GF told me yesterday she was looking for someone else...

[Wulfgar]

Interesting conversation actually. She told me I was emotionally crippled, closed off and incapable of ever truly opening up to anyone, being happy or making anyone else happy for that matter.
but at the same time she really likes me and she says I am a lot of fun and she wants us to stay together until she finds someone more into her and then we can just part ways amicably.

why did I think things were getting better up till this past conversation?
Im not sure to be "dance2" or be "worried"

 

[string_bean00]

sorry bor


and wtf at her wanting to stay together until she finds someone else

 

[ortiz34]

End it now bro, there's plenty of other women out there for you. At least she is honest.

 

[Wulfgar]

I really am still kind of in shock..she seemed so sincere and matter of fact about it that I was kind of blown away
I guess she needs props for the straight up brutal honesty.

I told her I needed to think about it before I got back to her. we are going to a play tonight but I think afterwards I may just tell her I need to call it quits.

 

[puddlemonkey]

Gotta appreciate the honesty

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

Interesting conversation actually. She told me I was emotionally crippled, closed off and incapable of ever truly opening up to anyone, being happy or making anyone else happy for that matter.
but at the same time she really likes me and she says I am a lot of fun and she wants us to stay together until she finds someone more into her and then we can just part ways amicably.

why did I think things were getting better up till this past conversation?
Im not sure to be "dance2" or be "worried"

The old "It's over....but I still want to see you." Yup, I got that too. It's the easiest way for chics to save their emotional health, withdrawing slowly from a relationship they aren't feeling good about, until something better pops into their lap. At this point it's virtually impossible to salvage, save a miracle turn around. I did my last in sooner by accusing her of cheating on me during this time. Our contact ceased after that. I still feel kinda bad since she was a good girl but I wasn't ready for a relationship like I wanted to be. Oh well. I heard she's already seeing someone else. I, however, am cool with being alone for the time being. Much easier that way.

 

[jh1]

She's cheating on you.

 

[jh1]

Take revenge by posting her pics here, especially any sexually comprimising ones.

 

[Wulfgar]

The old "It's over....but I still want to see you." Yup, I got that too. It's the easiest way for chics to save their emotional health, withdrawing slowly from a relationship they aren't feeling good about, until something better pops into their lap. At this point it's virtually impossible to salvage, save a miracle turn around. I did my last in sooner by accusing her of cheating on me during this time. Our contact ceased after that. I still feel kinda bad since she was a good girl but I wasn't ready for a relationship like I wanted to be. Oh well. I heard she's already seeing someone else. I, however, am cool with being alone for the time being. Much easier that way.

ya that is rough man...
it is just weird thats all..I am no stranger to breakups...but normally the girls are much more coniving and secretive than this one is.

 

[hanselthecaretaker]

ya that is rough man...
it is just weird thats all..I am no stranger to breakups...but normally the girls are much more coniving and secretive than this one is.

Brutal honesty is much better, since it saves the trouble of being suspicious with what you know is a half truth, or no truth.