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Its All Genetics
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a bodybuilder does legs and dead lifts ....
guys who just wanna looks good for the girl do bicep curls and cable flys
a bodybuilder isnt afraid to puke after lifting
a guy who just wanna look goof for the girls makes sure his hair doesnt get messed up when he lifting
aa bodybuilder wears shity clothes and old sneaker
pretty boys wear there armani shirts and new nikes
guys who just wanna looks good for the girl do bicep curls and cable flys
a bodybuilder isnt afraid to puke after lifting
a guy who just wanna look goof for the girls makes sure his hair doesnt get messed up when he lifting
aa bodybuilder wears shity clothes and old sneaker
pretty boys wear there armani shirts and new nikes
BigCracker
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TRAPezoid said:Dude that is so true. I wear nasty ass sneakers and the same workout pants everyday. I wash them maybe every two weeks because I don't really give a fuck....
The only people who wear new shit at my gym are the
You meanie!!! I'm tho pithed!!! I'm gonna kick you in the shins and scratch yer eyes out and I might even hit you with my purse! I look too thexy in my new pink CK workout thirt. I'm too thexy for this thread. I'm too thexy for this thread. Check out my huge muthles.
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Anyone wanna bump weenies and swap some man milk?
Seriously, hardcore bodybuilders that have lives that revolve around eating, training, and scoring gear can get laid pretty easily. Girls like them as sport fucks more than they like them as steady boyfriends. This is because they're usually too self absorbed(which is why they look like they do) to be a good boyfriend. I'm good at hiding it though-at least until she mules my shit across the border for me. lol If she gets busted I conveniently just find a new girlfriend.
Ask yourself this question-Would you like it if your little sister was dating a hardcore BB?
Mythicalbeing
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I think itcomes down to the woman her self.....some are attracted to the "fitness" side of a male who takes care of himself, while others, prefer geeks.(how can a bbr compete with that?)
BigCracker
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Mythicalbeing said:
You could just as easily replace the word "geeks" with "guys w/ $$$"-which are often one and the same.
big49ersfan
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trapezoid about washing your gym stuff i aint washed mine in like 3 weeks and do cardio in my sruff 5times a week it stinks i stink but like you say i just dont give a fuck i get pissed off with pretty boys who do 1/4 squats and curls on the squat rack just annoys me i get in the gym lift then run then eat then sleep none of this arsing about
I love them but most of my friends are not big on them. My best GF thinks anything larger then a light heavey is too big I think that is pretty typical of most girls.
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BigCracker said:
This is bang-on.
glennds
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when i first opened this thread i thought it was what guys thought of female bodybuilders. that would be a more interesting poll.
i always wondered if any guys are actually into that super roided over the top female bodybuilder look. there are a few women at my worlds gym like that. a couple of them are very disturbing looking. fit looks good on women, too muscular=manly.
i always wondered if any guys are actually into that super roided over the top female bodybuilder look. there are a few women at my worlds gym like that. a couple of them are very disturbing looking. fit looks good on women, too muscular=manly.
Destroyer1986*
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Well I can tell you most girls seem put off by size, Im 19 and I hang around friends and people my age and dirty looks and comments I get is quite funny, but I love every minute of it. Girlies want skinny washboard abs the older women want a bigger type of man.
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boops said:
The ladies of C&C will vote yes, its like desperate housewives in that sextion, even the married women are looking for sex.
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Anthony Roberts
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superqt4u2nv said:
I'd have to agree. I'm only 5'7" and hover at about 205 or so pounds (single digit bodyfat)...and even that is usually considered "big" by alot of girls, but it's not big by BodyBuilding standards (I'm not a bodybuilder)...
Standards for what the average person thinks is "big" are constantly evolving; but I still don't think the average girl will see Mr.O and target him as having her ideal figure for a guy.
In anycase, I did happen to get a modeling gig for Ralph Lauren awhile ago, which would have been unheard of for a guy of my height and weight...so, I think some standards are changing, in that respect...
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Its All Genetics said:
HAHAHA! thats TOTALLY UNTRUE!, wow is that untrue, that is very biased and oppinionated my friend. so what if I wear decent clothes lifting? I do deadlifts, Bicept curls....I fix my hair, and im only KIND of close to puking deadlift days....I want to look good for the girls, im Also a BBER, can u dig?
