How many of you guys claim to be not very mushy with your gf's

[chewyxrage]

sad to say but once you start letting a girl know you really like her or care about her or miss her, things change. Even if she was the first to start with the mushy stuff. It's like she figures now she doesnt have to work at it, she knows she's got you.

maybe I should date women instead of girls is the problem

That's a pretty sad way to look at it. Yeah I would say it depends on the girl, the one I have now nothing changed, it's just been getting better and better (mentally and sexually)

 

[seizer]

sad to say but once you start letting a girl know you really like her or care about her or miss her, things change. Even if she was the first to start with the mushy stuff. It's like she figures now she doesnt have to work at it, she knows she's got you.

maybe I should date women instead of girls is the problem

Fuck.

Any suggestions for once you've basically spilled the beans? Backwards motion.

I'm literally stuck in this rut RIGHT NOW...boy, it's really tiresome on the mind, but it's not something you can just stow away for later either.

 

[Hiatussin]

I keep my integrity. i dont treat my gf any different with or without friends around. I dont respect people who do.

 

[gonelifting]

FIRST you have to have the right partner, THEN you can tell them ANYTHING you want or need to tell them. Love is when games are'nt played. You answer the trhead topic like it's a chess game. If you need to "think of a plan" then you're not in love or the woman you're with does'nt love you or deserves your love. SOMETHING is missing. Don't waste your time, go find the right one instead of lying to each other. Then people say "My breakup came out of nowhere" or something like that. Don't hide anything. If she can't handle it, then she may not have been "the one". Keep looking, I don't care how great the sex is... blah blah blah, someday you will be broken up.

 

[Hiatussin]

FIRST you have to have the right partner, THEN you can tell them ANYTHING you want or need to tell them. Love is when games are'nt played. You answer the trhead topic like it's a chess game. If you need to "think of a plan" then you're not in love or the woman you're with does'nt love you or deserves your love. SOMETHING is missing. Don't waste your time, go find the right one instead of lying to each other. Then people say "My breakup came out of nowhere" or something like that. Don't hide anything. If she can't handle it, then she may not have been "the one". Keep looking, I don't care how great the sex is... blah blah blah, someday you will be broken up.

Games are fine so long as you remember you´re playing.

 

[PBR]

FIRST you have to have the right partner, THEN you can tell them ANYTHING you want or need to tell them. Love is when games are'nt played. You answer the trhead topic like it's a chess game. If you need to "think of a plan" then you're not in love or the woman you're with does'nt love you or deserves your love. SOMETHING is missing. Don't waste your time, go find the right one instead of lying to each other. Then people say "My breakup came out of nowhere" or something like that. Don't hide anything. If she can't handle it, then she may not have been "the one". Keep looking, I don't care how great the sex is... blah blah blah, someday you will be broken up.

i agree....well said. being in "love" is a vulnerable place to be...it requires trust and openess- it is intimacy...it is not something you have to think about (when its real)-its a mutual reaction...the energy that "love" provides is constantly exchanged from one to another...

 

[starfish]

i agree....well said. being in "love" is a vulnerable place to be...it requires trust and openess- it is intimacy...it is not something you have to think about (when its real)-its a mutual reaction...the energy that "love" provides is constantly exchanged from one to another...

That sounds too good to be true....Never felt it though. Only had people take all my energy away.


You are lucky to have felt that.

 

[PBR]

That sounds too good to be true....Never felt it though. Only had people take all my energy away.


You are lucky to have felt that.

sometimes "to know", hurts more than to "not know"....but i wouldnt change it for anything. it was an experience and a life long lesson learned...

if love is sharing,
how can you find it-except through itself?
offer it and it will come to you,
because it is drawn to itself.
but offer attack and love will remain hidden,
for it can only live in peace.

 

[BrothaBill]

I paint pictures with my words of glorious dreams. Thats not mushy, thats making goals

 

[mixitup]

and why not? Why not let her know you love her on a regular basis....wtf is wrong with that......

are you from detroit or dallas d town i am from arlington. yea yea