Bro I answered in your other identical thread, but I'll answer here as well.
You work for non-profit organization and would like to believe otherwise (I do lots of volunteer work myself so I know how you feel), but women look for security .... and status.
Lets say a chick likes you and another guy almost equally physically, personality-wise, etc ... fuck she can like you even a little more than him even. However, this other guy drives around a Benz, has a fat wallet, and has a high status job. When it comes down to it, she'll choose the other guy over you.
Most women are like that. They obviously won't admit it, but that's how it is.