Here's a phenomenon I will never understand

[Freak Show]

Beautiful women with ugly guys. "Ugly" doesn't even describe the guys I've seen with some absolutely beautiful women lately. From their appearance they have nothing going for them. No style, no class, nothing. For a while, this phenomenon didn't rear its ugly head, but now i see it everywhere. All i can ask is "WHY??????" What is it? Money? Big dick? Spanish Fly? There's gotta be one of these girls on this board who is guilty of this heinous crime. yes, its a crime. Am i Brad Pitt? Hell no. But I'm a good lookin, built guy with a good head on my shoulders and more importantly, a future. What the hell is wrong with my vibe? Do girls not want these traits in men any more? Have they gotten that fucked up? Cuz that's all I'm left with. I'm fresh out of other ideas as to why this happens. Nothing short of amazing. I don't approach with cheesy one-liners. I don't run up on a girl on the dance floor and start freakin her from behind. yet these are the cheese dicks who make head-way EVERY FUCKIN NIGHT. I've got about 3 different examples from tonight alone, but I would run out of space on this board if i described em all. Un-fucking-believable.

 

[the nature boy]

chicks are hard to figure out sometimes (obvoiusly for me since I'm not with anyone at the present time). But sometimes women go for a guy with personality, or go for funny guys. Or charming guys. Or sometimes they don't know why the hell they are dating the guy they're currently dating. You as them: "Why did you date such a jackass?" And the woman will pause for a second and say. "I don't know why I dated that jackass."

 

[bouncer]

I like your avatar..........


bouncer

 

[The Dude]

Life isn't fair sometimes.

 

[HansNZ]

I have also observed this feminine dating pattern. Where I live the most beautiful women date really ugly guys - and it's usually because these guys are rugby players.

Women will deny this but I have also noticed that the more arrogant and emotionally repressed a guy is, the prettier his girlfriend/wife is. Go figure.

It does go in reverse sometimes too. You often see gorgeous guys with rather unattractive women. But if you take a closer look you'll notice that in such a situation the not-so-cute girl with the spunky guy has huge breasts.

THE [miserable] END

 

[Freak Show]

Right now all these women in question should be waking up next to these diseased rat droppings, so maybe they can take a second out of their day of pleasing and catering to these fucks and answer my questions.

I'm not bitter

 

[musclebrains]

I suggest you screen Cocteau's version of "Beauty and the Beast" and you will understand all.

 

[gorilla_boy]

Re: Re: Here's a phenomenon I will never understand

Why do you think musclebrains, RyanH, and AnalAssplorer do what they do???

So are you saying that fucking a hot guy is better than fucking an ugly chick?

 

[satanic goatslayer]

Perhaps you are a snapperhead that women don't like?

I know that women often throw spears and assorted pieces of coral at my face, if I had one, but I drag home my fair share.

A good day to you sir.

 

[gwl9dta4]

That is a really easy one to answer. It's all in the confidence. CONFIDENCE. A lot of these guys are very confident, cocky man, and women are instinctively drawn to that. Second women do not judge but sight alone like men do. Women will appreciate a interesting, captivating man, even if he is "ugly".

So instead of bitching, go out there and be confident, walk up to as many as you can, as if this was your last night on earth. You will be surprised at your progreaa.


Sincerely

 

[ALY]

GOD HELP ME THAT I AM POSTING HERE. GUYS DONT FLAME ME. I AM 29 YEARS OLD(FEM) AND I HAVE A COUPLE OF GIRLFRIENDS MY AGE THAT HAVE GONE OUT WITH AND MARRIED OLDER, UNNATRACTIVE MEN. WITH MY FRIENDS I THINK THEIR PARTNERS WERE MORE FATHER FIGURES TO THEM. NONE OF MY GIRLFRIENDS REALLY HAD FATHER FIGURES IN THEIR LIVES. I THINK IT IS ALL IN THE PSYCHOLOGY. THESE WOMEN PICK THESE OLDER, FATHER FIGURES, AND THESE MEN GIVE THEM HOMES, CARS, CLOTHES AND TAKE CARE OF THEIR EVERY NEED.
I REALLY DOUBT IT IS THAT THESE WOMEN ARE NOT PHYSICALLY ATTRACTED TO YOU, BUT ULTIMATELY WHAT THEY ARE LOOKING FOR IS THE DAD THEY NEVER HAD. YOU ARE BETTER OFF WITHOUT THESE WOMEN ANYWAY. MOST OF THEM ARE AS DUMB AS A BOX OF ROCKS AND THESE OLDER MEN LOVE IT 'CUZ THEY ARE IN COMPLETE CONTROL OF THEIR WOMEN AND USE THEM AS TROPHIES. I DONT THINK MUCH LOVE IS ACTUALLY INVOLVED.
ALY

