glamour/fitbabe petite plight

[fitone]

I am a 4ft 11 90lbs 25 years old women. I do local glamour/promotion work and getting into fitness. Due to my size I am often lifted and teased by big muscle guys. It can be embarrassing as I have been lifted overhead, on guys shoulders and even tipped and held upside down by my ankles as a joke. I know i am an easy target due to my size but want to understand why guys do this. Come on guys I am looking for responses from muscle guys to expalin why they overhead lift me etc , fun, power issue etc?, is it beacause of size? ie always choose petites etc. Is this type of thing common for petite women like me (stories)and am i overraecting as its seem to be harmless fun to guys or are they wrong to do this. CONFUSED

 

[Backlash]

I don't think you can just stereotype all big guys like that. The ones who pick you up sound like assholes to me. They pick you up because they're jerks, not because they're muscular. I'm sorry you have to deal with crap like that

 

[Deleted member 33117]

My ex-girlfriend was 4'11" 99 ibs and she loved that. For her it was a security issue I think, because she liked having a strong man who could protect her, however she was very insecure and needy. It was a turn on for her, but I can see how that could bother you. If you do not like it then I would say they are wrong for doing that to you. Honestly, I think it is wrong for a man to touch a woman in any manner that she doesn't like, or to pick her up like that without her permission.

 

[faller]

I agree with BBF on this. I'm not sure if these guys are being arseholes or if it is simply their way of flirting (??). I've been known to pick up my female friends before, but these are people I know (and I'm not huge, so they aren't going end up upsidedown!). If you don't like it, I would be stern with them about how you feel. I think *most* guys don't really want to piss off a female.

 

[Nonerz]

I wish my boyfriend could pick me up...he just tosses me around.

 

[bignate73]

I wish my boyfriend could pick me up...he just tosses me around.

you gotta TELL me to pick you up. tossing you around is just to get you heated up......



sheesh....girls and their fetishes!

 

[fitone]

come on guys where your responses

 

[endpoint]

I do it...because i can

 

[Serea]

Kick them in the nuts when they put you down.

 

[PolishHammer1977]

Come on guys I am looking for responses from muscle guys to expalin why they overhead lift me etc , fun, power issue etc?, is it beacause of size? ie always choose petites etc. Is this type of thing common for petite women like me (stories)and am i overraecting as its seem to be harmless fun to guys or are they wrong to do this. CONFUSED

I think the real answer lies in the insecurites of the people in question.

The entire world is insecure and more often than not someone would rather poke fun at you rather than congratulate you.