Guy hitting on my wife...

[thefantom1]

My wife is the outgoing type, but I totally trust her and know she does not try to get this type of attention. I do want to stay calm, and I know harmless flirting is usually innocent, but it is just something about this guy that I don't like. I feel like he is flirting just to spite me.....but my wife is completely naïve to it all and feels it is harmless. I mean I've had other guys flirt with her which were mutual friends of ours and it doesn't bother me at all...am I setting a double standard?

My girlfriend is the same way...... I understand that she is very attractive and wherever we go guys stare......... and she would probably react like your wife is..... completely naive to it. I think Vixen's advice is best........ SHE needs to put him in his place......

 

[Warik]

My girlfriend is the same way......

Is your girlfriend your girlfriend or your umm.... "friend?"

-Warik

 

[bigpimp]

break his jaw......its very hard to flirt when your jaw is wired shut

 

[The Shadow]

...I feel that he will get the picture much easier if the subtle message comes from the wifey....

 

[THeMaCHinE]

Fill in the blanks on how you know he hits on her, to what degree he hits on her, etc. Has he done it in front of you? Has your girl told you in the past? What makes you come to the conclusion that he is constantly hitting on her and acting in an appropriate matter?

 

[PlateheadJim]

Deliver a Message

If you are right that he may be doing this to spite you then I only have a few conclusions I can draw:

- He thinks your a pussy

- He's sure your a weenie

- He feels that, given the right timing, he'll be fucking you wife in the near future

Now, let's assess the situation:

- Is he a little pussy?

- Is he the "sensitive little boy" type?

If he matches the above criteria then you may want to worry, most affairs begin (on the womens side) with somebody that's "differen't".. For example, if your a pussy she'll want a man.. If your a typical elite body builder she'll want a pussy..etc..etc..etc...

Send him a message:

- Take him aside and ask him what the fuck his problem is.

- Make sure he understands this is the only warning, next time you'll beat his ass in.

- Make sure he knows WHO is the man

Just some friendly advice since I've fucked way too many married women (I don't do this anymore) since I was 16 - It's not that hard to manipulate them...

 

[Rockafella Skank]

Just be natural. Remember that your wife shoulders some responsibility in putting an end to his flirtations. And as long as it's just flirting, what's the harm?

 

[THeMaCHinE]

The point at which one person in the relationship becomes uncomfortable is the point at which something has to change.

 

[THeMaCHinE]

Re: Deliver a Message

If you are right that he may be doing this to spite you then I only have a few conclusions I can draw:

- He thinks your a pussy

- He's sure your a weenie

- He feels that, given the right timing, he'll be fucking you wife in the near future

Now, let's assess the situation:

- Is he a little pussy?

- Is he the "sensitive little boy" type?

If he matches the above criteria then you may want to worry, most affairs begin (on the womens side) with somebody that's "differen't".. For example, if your a pussy she'll want a man.. If your a typical elite body builder she'll want a pussy..etc..etc..etc...

Send him a message:

- Take him aside and ask him what the fuck his problem is.

- Make sure he understands this is the only warning, next time you'll beat his ass in.

- Make sure he knows WHO is the man

Just some friendly advice since I've fucked way too many married women (I don't do this anymore) since I was 16 - It's not that hard to manipulate them...

There is some wisdom here. Oftentimes, people become set in their ways in marriage, and as a result, certain needs become unmet. When somebody starts meeting these needs (even as simple as complimenting their hair, being courteous, etc.) it feels good to the person with unmet needs. And because that person enjoys the attention, they will tend to deny that there is anything out of whack with the person they are getting the extra attention from. After all, this person is new, mysterious, doesn't talk about bills, doesn't demand you do laundry, etc... Time spent with this person is just fun -- there's no work. And oftentimes these relationships that begin in fun end up in bed and romance (albeit a romance based on fantasy, not reality).

 

[PlateheadJim]

Yep.. Good Point

Originally posted by THeMaCHinE

After all, this person is new, mysterious, doesn't talk about bills, doesn't demand you do laundry, etc... Time spent with this person is just fun -- there's no work. And oftentimes these relationships that begin in fun end up in bed and romance (albeit a romance based on fantasy, not reality).

Indeed this is so true, I would always sell the fantasy vs reality. When I wanted a bitch (married that is) I would learn about her husband and take on a opposite role.. Sometimes I would kiss her ass, tell her how beautiful she is and how she makes my horny, etc.. Or other times I would be a distant prick, bluntly hitting on her and making sure she knew I was an asshole (if her husband was a wimp)..

Women buy into fantasies and turn them into excuses for a side bang.. Just watch all those fucking women channels or read a harliquin - it's most revealing.. The general plot outline of these books or womens movies is:

Woman married to mean or distant man (usually a tough guy too)

Woman meets a nice sensitive boy

Nice sensitive boy continues to talk with her and complements her on her shoes

She decides to fuck nice sensitive boy, she's always in control (at least in womens books/movies)

This is how a lot of women think.. The believe affairs are really not their fault and no matter what the husband is to blame.. Sad really..