with a guy and his dick (and im sure the brols can back me up on this) there is sort of a connection to emotion with it. when we get our cock praised, you may as well be praising our very being.
petting our cocks are like awsome. and we look at them alot.
like what guy doesnt look at his cock all the time?
i like girls who view their vaginas this way.
as opposed to the way i view my butthole for example. its there. its whatever. i use it for what i use it for (exit hole only) and then dont think about it at all unless it itches