 

[gwl9dta4]

Oh plese give me a break. There you go, another female thinking it's all about controll. Is it no possible that she may just be in love with an older father figure type of man, and he is in love with a woman that admires him so? So they both full fill eachothers longings. What is wrong with that. Why does the woman have to be dumb. After all you said they will get a good husband that takes very good care of them, cars a home and a family. Seems to me like they picked well. So how are they dumb as a box of rocks. Seems to me like you are jelaous.



Sincerely

 

[ALY]

I DONT NEED A MAN TO BE FINANCIALLY SECURE. UNFORTUNATELY MY FATHER DIED 7 YEARS AGO. I AM TAKEN CARE OF ALREADY. I ADMIT SOME OF MY FRIENDS ARE NOT THE BRIGHTEST, THE MEN A COUPLE OF THEM DATE ARE EXTREMELY INTELLIGENT MEN. THEY CONTROL EVERY ASPECT OF THE RELATIONSHIP. EVERYONE HAS THEIR OWN DEAL WHEN IT COMES TO RELATIONSHIPS. I DONT DOWN EITHER ONE. IF THEY ARE HAPPY FINE. BUT I KNOW THAT TRUE LOVE IS NOT PART OF THE RELATIONSHIP. JEALOUS NO I AM NOT. I WILL ONLY MARRY SOMEONE THAT I HAVE A LOVING RELATIONSHIP WITH. MAYBE YOU WILL MARRY OR HAVE MARRIED FOR OTHER REASONS. WHATEVER MAKES YOU HAPPY.

 

[gwl9dta4]

First off why are you yelling. Turn you caps off.

Now your statement "i don't need a man to be financially secure" crap. You have a very clear attitude of " US vs. THEM".

You should be saying that "i don't need a partner to be sucessful". See the difference? No feminist undertones there.

Real love is a very individual thing. You have to understand that in every relationship there is always the leader and the follower. You can't have 2 leaders or 2 followers. So if the man in those relationships seems in controll to you, maybe in that case it's for the best, sometimes it may not be for the best. But a man's role is a men's role. Males and Females were made for eachother and to compliment eachother, not to work against eachother.


Sincerely

 

[strongchick]

I've dated an unattractive man....but he was brilliant. Brains turn me on. Unfortunately, there are more good looking men than brilliant men.

 

[Test boy]

I've dated an unattractive man....but he was brilliant. Brains turn me on. Unfortunately, there are more good looking men than brilliant men.

Brainy people can trigger a lot of mental stimulation and chemistry thus keeping boredom at bay. I like brains too as long as they don't feel superior about their intelligence.

Some educated people need to whip out their resume of mental achievements within 2 minutes.

 

[strongchick]

Brainy people can trigger a lot of mental stimulation and chemistry thus keeping boredom at bay. I like brains too as long as they don't feel superior about their intelligence.

Some educated people need to whip out their resume of mental achievements within 2 minutes.

Yeah..but you seem to be like me in that you can see beyond book learning to true brilliance. Truly brilliant people sometimes don't even know they are brilliant.

Diamonds like these are beyond beautiful.

 

[Test boy]

Yeah..but you seem to be like me in that you can see beyond book learning to true brilliance. Truly brilliant people sometimes don't even know they are brilliant.

Diamonds like these are beyond beautiful.

Humph...I'm a dumb Republican yet I most enjoy the writing of our most liberal thinkers it seems. I really don't know what to make of this. I guess it is because you folks make me think.

Brilliance is interesting, I think it can be defined in many different ways. I.Q. is probably my least favorite way to measure brilliance. Educational achievements come in a close second.