Beachboy6294
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superqt4u2nv said:
I have to say that this is true most girls I know like a guy that has some muscles but not to big! Then alot of girls like the skinny guy that has some abs and looks like a surfer OC dude! I always find that the best looking girls that workout themselves go for the bigger guys though. I'm 5'7 myself and when I met my ex-wife I was at 230lbs and she was scared of me then I started my diest and got down to 198lbs and she loved that look!
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dullboy can't speak for women since he isn't a woman, but dullboy notices that he gets the most attention from women when he has a narrow waist (32" and below) and a wide back. dullboy also notices that when his bodyfat is below 10% or so his face really chisels up and chicks dig this.
nothing turns girls off more than a big swollen dbol moonface. blech.
nothing turns girls off more than a big swollen dbol moonface. blech.
Sassy69
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I think bodybuilders are hot... I am one (see avatar).
OK sorry. Not what was meant on this thread.
I think women like the muscle look, but the reality is the really big muscle guys are only going to be lean part of the year & fat dbol face the rest of the year. I think some muscle, maybe a little more than the GQ gay boy look, but still masculine. Personally I don't like guys that are smaller than me or I feel like I can squish if I hug them.
Scrawny guys are not interesting to me.
OK sorry. Not what was meant on this thread.
I think women like the muscle look, but the reality is the really big muscle guys are only going to be lean part of the year & fat dbol face the rest of the year. I think some muscle, maybe a little more than the GQ gay boy look, but still masculine. Personally I don't like guys that are smaller than me or I feel like I can squish if I hug them.
Scrawny guys are not interesting to me.
BigCracker
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Sassy69 said:
Guilty as charged.
However, I'm much better company when I'm fat as opposed to when I'm eating low carbs, doing cardio/training twice a day, drinking coffee non stop and eating ephedrine/clenbuterol like they're Pez Candies.
BigCracker
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Sassy69 said:
Internal plumbing must suck and birth control pills seem to hurt more than help. Plus us guys can pee standing up and we don't have to worry about getting prego either.
24EggsADay
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Women wont admit it...they luv going on and on how big isnt better.....but since i started juicing and gymming seriously in the last 3 years......i have grown quite huge and somewhat muscular.......my hit ratio is way way up...they cant resist the muslce.....just let em feel it and see!!!
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Sassy69 said:
Which has the direct result of making us miserable for that week also...
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*MissFit*
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I like a guy who takes care of himself.. whether that be a bodybuilder with some size, which i have dated or a guy who is smaller.. doesn't matter i am attracted to both.. i do have some muscle so i do tend to prefer a guy with some on him as well.
not to mention working out together can be hot.. and maybe he can teach me a thing or two
not to mention working out together can be hot.. and maybe he can teach me a thing or two
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*MissFit* said:
Thats, I think, the general sentiment of women....they just want a guy who takes care of themself, and looks decent. Not too many women want a heavyweight BB'er in perpetual contest shape, I think....
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anthony roberts said:
If he has a nice face i do
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Anthony Roberts
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*MissFit* said:
Well....I think a nice face is generally not the sucked out pre-contest look, though...nor the bloated moon-face off-season look...a nice face is probably just....nice.
Some girls seem ok with mine, I hope!
Beachboy6294
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21gun said:
You nailed that one on the head!!
BigCracker
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glennds said:
That's very true. Unfortunately as girls get older most become less desirable in appearance-bastard kids that make them fat and tired looking, stretchmarks, and titties that sag to their waist. I'd rather beat off than fuck some pumped and dumped skank that's only interested in my wallet. I'll take my chances with wishy washy young ones me thinks.
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LT3 said:
I agree with this. I have yet to meet a woman in my 32 years that actually finds a bodybuilder sexy. They know what hard work it takes, but if you show them a pic of ronnie or jay, etc they are not attracted. My wife and all the 10's of women I dated before her all liked my "stocky" build. They don't care so much about a 6 pack as they do broad thick shoulders, big back, chest, arms, quads, etc. They like a man that is obviously strong, but not so much abnormally big. Healthy is a good way to describe it. This may change from region to region as most women I know are southern/midwestern women who like a "farm boy" or a "country boy". A guy who knows what hard work is, looks like he has worked for or does work for a living and not some little ripped yet 160 lb 6' model. My wife could easily pin one of these model boys down and she isn't a big gal, just corn fed.
wayneboard1
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Iliketolift said:
Your name shows the difference.
