Hmm...

[PinK233]

Ok so I had a convo with an ex the other day (we're still friends, dont ask why) and the mofo confessed that he cheated on me once....grrr...he said he actually didnt consider it cheating because it was just sex and he had no feelings for the girl...wtf? So I talked to some guy friends and a few actually AGREED with this assh*le...is this how most guys think nowadays??

 

[frorider6]

nope.

 

[gotmilk]

Ummm

Noooo...hey, my girlfriend didn't cheat on me either. She only had sex with someone behind my back and got pregnant from it. Too bad the condoms she stole from my drawer had holes in them.

 

[big4life]

Well, men don't think that.......maybe little boys do?

 

[alphaxi]

Huh...I can totally relate Pink...My ex of 5 years told me recently that he had been cheating on me for the last year we were together...and she was a girl that he introduced me to! So, the whole time they were fucking around behind my back they acted like "friends" when we were all together...

HA! Sex with no feeling? I dont buy that one! That excuse is really tired...(yawn..)

 

[danielson]

hell no!

what the hell does he define as cheating then....he's a bit of an asshole for sayong anyway, i thiknk he said itto make HIM feel better

that sucks gotmilk. for your gf too. but she took condoms with holes in them...WTF??

 

[PinK233]

I don't care for him anymore so it didn't really hurt me but I feel like such a sucker cuz i had NO clue....cheaters are shit in my eyes

 

[alphaxi]

I don't care for him anymore so it didn't really hurt me but I feel like such a sucker cuz i had NO clue....cheaters are shit in my eyes

I agree...I dont care for my ex either. I just hate knowing that everyone else knew and I didnt have any idea. It so embarrassing...

 

[Lao Tzu]

Ok so I had a convo with an ex the other day (we're still friends, dont ask why) and the mofo confessed that he cheated on me once....grrr...he said he actually didnt consider it cheating because it was just sex and he had no feelings for the girl...wtf? So I talked to some guy friends and a few actually AGREED with this assh*le...is this how most guys think nowadays??

isn't that a good thing, that men don't consider it cheating unless they feel love for a woman.
it used to be the other way around. sex was cheating, but loving other people was ok.

 

[PinK233]

No nordstrom...sex or love either way its cheating...

 

[Lao Tzu]

No nordstrom...sex or love either way its cheating...

its cheating, sure. but the fact that men place more value on emotional bondage with a woman than sexuality with one is a good sign in its own way.

 

[alphaxi]

I hate to say it but I would be more hurt if my boyfriend cheated on me emotionally than physically. But then again, I dont know how someone who supposedly loves someone else would cheat on them either way...oh well.

 

[karde]

totally cheating
wtf

 

[Night Fly]

I hate to say it but I would be more hurt if my boyfriend cheated on me emotionally than physically. But then again, I dont know how someone who supposedly loves someone else would cheat on them either way...oh well.

People are fucked up like that. Guys aren't the only ones that do it, either.

I do know that after I had broken up with my boyfriend of 3 years, I found out that he had been with 13 different people while we were together. I'll tell ya what, I have never ran so fast to my gynocologist....I was really lucky to not have gotten anything.

Asshole....

 

[alphaxi]

People are fucked up like that. Guys aren't the only ones that do it, either.

I do know that after I had broken up with my boyfriend of 3 years, I found out that he had been with 13 different people while we were together. I'll tell ya what, I have never ran so fast to my gynocologist....I was really lucky to not have gotten anything.

Asshole....

Couldnt agree with you more!

Makes you feel so stupid doesnt it? Just knowing that everyone else knew all along and never told you...just let you think that everything was just fine....

 

[Night Fly]

Couldnt agree with you more!

Makes you feel so stupid doesnt it? Just knowing that everyone else knew all along and never told you...just let you think that everything was just fine....

Yeah, it sure did. I never let him know that I was upset about it because I had just broken up with him anyway. SO...who knows. What goes around comes around, though....

 

[alphaxi]

Yeah, it sure did. I never let him know that I was upset about it because I had just broken up with him anyway. SO...who knows. What goes around comes around, though....

Hehe..well it sure did to my ex...he got the girl he cheated on me with pregnant a month after we broke up!! Now he is miserable and they arent even together anymore...

 

[Steroid_Virgin]

Damn.. just had this conversation with a co-worker earlier today.. It seems to me women are just as prone to cheating as guys are... Not pointing fingers in any one direction, but I do think girls and guys cheat for different reasons.. Guys cheat most likely becuase they want some tale.. period.. Girls cheat when they feel like they are missing something, or they are pissed off at their boyfriend, i.e. more out of vengence.. because they know it will hurt the guy. Regardless of the reason why, its just a dispicable if a guy or girl cheats.. I have been cheated on, twice now, and I have never cheated.. I was once with a married women, but I did know she was married till afterwards she was showing me pics of her husband and kids.. what a conversation that was.. wow, I totally remember how fucked up I felt when she told me.. oh well.. cheating will only weaken your character, reduce your self esteem, and cause you problems in all your future relationships.. Trust me, I have seen it happen to many.

 

[alphaxi]

I agree with your comment about the difference between girls and guys cheating...
Many of my friends have cheated on their boyfriends b/c they needed more emotionally from him and they found it in someone else who paid attention to them.
But...cheating is cheating. I would never cheat on someone just based on the fact that I know how it feels first hand...and it sucks.

 

[TxCollegeguy]

Fuck that shit...Thats out of line and wrong

 

[alphaxi]

Fuck that shit...Thats out of line and wrong

What? Cheating?

 

[HighIntensity]

nope, and dump the friendship, but then again who am i to talk...

 

[gotmilk]

that sucks gotmilk. for your gf too. but she took condoms with holes in them...WTF??

Yeah Danielson...she had been living about 1000 miles away and flew back for a weekend. She was acting really weird.

The crazy thing was that I had some condoms that someone jokingly poked holes in. Not tiny holes but blatantly obvious ones. For some stupid reason, I never threw them away, just placed them in the back of my drawer near my bed.

Anyhow, that weekend she must have been snooping thru my stuff. For whatever reason, she decided she was going to swipe some condoms from my drawer probably because the idiot she was cheating with needed some. She took some of the defective ones and got pregnant.

And the crazy thing is, I don't feel bad about it at all.

Karma has a way of evening things out in the end.

 

[the nature boy]

Sex with someone else is cheating when both persons agree to be monogomous, until then, all bets are off.