Has your girl ever......

[Frackal]

Trust me, I have been in a far milder version of your situation.

If you love this girl, if you really love her, then yes that stuff will just kill your insides for awhile, but you must realize that none of that affects how she feels about you any more than your past affects how you feel about her.

You must not consistantly bring this up to her, especially if she is not proud of it. It is like you are constantly bashing her over the head with it and there is nothing she can do to change the past.

Believe me, if you continue to bug her and it drives her away from you and ends your relationship, you will wish every day that you had done things differently, and you will realize that none of those things matter now.

 

[Checkmatebloated]

SORRY bro, but I got to say this, she must have told you and I don't know why. I would just keep thinking about two guys with my girl and they were laughing about it. That would just play over and over in my mind, but I have a very weak mind when it comes to things like this.

I could not handle it. PERIOD

 

[Symmetry]

jja you are an idiot... people do not goto hell for having sex before marriage.

Sounds like this is your first real relationship... everyone goes thru this... is this the first girl you have been with? There is no such thing as a virgin... unless you are going out with a 13 yr old. Be happy that she has only had 2 partners. That is not a lot.

It will be hard for you to get past her history... and usually, almost always, the first love never works out in the end. But who knows.... you gotta give it a shot. Don't listen to the other idiots telling you she is a slut.. she doesn't sound like it at all... Sounds like she really loves you a lot.

Try to get over the past... or this relationship doesn't have a chance.

 

[the Prince]

Well if it's in the past, then I guess you need to decide if you want to love her for who she is today, not who she was.

We cannot change our past, only our future!

 

[FrankRizzo]

I wouldn't be with her at all. Girls like that don't ever change. I don't care what they say. I've been there before and got burned.

My wife had never been with another before she met me, and hence forth....I married her. She got a ggod deal too, she got to be with the studliest of em all right off the bat!!!

 

[velvett]

DOH!

You mean she doesn't know any better Frank?


TEHAEEEEE!!!

(Just bustin' your chops - no harm meant.)

 

[FrankRizzo]

I hear ya over there....It's a good thing I'm married or I'd have to show you all about it

(j/k too, I am not a perv)

 

[plifter]

Double standard - but a man will always be able to a whore and get away with it. A women will always have to be sexually modest or lie to be deemed worthy.

I'm trying to be a whore but it's just not working! Velvett, can you help me become a whore? JK

 

[al1602]

And she is really trust worthy right now.. She calls me everynight and she is like 10 states away from me. And she talks to me about 2 hours each night to tell me what she has done that day and to just talk.

my $.02 if she gets out to a club or someone gets in the picture you are FU&&$D! This is because girls are really emotional and are really sensitive to thier surroundings and given the chance all someone has to do is say the right things.. (like you did ...to get with her in the first place) and it will be on. You think that the girl is going to change? I am not trying to be a dick but how many times has this happened to all of us? it seems that the majority of girls that dont cheat are the ones that no one else wants or for lack of opportunity.. This girl ( as you stated) has quite a history.. so it would seem logical that she is a magnet for this kind of thing.. Just be careful dude.

 

[velvett]

I'm trying to be a whore but it's just not working! Velvett, can you help me become a whore? JK

Well DAMN, I have no good advice for ya on that one.

Just don't say NO?

Say YES to all sexual advances, and bring telephone wire in case someone should change their mind.



(Kids, don't actually do the telephone wire thing - last I checked uh, that would be unlawful.)



IT'S ALL GOOD!!!!