A Bodybuilder HAS too lift.
You just LIKE to lift.
BIG difference.
glennds
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wayneboard1 said:I ". A guy who knows what hard work is, looks like he has worked for or does work for a living and not some little ripped yet 160 lb 6' model. My wife could easily pin one of these model boys down and she isn't a big gal, just corn fed.
i never understood why advertisers always use these skinny male model types in their ads. don't think most guys want to look that, all skinny and effeminate. they don't look like men.
I don't get it either. Cosmo always claims on the cover to have hot studs in side I open it up and it is some male model type 6 feet tall 170lbs.glennds said:
The Iotola
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superqt4u2nv said:I don't get it either. Cosmo always claims on the cover to have hot studs in side I open it up and it is some male model type 6 feet tall 170lbs.
It would be a crappy move to have some Jay Cutler look a like scare all the teen girls, and guys from walking into a Prada store.
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The Iotola said:
there must be a happy medium between a skinny male model and jay cutler. but Iotala has a point. the guys that buy these clothes are young guys in their early 20s who actually want that preppy, model look. most guys older than 30 do not want to look like that.
then again there is that whole eurotrash and middle eastern type guys who get into that faggy armani, designer look. lots of that in So Cal.
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*MissFit*
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I read cosmo but not for the guys.. i like the build look that men attain from the gear.. but like cosmo for the read..
Destroyer1986*
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Lets reverse the situation here. I prefer a girl who has nice thick toned legs with a round butt and small waist. I hate skinny girls, total turn off. Also a woman who works out with weights not just on the eliptical trainer 3hrs a day 5 days a week. Something about a nice curvy toned woman that gets me going 
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Destroyer1986* said:Lets reverse the situation here. I prefer a girl who has nice thick toned legs with a round butt and small waist. I hate skinny girls, total turn off. Also a woman who works out with weights not just on the eliptical trainer 3hrs a day 5 days a week. Something about a nice curvy toned woman that gets me going
I agree 100%. A woman that is toned AND has curves in the right places....wow...I just melt. God sure knew what he was doing when he made women.
Destroyer1986*
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superqt4u2nv said:I don't get it either. Cosmo always claims on the cover to have hot studs in side I open it up and it is some male model type 6 feet tall 170lbs.
That is the same view I have of the 5'11 - 6' girls who model down the cat walk weighing 100lbs max. I do not find that attractive at all. Woman has to have curves damn it. Most of those poor girls are starved and lose a cup size in the process.
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Destroyer1986* said:
I'm just the opposite. Any girl that starves themself to make me drool is A-OK in my book. If I see a skinny bitch drinking a Diet Coke I get a stiffy. I couldn't care less about tits-they can be bought at any time. A tight ass can't. Plus curvy girls usually end up looking like Roseanne Barr after they squeeze out a kid or two. I'm in my 30's so I gotta think long term. Don't get me wrong, athletic looking chicks like Anna Kournikova are smokin', but if I had the choice between fucking Kate Moss or a thicker chick like J. Lo -I'd choose Kate Moss. (after I dust bustered her cocaine up my nose of course)
c3bodybuilding
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I think a lot of it has to do with your face. There really isn't a lot of good looking bber's since Steve Reeves. Look at Cutler with his scary ass face, he is actually considered a good looking bber. You take someone like Brad Pitt, George Clooney, etc and even if he was built like Gunter, women would still like them. A LOT has to do with face. Which is why the few good looking guys who are 'into' the lifestyle only pick up girls contest time. The rest of the year they have a moon face from the deca, dbol, etc.
I noticed this with myself. When I was around 190lbs at 6'4 women loved me. They would ask me if I was a model, or actor. They even thought I was built! Then when I hit 250ish, the girls still looked, but nothing like before. I sure as hell wasn't getting girls following me around stores, etc. UNTIL I cut. Once my face leaned out, even though I was now 258lbs or so, the attention returned. So I think as long as you have a good face, and it isn't all bloated, then it doesn't matter how big you get. But if you ever get a build like Ronnies (we can all dream, right?) that may be another story all together.
I noticed this with myself. When I was around 190lbs at 6'4 women loved me. They would ask me if I was a model, or actor. They even thought I was built! Then when I hit 250ish, the girls still looked, but nothing like before. I sure as hell wasn't getting girls following me around stores, etc. UNTIL I cut. Once my face leaned out, even though I was now 258lbs or so, the attention returned. So I think as long as you have a good face, and it isn't all bloated, then it doesn't matter how big you get. But if you ever get a build like Ronnies (we can all dream, right?) that may be another story all together.
Sassy69
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If we define a "BBer" as someone who trains & preps for comp or to the level of comp, that gets pretty old in any relationship. If you are talking about someone show just likes to be muscular for the club look, that whole thing gets a bit narcissistic and that is initially attractive in the clubs, but can get old.
The size factor really does turn off a lot of girls - they like muscle but not huge muscle. Thus the attraction for the smaller GQ guy w/ the abs. Younger girls especially. If you have an interest in and understanding of the "fitness lifestyle", you may find bigger guys attractive (e.g. like qt does). I personally would also need someone who is interested in the lifestyle because it is a big part of my life and something that the guy could understand and work w/ as far as relationship time & interests.
Scrawny guys - I guess when we are talking about what we find attractive we are talking about first impressions and all visual. When you get down to who the person is, there are many other features that are attractive / compatible or not. Those may often outweigh the value of the look or build itself. And that's not to say that a person can't change how they look by a change in their lifestyle. Scrawny guy one day, 5 yrs of healthy eating, training, buildign a great relationship w/ that guy & he starts to carry some nice sweep
The size factor really does turn off a lot of girls - they like muscle but not huge muscle. Thus the attraction for the smaller GQ guy w/ the abs. Younger girls especially. If you have an interest in and understanding of the "fitness lifestyle", you may find bigger guys attractive (e.g. like qt does). I personally would also need someone who is interested in the lifestyle because it is a big part of my life and something that the guy could understand and work w/ as far as relationship time & interests.
Scrawny guys - I guess when we are talking about what we find attractive we are talking about first impressions and all visual. When you get down to who the person is, there are many other features that are attractive / compatible or not. Those may often outweigh the value of the look or build itself. And that's not to say that a person can't change how they look by a change in their lifestyle. Scrawny guy one day, 5 yrs of healthy eating, training, buildign a great relationship w/ that guy & he starts to carry some nice sweep
Destroyer1986*
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Sassy69 said:If we define a "BBer" as someone who trains & preps for comp or to the level of comp, that gets pretty old in any relationship. If you are talking about someone show just likes to be muscular for the club look, that whole thing gets a bit narcissistic and that is initially attractive in the clubs, but can get old.
The size factor really does turn off a lot of girls - they like muscle but not huge muscle. Thus the attraction for the smaller GQ guy w/ the abs. Younger girls especially. If you have an interest in and understanding of the "fitness lifestyle", you may find bigger guys attractive (e.g. like qt does). I personally would also need someone who is interested in the lifestyle because it is a big part of my life and something that the guy could understand and work w/ as far as relationship time & interests.
Scrawny guys - I guess when we are talking about what we find attractive we are talking about first impressions and all visual. When you get down to who the person is, there are many other features that are attractive / compatible or not. Those may often outweigh the value of the look or build itself. And that's not to say that a person can't change how they look by a change in their lifestyle. Scrawny guy one day, 5 yrs of healthy eating, training, buildign a great relationship w/ that guy & he starts to carry some nice sweep
Its all subjective, but you are right most of the women are turned off by extremely muscular men.
I might not be considered freakishly huge to the bodybuilding community here but in general public people see me as a freak. I get dirty looks from many girls and sometimes verbal assaults, but I take that as a compliment
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TRAPezoid
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I like this arguement. A good female friend of mine says that I look like a "pillow person," and that I'm not attractive. I am nothing near being a huge freak, I am only 5'7" around 165. I have to work like crazy to maintain even that.
My friend told me to ask my sister for an honest answer. My sister said how I look is very muscular and in shape but I am not at the "gross point," yet. In my book, bigger is always the goal.
My friend told me to ask my sister for an honest answer. My sister said how I look is very muscular and in shape but I am not at the "gross point," yet. In my book, bigger is always the goal.
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BigCracker said:
Totally agree.
