Ebony, Yeah I think a poster here has a great idea. I mean she's on to something I think. I mean it must be nice to look forward to having convos with a friend that you can Trust and U know would always get your back or whateva. If this Derrick bro is like that ya know, if he's got enough presence where u wanna kick it with him and not just hook up with him, I would just get him something smal that lets him know that you understand him. I mean bottom line, besides getting laid, we just wanna be understood.
It seems to me dude, from what you indicate, bro is content and really just a genuine bro who, yeah has no problems with like getting laid, but just digs U for U, ya know. Anything small that indicates that you listen to his expressions, would blow his mind.