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I feel for you .... more than you know.
Obviously ANY MAN that I end up with (if I ever do) will have to love my daughters the way that they deserve to be loved. I don't have one child - I have four. So he would have to be pretty damned amazing. I know that I have found him.. or at least, he found me.
But now the shoe is on the other foot. He has kids too. And I must say that I miss them more than I miss him sometimes. (My girls haven't met him yet and I am not rushing this.... we have ALL the time in the world.) I am afraid that I will fail HIS KIDS.
I am not saying that I am afraid or incapable of loving them the way they deserved to be loved. On the contrary, I love them so much that I am afraid that I am not good enough for them.
Time.... time..... time....
Give it time.....
Neither one of us is rushing anywhere. He tries to deny that his feelings for me are as strong as mine for him heheheee but we both know that regardless of how difficult it will be for us to be together - if WE REALLY want it badly enough, and if it was truly meant to be, then we will find a way. But it is not the central focus of our lives right now.
He is living his life, caring for his children and doing all that he loves....
I am focusing on living my life for me and my girls, and doing all that I love.
Eventually, it will all come together -
Just do what you feel is correct in your heart. Trust your gut, and you will never go wrong.
You are truly a decent man.
Obviously ANY MAN that I end up with (if I ever do) will have to love my daughters the way that they deserve to be loved. I don't have one child - I have four. So he would have to be pretty damned amazing. I know that I have found him.. or at least, he found me.
But now the shoe is on the other foot. He has kids too. And I must say that I miss them more than I miss him sometimes. (My girls haven't met him yet and I am not rushing this.... we have ALL the time in the world.) I am afraid that I will fail HIS KIDS.
I am not saying that I am afraid or incapable of loving them the way they deserved to be loved. On the contrary, I love them so much that I am afraid that I am not good enough for them.
Time.... time..... time....
Give it time.....
Neither one of us is rushing anywhere. He tries to deny that his feelings for me are as strong as mine for him heheheee but we both know that regardless of how difficult it will be for us to be together - if WE REALLY want it badly enough, and if it was truly meant to be, then we will find a way. But it is not the central focus of our lives right now.
He is living his life, caring for his children and doing all that he loves....
I am focusing on living my life for me and my girls, and doing all that I love.
Eventually, it will all come together -
Just do what you feel is correct in your heart. Trust your gut, and you will never go wrong.

You are truly a decent man.
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