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Getting over someone...

is there something about him that you don't think you could/would find with another? what makes him special? what did you love about him? was there more than attraction, some similarities, and time? did you think he could be the one? what is it that you want most in a man or a relationship? did he give that to you?

i don't suppose you could PM the response so I don't have to check this shitbird thread again?
 
2mins 2 sec's

just chalk it up and move on... Lingering on a past relationship is just crazy. Its over... You are a beautiful girl... I'm sure you are not hurting for attention and hell if you don't want a relationship... one word... energizer
 
fitnessgrl8621 said:
Right now it feels like I'll never love someone as much as I did him, and that I'll have this sick to my stomach feeling forever and ever.

My gawd he must have tapped that booty into total submission.

Seriously, like others have said, separation is a must. If you choose stick around then you are a glutton for punishment.
 
fitnessgrl8621 said:
Are you happy now, though?
I don't think I'll ever get over him, I just want to be able to move on with my life and with someone else eventually. Right now it feels like I'll never love someone as much as I did him, and that I'll have this sick to my stomach feeling forever and ever.

Oh yes it will pass for sure...takes a little while, but trust me everything happens for a reason...

The reason this has happened is to teach you something about yourself and to make you stronger in some way that years from now you will look back and think this was the best thing that could have ever happened to me.

It will change you forever...but if you use it to change you for the better, the best is yet to come! Promise...
 
avidinternet said:
Oh yes it will pass for sure...takes a little while, but trust me everything happens for a reason...

The reason this has happened is to teach you something about yourself and to make you stronger in some way that years from now you will look back and think this was the best thing that could have ever happened to me.

It will change you forever...but if you use it to change you for the better, the best is yet to come! Promise...


amen to that...
 
I agree with the assumption that he's not "talking" to this other girl. omg how naive are you? Seriously. He's met her before he ended the relationship. He hasn't "found someone new after..." Seriously, he found someone new AND THEN dumped you. That's how it went down. He's 40, you're 23, he owns you mentally. period.

I'm sorry for your loss, really. you sound (and look) like a great girl but you're a little too naive. That's thr truth. One of many you'll find in life,. Get living it.

I wish you well.

and Nathan thinks you're awesome.
 
fitnessgrl8621 said:
Thanks lol That was no help at all.

Seriously!... Any women on here gone through this? This is/was my first serious relationship. We've lived together for the past 2 and a 1/2 years. It feels like I'll never get over him.

You'll get over it. After my 11 yrs relationship ended, it took me a solid yr to get over it. When my 2 yr relationship ended, it took me 3 months or so.
Both the ex's cheated so I was angry. Anger helps you get over the pain so much easier.
I didn't run out and screw other guys or get wasted. I used the energy to nurture myself with meeting new friends, working out and just doing good things for me.
It feels bad now but it gets better with time. Time is really the only healer.
Sorry for your pain
 
fitnessgrl8621 said:
lol... different guy... I could only wish to marry David Wright of the NYM. He's closer to my age anyway.


Well just think, now you're free to pursue him :-)
You're sure as hell are sexy enough to get him
 
Girl the pitty party has gone on long enough.
We feel for you, most have been there, the rest will get there too. It happens. It sucks when it does.

You give the impression of being a great girl. You'll get over it soon enough. In the process you'll learn more about who you are and what you really want in a relationship.

We've made some smart ass remarks, tried humor, ect. but really it is up to you to decide how you react.

Wish you the best.
 
lol at all the bros rushin this thread.













Myself included. :(


To answer the question though yes even something more mutual of a breakup with someone you care about it takes me like a year to fully recoup, because I always am thinking on any day "I was at this point/doing this or that with her this time last year."
 
Took me less than a year with the last one. it went pretty fast cause I actually met someone who's superior in every aspect and realized that my friends were right about the ex. But I must admit I was a little bit confused after the first 4-5 months...
 
I feel for ya. I hate relationships for this reason. I dont understand why they are so dam hard. Especially when its time to end one.
 
so you and jh1 finally broke up?

try dating a nice guy (like me) instead of a coked out loser (pick3), next time around
 
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Finally got over that song of ours; stopped chasin' little red sports cars,
To check the license plates and I quit drivin' by your place.
Back makin' the rounds at our old haunts: Honky Tonks, restaurants.
And seein' some of our old friends: it feels good to dance again.
And I can finally smell your perfume and not look around the room for you.
And I can walk right by your picture in a frame and not feel a thing.

