My girlfriend of 3 years told me that she isn't sure she wants to be with me anymore- she says there is some dude at her work that she really likes. Now, my girl and I recently moved to the west coast and have been struggling up to about a month ago so she has been stressed and it has taken its toll on us. We went out last night and had an awesome time, fucked in the car and generally things seemed in my favor. Then this guy calls the house a couple times for her and she says she really wants to call him. I am freakin I am pleading with her to see that we have allot going and that we just need to communicate better and all that but she is torn between keeping the relationship together and dumping me. I am sorta screwed because I sold my car a couple months back to help pay bills, now she is the one with the car and so I would have to find an apartment(not cheap in So Cal)- and get a car. She is right on the verge of deciding...this sucks. I really want to stay with her but damn....what do I do? How do you keep girl, or fall out of love so it dosent hurt when they kick you to the curb?