I think its great to see women with enought morals and self control to say no. If sex is all your looking its a sad commentary on YOUR self esteem that you only get pleasure from that kind of instant gratification.
if she is totally attracted to you and still doesn't put out then there could be something wrong. it would suck to be with some chick for a while and she doesn't put out. i'm sure a female wouldn't want to be with a male that she wants to get intimate with and he doesn't put out.
btw, are you talking about a certain female member who lives in your area who hasn't had sex in 1.5+years ?
What the hell are you talking about ?
What's up with the ones who won't put out ? Who cares.
I don't bother with the ones who don't want to have sex. They're too high maintenence.
Most men like to have sex first. If it's good, then maybe we will want to get to know the girl better and maybe that will lead to something more permanent.
Well personally I don't want a girl that I am really interested in putting it out right away. I figure inside of a month is cool since I am at the point of my life of finding a lifetime partner. I don't want a whore as the mother of my children.
If I want a find a girl for a quick fuck that is easy.