C3bodybuilding said:
Also totally true. I do WAY better for myself when I'm cutting and/or on non-aromatizing drugs as opposed to test and d-bol.
TRAPezoid said:
Agreed. That's why you work out for YOURSELF, not for the opposite sex.
MILF69 said:I absolutley love them...it takes a tremendous amount of mental and physical strength to keep your body running like a machine. So many people do not understand what it takes to look that way...Diet + Weights +Discipline = YUMMY!!!!!
I think that (coupled with the narcissistic component) is EXACTLY why most girls DON'T like the bodybuilding look.
Diet + weights + discipline = no going out and having fun.
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Joe Stenson said:
Glad I'm not the only guy that sets his standards so high. Most guys won't admit it to themselves, but I think most guys that are attracted to short, thick, curvy girls is largely(excuse the pun)due to numbers. The avg american woman is clinically obese-so by dating ones that are 10-30 lbs overweight in addition to the thin/fit ones really opens up their dating pool). In addition, not all guys are secure enough with their own appearance to date some supermodel type (that's probably been getting offers from new cock wherever she goes since she was 13 yrs old.) Girls like this are definitely tough to hold on to-but for me that's 1/2 the turn on. I know that if they choose me over all of these other dorks willing to blow their weekly paycheck on them without ever getting laid-I must be special or have something they don't.
Anyway, the way I see it is like this. The porn industry doesn't lean towards filming matronly, overweight chicks in their movies. Sure there are fat fetish and older women pornos-but they're fetish specific. Mainstream porn is made to appeal to the masses for maximum profits. If the majority of guys didn't want to see younger, thinner, girls with fake tits, fucking/sucking, mainstream porn directors would be hiring thicker chicks-complete with flabby secretary asses, hot water bottle titties, cellulite, c section scars, vericose veins, etc., to star in their movies. Why buy porn when most guys can see these things at home or at the public pool for free?
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BigCracker said:
If Selma Hyeck is obese.....then wayne loves the fatties!
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Makes you wonder if maybe it's the attitude and not the look women r turned off byBigCracker said:
TRAPezoid
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BigCracker said:
The best are the girls who weren't hot when they were growing up and get hotter as they age. I don't mean they were over weight, I mean looks-wise. They make the best girlfriends because they don't act stuck up and they remember what it was like when they were busted.
coldblue1955
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most think bodybuilders are ugly.big_boy_1 said:
BigCracker
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TRAPezoid said:
I agree 100%-the ugly duckling makes for the best girlfriend and sex partner. Think about the 13 yr old beauty queen that's been getting unsolicited attention from guys the day she sprouted boobage. How much incentive does she have to treat a guy right and rock his world in the bedroom when she's had a bazillion guys at her disposal 24/7 all of her life? Chicks like her are the "I don't do blow jobs" types-which to me is like a guy that says "I don't do foreplay". Dating a girl like that is like having a new Ferrari that has a speed governer of 65mph. I'd rather drive a fixed up hemi-cuda that does a 10 sec 1/4 mile.
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BigCracker said:
They always remember where they came from and how they could "turn back," at any moment. Plus they are always good in bed. Chicks that have always been hot are horrible fucks as a whole. I never believed it until I had an encounter with a Miss NY contestant, she was smoking hot, but my hand is better.
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i gotta go find myself a troll
TRAPezoid
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*MissFit* said:
MissFit, you are too cute to go for a troll. I don't think it works the same for guys. Go find a guy who maybe wasn't the best looking or awesome at sports, but spent most of his freetime in high school getting ass. That guy will fuck like a pro!
I know, because that was me!
wayneboard1
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*MissFit* said:
How YOU doin'?
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*MissFit* said:
LMAO and I agree with what you said in the post before this one too.
As far as only liking "bodybuilders" I personally dont make it a mission to only date those kinds of men. My boyfriend is a bodybuilder but that happened b/c we have a lot of the same interests and goals in life....he is wonderful and caring not to mention his sex drive is INSANE due to the steroids he's on.
I like that b/c im a freak myself. I can also say that Ive been approached by bodybuilders before him and I didnt like them b.c they came off as cocky assholes! It depends on the personality ...thats an important part of the package.
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trueLT3 said:
Gotta respect anyone with serious dedication...
coldblue1955
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most there days thinks that bodybuilders are gross!big_boy_1 said:
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