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Guy hitting on my wife...

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THeMaCHinE said:


There is some wisdom here. Oftentimes, people become set in their ways in marriage, and as a result, certain needs become unmet. When somebody starts meeting these needs (even as simple as complimenting their hair, being courteous, etc.) it feels good to the person with unmet needs. And because that person enjoys the attention, they will tend to deny that there is anything out of whack with the person they are getting the extra attention from. After all, this person is new, mysterious, doesn't talk about bills, doesn't demand you do laundry, etc... Time spent with this person is just fun -- there's no work. And oftentimes these relationships that begin in fun end up in bed and romance (albeit a romance based on fantasy, not reality).

*clap clap* the number one reason people end up cheating is stated above.
 
Thanks for all the advice.......

I think I'm going to ask my wife to say something to him, and then if he continues I will confront him in a polite manner...if it persists I just may have to take Peyote Killa's advice......
 
This thread is depressing and confusing. So what ya'll are you saying is that there are some pricks out there that make a game out of picking up married women. So not only does a man have to be rough and tough and the bread winner. We got to be a pussy type guy too? Sheesh....

I just hope some dude ever try that crap on my wife. Because my wife is good in bed but I am not sure it is so good that it is going be worth getting a lesson from my Glock 9mm.
 
Yep

Originally posted by curling
This thread is depressing and confusing. So what ya'll are you saying is that there are some pricks out there that make a game out of picking up married women. So not only does a man have to be rough and tough and the bread winner. We got to be a pussy type guy too? Sheesh....


That's right, when I was young it was a game - not hard either. I would say that with single girls my success rate was 30-50%, married women though.. About 75%!

The bottom line though is these women had a choice and only played dumb and let me manipulate them.. Most women aren't that dumb and if they have any integrity the won't let somebody play them. However, there where a few dumb ones that I had blowing me within 60 minutes of talking to them.. Go figure!
 
Platehead,

It sounds like you don't do that any more. But just curious were you ever shot at, been hit, or your house blown up?
 
Just punch a hole in his chest. Hopefully through this hole he will see the err of his ways.......

I'd put up with that shit for about 5 seconds............
 
curling said:
Platehead,

It sounds like you don't do that any more. But just curious were you ever shot at, been hit, or your house blown up?

I'm sorry, but I agree with curling.....one of the above would definately been done if I had found you out....but I am glad you changed your ways.....
 
I'd listen to Platehead - he's absolutely right on this one.

I know tons of guys that do stuff like this, they do it for fun, bragging rights, etc., but none of them would actually risk harm to do it. and most of them take the least-resistance path - if there's a hint of trouble, they back off, because there's easier prey out there.

if it were me, I'd ignore all the new-age, lets-discuss-and-understand bullshit, pull the guy aside, and tell him in no uncertain terms that he had better enjoy flirting a lot because he will be paying a high price to continue doing it. and nothing else. no justifying, no explaining, no handshaking or forgiveness. just stare the guy down until he walks away. I normally wouldn't encourage this type of confrontation, but this is a special circumstance - he is playing on your (assumed) weakness, and there's a lot at stake.

JMHO, of course. best of luck.
 
Prometheus,

I liked your idea. I think that would be very effective and it would probably be even more effective if you had a glock in a side holster under your coat that just happened to show while you said what you said. :D

He'd be thinking "man that dude is crazy forget her no chick is worth my life."
 
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