getting over the ex

[CrazyRussian]

how hard was it for u guys to get over yur first ex? my first ex broke up with me like....over 3 weeks ago. she totally disrespected me and did something really fucked up. left on a 3 month vacation....after 2 weeks she stopped texting me, stopped answering my emails, and even hung up on me when i called her twice. so as yall can imagine for 2.5 months i went thru hell...1 week before she comes back she emails me and says she never wantsta see me again. the fact that she was hot as fuck too and we both lost our virginity to each other kinda compounds the situation.

how long did it take you guys to take over yur first ex? and uh...do you still think about them? thanks

 

[Sub-Zero]

lol bro what do u think happened.....she wont even talk to u about it? what a skankasswhore

just immagine that shes a fucking hoe and go find some girls u can fuck and disrespect them like she disresepcted u.

one night stand, try and bust as fast as u can, under 2 min preferably, and right as u do use her wetness to lube ur finger up enoguh to stuff it in her butthole as u come, then get up leave condom in middle of the floor and walk out without saying a word

 

[Wulfgar]

I dont even want to get into it
almost 3 years ago and a day doenst go by.....

 

[biteme]

how hard was it for u guys to get over yur first ex? my first ex broke up with me like....over 3 weeks ago. she totally disrespected me and did something really fucked up. left on a 3 month vacation....after 2 weeks she stopped texting me, stopped answering my emails, and even hung up on me when i called her twice. so as yall can imagine for 2.5 months i went thru hell...1 week before she comes back she emails me and says she never wantsta see me again. the fact that she was hot as fuck too and we both lost our virginity to each other kinda compounds the situation.

how long did it take you guys to take over yur first ex? and uh...do you still think about them? thanks

I never really got over the bitch. Once I fall which is very rarely, it's very difficult for me even if the woman turns out to be psycho.

 

[biteme]

I dont even want to get into it
almost 3 years ago and a day doenst go by.....

Over 20 years ago and I still think about her sometimes. Men love deeply, women superfically as a general rule. There are exceptions.

 

[rudeboyja]

You sound young. Funny shit is that you'll look back at this when you are older and realize "who gives a fuck". Meaning don't sweat it. Plenty more tail out there

 

[biteme]

You sound young. Funny shit is that you'll look back at this when you are older and realize "who gives a fuck". Meaning don't sweat it. Plenty more tail out there

Not necessarily, some of us are more sentimental by nature than others.

 

[Wulfgar]

Over 20 years ago and I still think about her sometimes. Men love deeply, women superfically as a general rule. There are exceptions.

exactly brutha
trickis to find those women tha are the exceptions. they get snatched up quick

 

[Wulfgar]

You sound young. Funny shit is that you'll look back at this when you are older and realize "who gives a fuck". Meaning don't sweat it. Plenty more tail out there

he loved her...or it was puppy love/lust @ worst.
first major reltionship heartbreaks and betrayals are the hardest. though that doesnt mean subsequent ones are easy.

 

[CrazyRussian]

Over 20 years ago and I still think about her sometimes. Men love deeply, women superfically as a general rule. There are exceptions.

Wow very well said. It's wierd because we always get fed this stuff that women are the more emotional ones and men are the ones who just wanna hit it and quit it but I am slowly finding out that its not that simple.

 

[biteme]

Wow very well said. It's wierd because we always get fed this stuff that women are the more emotional ones and men are the ones who just wanna hit it and quit it but I am slowly finding out that its not that simple.

We do just want to often hit, but when we fall (I think most men) they got us by the balls.

 

[KillahBee]

I have only had trouble getting over a girl once. It was tough man, real tough. Made worse by the fact that I was experiencing these feelings of hurt/anger/pain for the first time ever. I won't lie, it was fuggin tough. Felt like death for a week or 2 - just empty. Life was not exciting or happy or even tolerable.

Then I slept with one of her friends and the pain was really gone. For a while at least. I won't lie, it really really really helped. My confidence was a little shot (even tho it was a mutual break up), so having a pretty hot girl crawl into my bed was something I really needed.

But somehow the whole break-up sent me into a long period of self discovery type ish. I don't know how, but something REALLY good came of it. I think I was ashamed at feeling so shitty about a girl and even more ashamed at letting the feeling rule my life for so long.

