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makedah
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When I was 19, I didn't care if a guy hadn't had a girlfriend or if he was a virgin. I didn't lose my virginity until I was 19, anyway.
BTW: You're coming upon a special time in your life, when you stop thinking about 'girls' and start thinking about 'women.' Well, at least you should be.
BTW: You're coming upon a special time in your life, when you stop thinking about 'girls' and start thinking about 'women.' Well, at least you should be.
Red Shadow
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Heya 
Well I guess it would depend a bit on how old the guy was. If he was like 25+ or something and never had a girlfriend then I'd be a bit curious and unsure fo' sure.
Having zero past girlfriends would infer alot of things. Religious reasons, not willing to commit and give up casual sex, extreme lack of confidence or shyness, never met a nice enough girl, lived in a really small town where there were only a few girls, unsure about sexuality... Heaps of reasons.
I don't know if it would change my opinion as to whether or not I liked him or not. It would depend on the sort of person he was. It would also depend on whether or not I found out what the reasoning for not having a girlfriend in advance as well. I wouldn't think any less of him in any case. It's not cool to judge someone based on how many girlfriends or boyfriends they've had. Everyone is different.
Well I guess it would depend a bit on how old the guy was. If he was like 25+ or something and never had a girlfriend then I'd be a bit curious and unsure fo' sure.
Having zero past girlfriends would infer alot of things. Religious reasons, not willing to commit and give up casual sex, extreme lack of confidence or shyness, never met a nice enough girl, lived in a really small town where there were only a few girls, unsure about sexuality... Heaps of reasons.
I don't know if it would change my opinion as to whether or not I liked him or not. It would depend on the sort of person he was. It would also depend on whether or not I found out what the reasoning for not having a girlfriend in advance as well. I wouldn't think any less of him in any case. It's not cool to judge someone based on how many girlfriends or boyfriends they've had. Everyone is different.
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NOT rickcorso
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have you ever kissed a girl?
note:
I have not kissed a girl
I have not gotten laid
I have not had a girlfriend
I don't really have any goals to get laid (I'm not sure whether I really want to have premarital sex or not), I guess I'm just lonely for a girlfriend,
and I want to get one quick, before I get older and it becomes even more embarassing that I havent had a girlfriend yet.
I have not kissed a girl
I have not gotten laid
I have not had a girlfriend
I don't really have any goals to get laid (I'm not sure whether I really want to have premarital sex or not), I guess I'm just lonely for a girlfriend,
and I want to get one quick, before I get older and it becomes even more embarassing that I havent had a girlfriend yet.
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NOT rickcorso
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p60 said:
if you can get an ID, i suggest you go out to a club with a couple friends. get drunk, get laid and get it over with.
btw, is there anything wrong with you physically?
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Corky Thatcher
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p60,
Have you considered talking to a mental health professional about your problems?
Have you considered talking to a mental health professional about your problems?
casavant
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p60 said:
That's probably because you've never gotten laid. As much as I'd like to be able to shrug off women, it is a very, very nice thing to be in bed with a woman and feel her skin against you, her fingers running through your hair, breathing in her smell as you kiss her neck.... not to mention the main event.
Good stuff man. But if you feel conflicted about it then you don't need to do it and then wallow in guilt and self loathing for months afterward. A lot of girls your age might not be cool with a non-sexual relationship though. Chicks like sex, too.
RADAR
Well-known member
DUDE,What Cass is saying if it leads to that...frankly there have been very,very few girls i have known and right outta the blue i asked them if they wanna"F...! all of them said yes.
Go to the mall, or anywhere-start up some small conversation,the more you do it the better you will get.better yet join a gym gain some muscle, girls will be all over you.
RADAR
Go to the mall, or anywhere-start up some small conversation,the more you do it the better you will get.better yet join a gym gain some muscle, girls will be all over you.
RADAR
plornive
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Don't take this as more than constructive criticism, but you are naive.p60 said:casavant,
but some girls out there aren't cool with a sexual relationship,
and that's the kind of girl i want
In my experience, girls that "aren't cool with sex" want to think of themselves as conservative. Being with a horndog helps them to feel like victims and deny responsibility for the devious acts they so desire.
I actually think you would have the best luck with less conservative, more experienced girls... although that is not what you are looking for.
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anabolicmd
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velvett said:
Then what happened?
