I have never gotten worked up over a girlfriend... gf's are a dime a dozen... or maybe I just never took gf's seriously enough not to give time up if they wanted to go. Hell in that same case... I told my wife if she didn't WANT to be with me.... there is nothing between her and the door but air and opportunity and I'll suck up the air for her, get the fuck out. But she and I made a committment (which I don't care what anyone says or think IMO boyfriend/girlfriend/engaged is not the same a married) and where I do trust her.... I don't trust anyone else with ANYTHING I feel that is important to me.... Think about it like this... would you leave $5,000.00 laying on a table in a room full of strangers and walk away? No, you wouldn't and you would kill anyone you caught missing with it. Then is the five grand more important than your family, if not then why wouldn't you protect that also, if someone is SERIOUSLY making you feel uncomfortable about a situation?