Bottom line - creation is a direct result of destruction. Turn it into a good thing bor.

 

[heatherrae]

Takes me at least a year to get over someone when I really love them .

One thing that helps me is to think about something about them that was pretty heinous and give them a ugly nickname based on a bad trait. Then I never call them by the real name again. Some of my ex's are "Eddie Munster" "Pencil Dick" and "Scrub". It is pretty hard to pine away for someone for long when you completely focus on their bad traits...lol.

 

[Fajitas]

I have only had trouble getting over a girl once. It was tough man, real tough. Made worse by the fact that I was experiencing these feelings of hurt/anger/pain for the first time ever. I won't lie, it was fuggin tough. Felt like death for a week or 2 - just empty. Life was not exciting or happy or even tolerable.

Then I slept with one of her friends and the pain was really gone. For a while at least. I won't lie, it really really really helped. My confidence was a little shot (even tho it was a mutual break up), so having a pretty hot girl crawl into my bed was something I really needed.

But somehow the whole break-up sent me into a long period of self discovery type ish. I don't know how, but something REALLY good came of it. I think I was ashamed at feeling so shitty about a girl and even more ashamed at letting the feeling rule my life for so long.

Bottom line - creation is a direct result of destruction. Turn it into a good thing bor.

Agreed, well said!

 

[manny78]

how hard was it for u guys to get over yur first ex? my first ex broke up with me like....over 3 weeks ago. she totally disrespected me and did something really fucked up. left on a 3 month vacation....after 2 weeks she stopped texting me, stopped answering my emails, and even hung up on me when i called her twice. so as yall can imagine for 2.5 months i went thru hell...1 week before she comes back she emails me and says she never wantsta see me again. the fact that she was hot as fuck too and we both lost our virginity to each other kinda compounds the situation.

how long did it take you guys to take over yur first ex? and uh...do you still think about them? thanks

I feel liek there's a part of the story you left out ? Why would she stop answering your emails ? I mean something happened between you guys....

 

[heatherrae]

I feel liek there's a part of the story you left out ? Why would she stop answering your emails ? I mean something happened between you guys....

sounds like she just found someone else.

 

[CrazyRussian]

I feel liek there's a part of the story you left out ? Why would she stop answering your emails ? I mean something happened between you guys....

I'm not leaving any part out. I'm guessing she found someone else? The last text msg she ever sent me was on 6/12/06 = "Awww thank you babe! I miss you too and I lvoe you so much! I see you in my dreams"...etc, etc. After that she just stopped responding, period.

The thing is, I'm off to college in about a month and she's staying in HS. I'm guessing she just decided "fuck it, im partying with a bunch of hot guys in another country and our relationship doesnt have a future anyway." thats fine, i guess...but what pisses me off is the WAY she did it. Call me and explain the sitatuation but dont IGNORE me for 3 months and THEN dump me a week before you come back.

Anyways great advice guys believe it or not it really helps. Thank u all

 

[mustang_00]

almost 5 years. I know it's going to be insanly hard for you but you have to let go. I think you need to run into her in person for closure. I'll stop it write there cause it'll take to much time to write my situation and i don't want to be another BM

 

[-SD-]

I'm not leaving any part out. I'm guessing she found someone else? The last text msg she ever sent me was on 6/12/06 = "Awww thank you babe! I miss you too and I lvoe you so much! I see you in my dreams"...etc, etc. After that she just stopped responding, period.

The thing is, I'm off to college in about a month and she's staying in HS. I'm guessing she just decided "fuck it, im partying with a bunch of hot guys in another country and our relationship doesnt have a future anyway." thats fine, i guess...but what pisses me off is the WAY she did it. Call me and explain the sitatuation but dont IGNORE me for 3 months and THEN dump me a week before you come back.