I'm really a rebel at heart about many things.

 

[Golfer18--old]

Women are scared of men who look good. They would rather have an ugly ass guy to themselves, rather then worry about how many women are looking at their man.

 

[strongchick]

Women don't want to be with a man who is conceited, and vice versa.

Conceit can be displayed in many ways...those of us who are conceited can try to hide it, but everyone else always knows.

 

[Test boy]

Women don't want to be with a man who is conceited, and vice versa.

Conceit can be displayed in many ways...those of us who are conceited can try to hide it, but everyone else always knows.

So you seem to be saying that I should refrain from calling myself Superman??

 

[strongchick]

So you seem to be saying that I should refrain from calling myself Superman??

That's a start! And if you do, stop taking off your shirt at every opportunity. Most women can see beautiful broad shoulders and tight buns through clothes that fit properly, without the 'display', thank you!

And you can call yourself Superman once you get her in the bed...then, its okay. But before then...NO!

 

[Test boy]

That's a start! And if you do, stop taking off your shirt at every opportunity. Most women can see beautiful broad shoulders and tight buns through clothes that fit properly, without the 'display', thank you!

And you can call yourself Superman once you get her in the bed...then, its okay. But before then...NO!

Thanks...showing off the bod is not a weakness of mine. It isn't that great though I doubt that I would trade it for someone elses my age.

In bed...I'm all action...no talk.

 

[strongchick]

In bed...I'm all action...no talk.

Perfect! Nothing worse than a chatterbox when I'm trying to connect with the soul!!!!

 

[Test boy]

Perfect! Nothing worse than a chatterbox when I'm trying to connect with the soul!!!!

To each their own I suppose.

I like to connect to the cervix. oops.......

 

[musclebrains]

My lover 10 years ago was a porn actor, author and doctoral student. That was just about perfect.

Given the choice, having mated with brainless beauty in the past, I will always marry brains now...but I'll never be mongamous. I don't require intellect for a recreational fuck, but I can't bear conspicuous stupidity.

I spent this afternoon writing in a coffee shop I regard as my second office. It's always full of attractive men and I usually get hit on by one or two. But they always seem to be reading self-help books. Does anyone really intentionally have sex with someone reading "Codependent No More" or the "Prayer of Jabez"? Honestly, you can't masquerade ugliness, but you can hide stupidity for the duration of seduction and a fuck.

 

[strongchick]

the duration of seduction and a fuck.

brutal honesty. Shield me!!!!!

 

[Test boy]

I am looking forward to the custom sex robot I ordered from Mr. Spellwin. Obviously...I don't require a huge intellect for copulatory purposes.

 

[PinK233]

Gorgeous, hot men are intimidating and MOST of the time are cocky and conceited....I'd rather date a cute guy who isn't full of himself and has a great personality....now if I could meet a hot guy who's modest and a great conversationalist...then I think I would be in love....maybe

 

[Test boy]

I spent this afternoon writing in a coffee shop I regard as my second office. It's always full of attractive men and I usually get hit on by one or two. But they always seem to be reading self-help books. Does anyone really intentionally have sex with someone reading "Codependent No More" or the "Prayer of Jabez"? Honestly, you can't masquerade ugliness, but you can hide stupidity for the duration of seduction and a fuck. [/B]

You are right. When I find that someone is into that self help bullshit, I dont walk. I run....as fast as I can.

 

[head2toe]

here's why hot chicks date ugly dudes

hot chicks date ugly dudes cause the hot chicks usually go after the hot dudes first. then they fall for the hot guys and the hot dudes cheat or treat the chick like crap and the chick is heartbroken. then the hot chick either becomes a ho for a while then after a while thinks their reborn and says, hot people are evil and im gonna go find the ugliest (=cant get chicks dude) and do what i can to make the world a better place, or skips the ho part and straight to the dweeb, then marries him and later realizes she cant resist the hot guys, and cheats on the dweeb because he actually starts to think that he should be with her and thinks she would never do that, and she subconsciously knows this, that she can bang all over town and not be suspected of it, so she gets it all, the hot dudes to do her right, and the dork who worships her and gives her all his dough.