this... But bondage.... the word sounds bad, and the imagery is much worse... If that shit happened to me I would hire a PI everytime I even thought about letting someone get close...blueta2 said:
