WL,
As a suggestion, start a habit of a formally planned 'date night' every other week or so. I suggest that when liLobo gets bigger and liLoboII, the sequel, is released; you do a special big and extravagant one every couple of months.
Perhaps rent a jacuzzi suite at the local Inn on Fri nite. Get a baby sitter and do the early date thing, make use of the room, and get home by 10:30 or so and take sitter home. Next morning go back to the Inn with liLobos and Mama, eat a complimentary breakfast, swim, use jacuzzi and engage in 'other adult activities' whilst liLobos nap.
I know that after number five was born, it was about the only action I saw for a couple of years. But it is ALL GOOD! LOL.