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SDRaver said:
You are a lucky man.
Giving her space and time is hard to do
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You are a lucky man.
bunnymt
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I will just reiterate what others have been saying: you have a good heart. Willingly accepting a woman with a child and wanting to make them 'your' family as well is very noble.
I know of a man who was dating a woman who was pregnant with child from another man. This man then accepted the pregnant woman and married her. Very noble as well.
Good luck and it sounds as though things will work out in the future for you...just give her her time and take some for yourself to figure out what you really want as well.
Sincerely,
bunny
I know of a man who was dating a woman who was pregnant with child from another man. This man then accepted the pregnant woman and married her. Very noble as well.
Good luck and it sounds as though things will work out in the future for you...just give her her time and take some for yourself to figure out what you really want as well.
Sincerely,
bunny
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I, too know of a couple of guys who have accepted another man's child as thier own... have since they were born, so this is no "I am having fun playing daddy for a few months".
It breaks my heart and I reiterate how very jealous (in a good way
) I am of your gf.... when I think of how much my ex's love for our children is being affected because of his disdain for me. MY GIRLS ARE HIS GIRLS - yet he is unaffected at how much we struggle...
It is all good. It has built my character and made my girls and me closer.
I wish you only happiness - trust, mutual respect, kindness and patience.
It breaks my heart and I reiterate how very jealous (in a good way
) I am of your gf.... when I think of how much my ex's love for our children is being affected because of his disdain for me. MY GIRLS ARE HIS GIRLS - yet he is unaffected at how much we struggle...It is all good. It has built my character and made my girls and me closer.
I wish you only happiness - trust, mutual respect, kindness and patience.
twists and turns
now she just lost two clients who are long time friends of hers because of me supposedly. Since she divorced her ex she isn't able to run around with the same "income bracket" of poeple she used to. These so-called friends want her to find someone with a little more stature. amazing how people who have nothing else to do like to get involved in other people's lives. Hell on her friends was debating dropping her as a client because her "family allowane" dropped from 12,000 to $ 9,000 a month LOL. and she olly charges this women 35/ hr for being her trainer. Seems like a baby-boomer version of 90210.
She's now starting to realize who her real friends are I hope. I just can't believe these people are giving her so much grief about me. Funny thing is when they talk to me it's like we are all buddies. You know the type. Obviously my 11 yrs. in the military and the fact that I will be in the middle east by end of the year isn't good enough for them. Some people
now she just lost two clients who are long time friends of hers because of me supposedly. Since she divorced her ex she isn't able to run around with the same "income bracket" of poeple she used to. These so-called friends want her to find someone with a little more stature. amazing how people who have nothing else to do like to get involved in other people's lives. Hell on her friends was debating dropping her as a client because her "family allowane" dropped from 12,000 to $ 9,000 a month LOL. and she olly charges this women 35/ hr for being her trainer. Seems like a baby-boomer version of 90210.
She's now starting to realize who her real friends are I hope. I just can't believe these people are giving her so much grief about me. Funny thing is when they talk to me it's like we are all buddies. You know the type. Obviously my 11 yrs. in the military and the fact that I will be in the middle east by end of the year isn't good enough for them. Some people
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The good thing about bottoming out - YOU DO find out EXACTLY WHO YOUR TRUE FRIENDS ARE!
toga22
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SD...you are being a very smart and respectful man to give her the space and the time she needs to figure things out for herself and her daughter. Although it is difficult for you now, stick to your word and don't pressure her. Keep the lines of communication open....and let her slowly tread her way back into your life. From everything that you have posted, it sounds like she has a solid connection with you....and wants you in her life.
You certainly sound like a very patient, thoughful, and caring man....very geniune and good-hearted. Give her time, Sweetie, and her guard will come down.
I wish you only the best of luck!!
~toga
You certainly sound like a very patient, thoughful, and caring man....very geniune and good-hearted. Give her time, Sweetie, and her guard will come down.
I wish you only the best of luck!!
~toga
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