Dude you're hopeless. Everyone here has at least made some attempt to help you. If you are having this much trouble at your age you may as well feel secure in the knowledge that you may be gay. Hey its not that bad. Sure you may be socially ostracized by your peers, be the victim of some random gay bashing from time to time, other than that you will at least know you stick it in the wrong hole at an early age. Some homos don't come out until late in life. Don't be afraid if this is the case. Come on out of that closet. Open the door and let the light shine in. Its not all that bad when you cross over to the other side. Yours in sport.
endpoint
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P60. I am 23 years old.
I lost my virginity at 19.6 years of age.
my first girlfriend was at 19, and my first serious was at 20.
I have had a couple girlfriends since, but none have worked out (for different reasons).
I have had sex with many different partners (if i told you.....you would think i was lying).
I am now "seaking" a long term relationship
as for sex. Sex is great, its beatiful and fun. AND THEN there is making love. they are two different things. As long as you can separate both.......enjoy the ride, and dont mix them up
I lost my virginity at 19.6 years of age.
my first girlfriend was at 19, and my first serious was at 20.
I have had a couple girlfriends since, but none have worked out (for different reasons).
I have had sex with many different partners (if i told you.....you would think i was lying).
I am now "seaking" a long term relationship
as for sex. Sex is great, its beatiful and fun. AND THEN there is making love. they are two different things. As long as you can separate both.......enjoy the ride, and dont mix them up
buttplug
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There is one thing I don't get. You're looking for a good girl that does not necessarily (preferably) want a "sexua" relationship and that much like you, is looking for a serious relationship. Wouldn't that kind of serious, goody two cents girl actually be pleased that you haven't sprayed your colonies all over town?
The only type of girl that could laugh at you over this (and even there!) is the girl that's looking for good occasional sex. Since that's not what you want...
I fail to understand why you're so worried about this whole thing.
The only type of girl that could laugh at you over this (and even there!) is the girl that's looking for good occasional sex. Since that's not what you want...
I fail to understand why you're so worried about this whole thing.
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DBCooper
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Just ask a women out man, and Casavant was right from the start, chicks are like Doritos-you just can't eat one and stop lol.
p60 said:
Please don't take offense.
But you need to go see a therapist.
You have body issues and relationship issues.
And after 1 year(I've been following your posts on the diet board and chat board), they don't seem to be going away.
And btw, its better to lose your virginity at a later age than a younger one.......IMO.
Where I live, I see 15-19 y/o girls w/ Kids.
Thats somemthing I NEVER see in Europe. Just doesn't happen.
Thats the MTV culture for you.
Fonz
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anabolicmd
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Fonz said:
Very interesting. I will prolly be in London at some point within the year so thats good to know
I also don't see why its always a race with people to......go out with other people.
WTF? Peer pressure much.
Out of 100 women.
I might be physically attracted to => 10
I might be mentally attracted(Like to talk to them them) => 50
So, out of 100 women(Yes, 100) 1/10*1/2 = 1/20 * 100 = 5
ONLY 5 are what I would call physically and mentally compatible.
OUT OF 100!!!
Less, if you're very picky.
SO, whats the rush......take your time and PICK the right ones.
Btw, you're 19...........HELLO 19!!!! AT your age most people don't give a damn about being in a relationship. They just want to party and have a good time at University.
What you're looking for is a "Fuck" buddy(For lack of a better word). Why? Most likely rersponse to that is that your friends laugh at your sexual inexperience.
Well, I can almost guarantee you that a high % of them are lying about their own.
Moral of my post?
Be your own person. You don't HAVE to be forced into anything by anybody.
FOnz
WTF? Peer pressure much.
Out of 100 women.
I might be physically attracted to => 10
I might be mentally attracted(Like to talk to them them) => 50
So, out of 100 women(Yes, 100) 1/10*1/2 = 1/20 * 100 = 5
ONLY 5 are what I would call physically and mentally compatible.
OUT OF 100!!!
Less, if you're very picky.
SO, whats the rush......take your time and PICK the right ones.
Btw, you're 19...........HELLO 19!!!! AT your age most people don't give a damn about being in a relationship. They just want to party and have a good time at University.
What you're looking for is a "Fuck" buddy(For lack of a better word). Why? Most likely rersponse to that is that your friends laugh at your sexual inexperience.
Well, I can almost guarantee you that a high % of them are lying about their own.
Moral of my post?
Be your own person. You don't HAVE to be forced into anything by anybody.
