LOL. There are 2 questions. When you are with him and when you are not?
What's the difference between looking at a guy on the street and requesting pics from men on EF/searching their gallery? What's the difference between looking at men on the street and hanging out in EF's POM forum? What's the difference between looking at a guy on the street and sitting at home watching Troy and saying "DAMN, Brad Pitt is fine?"