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youngguns

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Hello there. It is a new semester for me and my girlfriend, this semester she is on CO OP. She is an english tutor. Well heres the deal, she told me some people "requested" her to be thier tutor, which happen to be guys, what should I do about this?
 
lol. bro, you sound insecure. If she's a tutor, she is going to have male and female clients. Some of the male ones might be smarter and better looking than you. Its YOUR issue, not her's.
 
youngguns said:
Hello there. It is a new semester for me and my girlfriend, this semester she is on CO OP. She is an english tutor. Well heres the deal, she told me some people "requested" her to be thier tutor, which happen to be guys, what should I do about this?

You're very jealous, or you don't trust her hardly at all.

A) Get over your jealousy
or
B) Trust her

If you can't trust the person you are dating then there is no sense in dating them, and all jealousy does is screw up relationships. So you have something to work on with yourself, or with your relationship.

You can fix this all by dating a very ugly fat girl. Chances of her cheating on you are flirting at almost 0%. So, pick one of the three.
 
Lestat said:
lol. bro, you sound insecure. If she's a tutor, she is going to have male and female clients. Some of the male ones might be smarter and better looking than you. Its YOUR issue, not her's.
Well they are being TURORED so they must not be that smart. And it's not that I don't have FULL trust in her, I do, how would you like it some guy was hitting on your g/f? Making little smug remarks, you know what I mean...
 
youngguns said:
Well they are being TURORED so they must not be that smart. And it's not that I don't have FULL trust in her, I do, how would you like it some guy was hitting on your g/f? Making little smug remarks, you know what I mean...
lol.

bro, those who get tutoring are usually SMARTER than those who don't (assuming you are talking about college level). Tutoring is something rich kids do.
 
youngguns said:
Well they are being TURORED so they must not be that smart. And it's not that I don't have FULL trust in her, I do, how would you like it some guy was hitting on your g/f? Making little smug remarks, you know what I mean...
Also, if your GF is halfway attractive, it is safe to assume that there are dudes hitting on her everyday.
 
Lestat said:
lol.

bro, those who get tutoring are usually SMARTER than those who don't (assuming you are talking about college level). Tutoring is something rich kids do.


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Lestat, what? ya I know guys always hit on her, but it's different if they have the right to talk to her you know what I mean? But no, they do NOT pay for the tutoring, and did you just say the tutorie is smarter than the tutorer?
 
LMAO @ "the right to talk to her"

LOL

dude...its up to HER to shake them players off...not you.
 
LOLOLOLOL

"kissed her"



dude....keep this up and you will lose her in record time.
 
The Shadow said:
either you trust HER or you dont.

Simple


True that.......First you have to trust her. What if she had a job? She will always have men in her life. You should trust till given reason not to. (then show her the door) :)
 
Dude....time to let go of some of your worries before you make yourself physically ill.

If something is going to happen between her and one of her students, how can you stop it unless you are going to be in the same room with them.

Deal with your emotions but don't let it worry you sick.
 
youngguns said:
Well they are being TURORED so they must not be that smart. And it's not that I don't have FULL trust in her, I do, how would you like it some guy was hitting on your g/f? Making little smug remarks, you know what I mean...

So what? She's with you for a reason. Why worry about something you have no control over, anyway?
Like others have said, she probably gets hit on everyday, but if she's happy with YOU, it doesn't matter.
 
fitnessgrl8621 said:
So what? She's with you for a reason. Why worry about something you have no control over, anyway?
Like others have said, she probably gets hit on everyday, but if she's happy with YOU, it doesn't matter.


Damn you have some dark nipples.

Might as well change the direction of this thread. :D
 
LOL, youngdum, you really gotta lay off the sauce. You're too young for it, and its giving you a bad case of the roid rage.
 
thanks guys, I do have some trust issues...
in the past we were together, and we both cheated on eachother, but we were young, 17 and 16, then after the first year of college/ university, we realised we wanted to make it work. So basically we are soul mates now. What I'm bascially saying is, I want to kick their ass if they try anything, yo
 
As long as your good to here....she won't ever have a reason to turn on you!!!

Never stop doing the "little" things!!
 
youngguns said:
Lestat, what? ya I know guys always hit on her, but it's different if they have the right to talk to her you know what I mean? But no, they do NOT pay for the tutoring, and did you just say the tutorie is smarter than the tutorer?
bro. Tutors are valuable because they are usually veterans of the courses they are tutoring!

They may not be "smarter" but they have usually taken the course and can give a lot of useful advice that the tutorie (your term) can use to succeed.
 
youngguns said:
Lol thanks,
By the way I love you guys.
Ps. I'm not on the sauce.


Well, I hope you always remember that. I am 35 and have had my share of relationships but it starts going down hill for me once they stop doing those little things that say I have been thinking of you or love you.
:heart:
 
Lestat said:
bro. Tutors are valuable because they are usually veterans of the courses they are tutoring!