FOnz
Mandinka2
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Tut , tut , thats terrible mathmathics Fonz , uve made the entirely unreasonable assumption that physical attractiveness is independent of mental attractiveness. As is the subject of a current thread on this board , the two are rarely independent (although my personal view is that some men form this opinion sometimes cos the attractive ones just don't want to sleep with them)Fonz said:
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Mandinka2 said:
LOL
This isn't Quantum electro-dynamics man
...I was trying to demonstrate in relatively easy to understand terms that there is no rush to have sex.And even though you view it as an incorrect generalization, very FEW attractive women are mentally complex enough to be good conversationalists. And in lieu of that...partners.
Fonz
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anabolicmd
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Fonz said:
LOL
This isn't Quantum electro-dynamics man
And even though you view it as an incorrect generalization, very FEW attractive women are mentally complex enough to be good conversationalists. And in lieu of that...partners.
Fonz
Fuck first, ask questions later.
Mandinka2
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Actually i disagree , i think many attractive women are nut bags , especially from the US , I have yet to meet an extremely attractive European woman who did not have her head firmly screwed on. I think most women are complicated enough (in the random rather than the logical sense) for most men.Fonz said:
LOL
This isn't Quantum electro-dynamics man
And even though you view it as an incorrect generalization, very FEW attractive women are mentally complex enough to be good conversationalists. And in lieu of that...partners.
Fonz
casavant
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sk* said:No offense, but that is a horrible "math". There are so many generalizations and miscalculations there that I am gonna not even comment on it.
A high school level statistics course would do you well.
-sk
Something tells me that Fonz is doing OK in his math education. Call me crazy.
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anabolicmd
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Fonz said:
There were quite girls from Spain at my college. They all were very sweet girls, very feminine and confident, kind of like Italian girls but even hotter. I never dated any, mostly because they were all serious girlfriend material.
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revexrevex
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That was normal math by fonz, i dont see a problem
Mandinka2 said:
Mi hermano!
Dos cervezas por favor
What are u doin stateside?
Must hurt to be away from Madrid , I swear to you the first time I landed there I knew I was home... and I didnt even have Spanish.
Studying.
Unfortunately Europe is pretty weak in Nuclear Engineering/Physics.
I do go back for the early Aug. parties though. And to see my new siblings(I have 3 new cousins...lol)
Fonz
Mandinka2
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Are u sure , there's a state of the art nuclear research facility right here in Munich , then there's the tokamak at Cambridge , most of the ealry quantum mechanics books are in German , Ive forgotten where the Max Planck institute is. Then there's CERN , need I go on.... I only know of Princeton on that level in the States.Fonz said:
On a side note , I might be in the Basque country for the ferias for an August weekend.
Mandinka2 said:
Unfortunately, I applied to Cambridge(You can only aply to either Oxford or Cambridge NOT both), even went for an interview...but didn't get in.
They only admitted 20 people IN THE WORLD for the program I wanted to get into.
Hell, I was surprised I was even asked for an interview....thats rare enough.
And Germany? Nein...... Ich nicht sprecht sehr gut Deutsch.
3 years and several 100 headaches taught me that..lol
Fonz
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Imakarum_Mirabilis
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sk* said:
Why does it bother you so much?
If I were in his place, and saw that you would become so turbid by not responding to you about it, I'd keep it up to see how far you would go.
Mandinka2
New member
Most of the classes in Germany are available in English as well Fonz, many of the students are foreign. My sister went for an interview for vetrinary medicine in Cambridge , its always required for entry into Oxbridge (Oxford and Cambridge). as for the programs in Switzerland , well Im pretty sure they would be in English although I'd have to check.Fonz said:
Unfortunately, I applied to Cambridge(You can only aply to either Oxford or Cambridge NOT both), even went for an interview...but didn't get in.
They only admitted 20 people IN THE WORLD for the program I wanted to get into.
Hell, I was surprised I was even asked for an interview....thats rare enough.
And Germany? Nein...... Ich nicht sprecht sehr gut Deutsch.
3 years and several 100 headaches taught me that..lol
Fonz
Imakarum_Mirabilis said:
It bothers me because every other post by fonz is about how smart he is, yet he constantly uses "big words" in wrong context and now this.
I only wonder how much of what he says is crap regarding anabolics, since most of it means nothing to me as I am not well educated in the area.
Anyway, i'm dropping this ...
-sk
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