IMO it's not a good thing. There's nothing like being in love. May never happen to me again. All I have is memories. It's not hard to fall in love once or twice and even 3 times. But, ater that, it becomes increasingly more difficult.
sad to say but once you start letting a girl know you really like her or care about her or miss her, things change. Even if she was the first to start with the mushy stuff. It's like she figures now she doesnt have to work at it, she knows she's got you.
maybe I should date women instead of girls is the problem