Anyways great advice guys believe it or not it really helps. Thank u all

Ive literally had a girl of supposed sane mind dissappear completely from my life when the last time we were together was totally normal and her last words were "Ok love you see you wednesday". After she left my place poof, never heard from again. We were together about 6 months and made a great couple or so I thought. She even bought me a fucking hunting rifle and scope for valentines day (!?). Then the next month she vanished. I even called her folks (she had to move back home after losing a job earlier) and they just said she was at her cousins place in the next town or something, but I didnt tell them she just up and dissappeared on me.
So you see, anything can happen at anytime with any woman. No relationship is guaranteed just because the bitch says so. Always follow her actions not her words.

 

[EnderJE]

I'm not leaving any part out. I'm guessing she found someone else? The last text msg she ever sent me was on 6/12/06 = "Awww thank you babe! I miss you too and I lvoe you so much! I see you in my dreams"...etc, etc. After that she just stopped responding, period.

The thing is, I'm off to college in about a month and she's staying in HS. I'm guessing she just decided "fuck it, im partying with a bunch of hot guys in another country and our relationship doesnt have a future anyway." thats fine, i guess...but what pisses me off is the WAY she did it. Call me and explain the sitatuation but dont IGNORE me for 3 months and THEN dump me a week before you come back.

Anyways great advice guys believe it or not it really helps. Thank u all

Think of it this way. Given how it's turning out, could you really see yourself with this chick in the future if she didn't break up with you the way she did?

 

[manny78]

I'm not leaving any part out. I'm guessing she found someone else? The last text msg she ever sent me was on 6/12/06 = "Awww thank you babe! I miss you too and I lvoe you so much! I see you in my dreams"...etc, etc. After that she just stopped responding, period.

The thing is, I'm off to college in about a month and she's staying in HS. I'm guessing she just decided "fuck it, im partying with a bunch of hot guys in another country and our relationship doesnt have a future anyway." thats fine, i guess...but what pisses me off is the WAY she did it. Call me and explain the sitatuation but dont IGNORE me for 3 months and THEN dump me a week before you come back.

Anyways great advice guys believe it or not it really helps. Thank u all

My only advice to you: find another girl and this time, play the game by your rules.

A girl is like a used japanese car with 150 000 miles. Some will have issues after a month, others after 6 months and others after years. You may have minor problems and fix them and it will keep running. It all depends on how you use it but one thing is sure, one day it will just fall apart. Now you've just learn one of the biggest lesson in your life, possibly the most important: Relationships are just a train wreck waiting to happen. Hopefully you'll have a different attitude and just take girls for what they are.

 

[caligirl]

Over 20 years ago and I still think about her sometimes. Men love deeply, women superfically as a general rule. There are exceptions.

do you really think that? I'd say there are many exceptions.

 

[UA_Iron]

what killah said is true

its a good thing that you feel like shit and stuff - it'll pass, but it just means you will be a pussy for a couple months (happens to most dudes).

Once you get over it you learn a lot, a whole lot. Dont let it shoot your confidence bor

I suggest deleting those text messages - what once brought you joy only brings you pain.

Delete her number out of your phone too.

 

[-SD-]

what killah said is true

its a good thing that you feel like shit and stuff - it'll pass, but it just means you will be a pussy for a couple months (happens to most dudes).

Once you get over it you learn a lot, a whole lot. Dont let it shoot your confidence bor

I suggest deleting those text messages - what once brought you joy only brings you pain.

Delete her number out of your phone too.

yea, delete emails and basically anything that allows you to easily contact her. You dont want to have a moment of weakness and email/call or anything like that.

 

[KillahBee]

I'll say one thing - it feels goooooood when the exes call me months, even years later still thinking about "us". Don't be that chick, dude.

 

[-SD-]

I'll say one thing - it feels goooooood when the exes call me months, even years later still thinking about "us". Don't be that chick, dude.

Everytime you pathetically call your ex God kills a kitten. Please, think of the kittens.

 

[patsfan1379]

burn everything or delete everything that ever happened between you two. worked for me.

i burned all pictures, cards and letters, deleted all pictures and threw a few rings into the woods.

felt great.