They may not be "smarter" but they have usually taken the course and can give a lot of useful advice that the tutorie (your term) can use to succeed.
lol @ tutorie
 
KSHARP01 said:
Well, I hope you always remember that. I am 35 and have had my share of relationships but it starts going down hill for me once they stop doing those little things that say I have been thinking of you or love you.
:heart:
Well this relationship is perfect, we help each others flaws, we have changed a lot for one another, and one time, some very bright, positive person told me "the number one thing to keep a relationship going, is to talk about the future", we talk about kids names, we are going to germany this September, we are living together soon, basically did this summer, I love her.
 
This kid reminds me of myself when I was young.

Thank god those days are over.
 
youngguns said:
Well this relationship is perfect, we help each others flaws, we have changed a lot for one another, and one time, some very bright, positive person told me "the number one thing to keep a relationship going, is to talk about the future", we talk about kids names, we are going to germany this September, we are living together soon, basically did this summer, I love her.


Sounds like your on the right track and should have no reason to even worry about her tutoring other guys!

I wish you 2 all the love/luck in the world!!
 
i sense a new member of the SWV'S very soon

bro just chill,if its gonna happen you cant stop it anyways so dont get all worked up over something you cant control and may not happen
 
youngguns said:
Well they are being TURORED so they must not be that smart. And it's not that I don't have FULL trust in her, I do, how would you like it some guy was hitting on your g/f? Making little smug remarks, you know what I mean...


lol

here is the dealo' sugar... you are young and 'dumb' ( not smarts dumb but relationship dumb) and quite full of cum... and your mind is racing non stop and you can't quite get it sometimes... eh

She will get approaced because she is cute, be it the guy she tutors' or the guy at the local supermarket near the fruit section. Trusting HER is what you have to do... not trusting them. Hell you don't know them or love them eh? don't fuck up a relationship because of your insecurities sweetie. Live by the rule that if She wants something she will go for it, if you want something you will go for it... hopefully in the mist of going for it both will forwarn the other that it is over but if they don't then weither or not you stressed over jealousy or not they would have done the same thing.

If this girl really cares for you she will cast off any advancement that she is subjected to.
 
youngguns said:
Well they are being TURORED so they must not be that smart. And it's not that I don't have FULL trust in her, I do, how would you like it some guy was hitting on your g/f? Making little smug remarks, you know what I mean...
Bro if your girl is remotely good looking at all, they are going to get hit on regardless and there is not one thing you can do about. Either she loves you or she dosent right? If she starts showing the tell tale sings of cheating then you have to be worried. Is she changing her appearance? Wanting to do things without you. Stop communicating as much with you?

If you answered yes to those then you may be in trouble. Love is a risk like anything in life and you just have to trust it to work. if you guys are happy together and things are good then I wouldn't worry. If things are stressed and you are conflicting a lot then you may have issues that could lead to cheating.
 
youngguns said:
almost 20 buds

I know.

Trust me I use to get pissed at dudes talking to my girl and it seemed like they were always around especially in school and work. I dated hot chicks too so they got hit on constantly.

Looking back I realize that

A. Young people are rarely mature enough to have a lasting, committed relationship

B. Your significant other will always be around the opposite sex.

C. The opposite sex will hit on your girl. The hotter the more hits she will get.

D. Your significant other enjoys the attention.

E. You can either go with the flow and trust your girl or get yourself into big trouble with stress and anger.

F. Relax, because chances are you and this girl won't last anyways. See point A.
 
One night me and beau was out and one of his friends pointed out a guy trying to hit on me. He told him he wasn't worried that I would take care of it...he also told him that if he didn't want anyone to look at his girlfriend then he would get a ugly one.
 
youngguns said:
thanks guys, I do have some trust issues...
in the past we were together, and we both cheated on eachother, but we were young, 17 and 16, then after the first year of college/ university, we realised we wanted to make it work. So basically we are soul mates now. What I'm bascially saying is, I want to kick their ass if they try anything, yo

Once a cheater always a cheater from my experience
 
youngguns said:
Hello there. It is a new semester for me and my girlfriend, this semester she is on CO OP. She is an english tutor. Well heres the deal, she told me some people "requested" her to be thier tutor, which happen to be guys, what should I do about this?

ummm. . .posluzny. . .she's a FUCKING TUTOR. . .it's her J-O-B. . .let her do it. . .nuff said??
 
Arabian said:
Just buy her a selection of condoms and pray that she wears them...

lol

this poor guy is fucked










or rather, SHE will be
 
Dudes hit on pretty girls all the time, whether they are tutors or work as the check out girl. Get over it or you will drive her away. Jealous guys make life unbearable.
 
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