 

[Wulfgar]

Isnt burning them kinda overdramatic?
i just throw mine in the recycle bin

 

[biteme]

Ive literally had a girl of supposed sane mind dissappear completely from my life when the last time we were together was totally normal and her last words were "Ok love you see you wednesday". After she left my place poof, never heard from again. We were together about 6 months and made a great couple or so I thought. She even bought me a fucking hunting rifle and scope for valentines day (!?). Then the next month she vanished. I even called her folks (she had to move back home after losing a job earlier) and they just said she was at her cousins place in the next town or something, but I didnt tell them she just up and dissappeared on me.
So you see, anything can happen at anytime with any woman. No relationship is guaranteed just because the bitch says so. Always follow her actions not her words.

See what happens when you don't brush your teeth, fart and snore in your sleep. They'll bail eventually. j/k. Sorry, that sucks.

 

[biteme]

yea, delete emails and basically anything that allows you to easily contact her. You dont want to have a moment of weakness and email/call or anything like that.

Fucking A. And they might say you're stalking them to get revenge on you. Don't get weak, it ain't worth it.

 

[Wulfgar]

the very first love of my life died in my arms
she was pregnant and got hit by a cement truck crossing the street. I was about 5 feet behind her carrying groceries. I was 19 and she was 18. The trucks brakes went out. nothing he could of done.
you never know how the cards are going to be dealt.
keep your head up bro

 

[DieselGunz]

lol bro what do u think happened.....she wont even talk to u about it? what a skankasswhore

just immagine that shes a fucking hoe and go find some girls u can fuck and disrespect them like she disresepcted u.

one night stand, try and bust as fast as u can, under 2 min preferably, and right as u do use her wetness to lube ur finger up enoguh to stuff it in her butthole as u come, then get up leave condom in middle of the floor and walk out without saying a word

lmao

 

[Sub-Zero]

the very first love of my life died in my arms
she was pregnant and got hit by a cement truck crossing the street. I was about 5 feet behind her carrying groceries. I was 19 and she was 18. The trucks brakes went out. nothing he could of done.
you never know how the cards are going to be dealt.
keep your head up bro

jesus dude

 

[bignate73]

the very first love of my life died in my arms
she was pregnant and got hit by a cement truck crossing the street. I was about 5 feet behind her carrying groceries. I was 19 and she was 18. The trucks brakes went out. nothing he could of done.
you never know how the cards are going to be dealt.
keep your head up bro

sorry to hear that bro. it makes things tough.

 

[Sub-Zero]

the very first love of my life died in my arms
she was pregnant and got hit by a cement truck crossing the street. I was about 5 feet behind her carrying groceries. I was 19 and she was 18. The trucks brakes went out. nothing he could of done.
you never know how the cards are going to be dealt.
keep your head up bro

do y ou think you feel guilt when your with other women cuz of this?

the nausia of feelign intimate witha woman reminds you of losing your first in this horrible tragedy and its your bodhy and mind rejecting the intimacy for fear of the pain u went through

 

[Saintinistic]

one night stand, try and bust as fast as u can, under 2 min preferably, and right as u do use her wetness to lube ur finger up enoguh to stuff it in her butthole as u come, then get up leave condom in middle of the floor and walk out without saying a word

In my 20's I was drunk (like every other day in my 20's) and I finally got to peel this chick that turned mwe down about 10 years before , so I peeled that butter at her place and when I jizzed up her, got up and wiped my dick on her hand towel in the bathroom then walked back to the party a few blocks away.

She didnt come back, pity.

On topic: I traded my first gf who phoned to break up with me for opiates. Seemed I then had a more reliable but more addictive love of my life after that. Forgot about Adele real fast. Looking back I do wonder about her though and where she is now.

 

[Wulfgar]

do y ou think you feel guilt when your with other women cuz of this?

the nausia of feelign intimate witha woman reminds you of losing your first in this horrible tragedy and its your bodhy and mind rejecting the intimacy for fear of the pain u went through

who knows bro?
it was pretty tough but I seem to have delt with it ok IMHO. I dnno if there is any psychological repercussion from it.

 

[-SD-]

who knows bro?
it was pretty tough but I seem to have delt with it ok IMHO. I dnno if there is any psychological repercussion from it.

More than likely and you dont know it since its been with you this whole time. Hell, when I was 19 my really good friend (chick) got killed by a drunk driver and I wasnt even there and I was effed up about a year after that and think about it almost everyday. That was 12 years ago. I cant imagine your situation.