But when I hear your name,
I feel rain fallin' right out of the blue sky.
And it's the fifth of May, and I'm right there starin' in your eyes.
And nothin's changed, and we're still same.
And I get lost in the innocence of a first kiss,
And I'm hangin' on to every word rollin' off of your lips:
And that's all it takes, and I'm in that place,
Every time I hear your name.

Got someone special in my life; everyone thinks she'll make a great wife.
Dad says he thinks she's the one; reminds him of Mom when she was young.
But it's way too soon to be talkin' 'bout rings; don't wanna rush into anything.
She's getting over someone too, kinda like me and you.
And she talks about him every once in a while, and I just nod my head and smile,
'cause I know exactly what she's goin' through; yeah, I've been there too.

And when the conversation turns to you,
I get caught in a "you were the only one for me",
Kinda thought, and your face is all that I see.
I know I can't go back but I still go back.
And there we are, parked down by the riverside,
And I'm in your arms about to make love for the first time,
And that's all it takes, and I'm in that place,
Every time I hear your name.

I stop thinkin' 'bout the words I left unsaid.
(Every time I hear your name.)
I stop tryin' the change the things I can't change.
(Every time I hear your name.)
In my heart I know you're gone, but in my head,

I feel rain fallin' right out of the blue sky.
And it's the fifth of May, and I'm right there starin' in your eyes.
That's all it takes, and I'm in that place.
And there we are, parked down by the riverside,
And I'm in your arms about to make love for the first time.
And I can't explain, but I'm in that place,
Every time I hear your name.

Every time I hear your name.
(Every time I hear your name.)
Ooh, ooooooooh, ooh, ooooooooh.
(Every time I hear your name.)
Aaaaah aaaaaaah.
Every time I hear your name.
 
Wow, well, I did it. I just went and signed a lease on my lunch break. I've never lived on my own before.

I think I'm going to be sick lol
 
fitnessgrl8621 said:
Those of you that have been really serious with someone, and they were the ones wanting to end things... How long did it take you to get over that person? Were you able to move on, and have just as strong of feelings for someone else? Does it ever get better?

It depends on many factors but I'd say anywhere between two weeks and a few years.
 
Smurfy said:
everyone feels this way at one point or another in their lives

but, good news:

You WILL get over this. We all do.

Have lots of sex with other (wo)mens right away. That always helps.


That doesn't always do it; unless all you cared about with the ex was the sex to begin with.
 
gotmilk said:
Staying in the same area will probably be the suck.

Probably so... I just hope I don't run into him.. unless I'm with someone else. lol... Don't want to see HIM with this other woman.

Oh, and he told me last night..that this 'woman' he's talking to... He's never even met her in real life! What an idiot. They started talking over 3 years ago, talked quite a bit... then I moved in with him. They stopped talking, and supposedly she just called him about 3 weeks ago, and he said they've been talking everyday since. BUT never met this woman in person. zzzz.
 
fitnessgrl8621 said:
Probably so... I just hope I don't run into him.. unless I'm with someone else. lol... Don't want to see HIM with this other woman.

Oh, and he told me last night..that this 'woman' he's talking to... He's never even met her in real life! What an idiot. They started talking over 3 years ago, talked quite a bit... then I moved in with him. They stopped talking, and supposedly she just called him about 3 weeks ago, and he said they've been talking everyday since. BUT never met this woman in person. zzzz.


Kinda like us... :(
 
Superqt hasn't uploaded them yet...

just finished up my second show last saturday now im just eating my face off for this week.. check ur k message

oh back to fitnessgrl she is hawt, i want her nudes
 
Faizakafez said:
Superqt hasn't uploaded them yet...

just finished up my second show last saturday now im just eating my face off for this week.. check ur k message

oh back to fitnessgrl she is hawt, i want her nudes



Check YOUR k....
 
fitnessgrl8621 said:
Those of you that have been really serious with someone, and they were the ones wanting to end things... How long did it take you to get over that person? Were you able to move on, and have just as strong of feelings for someone else? Does it ever get better?

as an attractive girl...much easier. not that hard to find a replacement from a numbers perspective. highly coveted, don't even really have to put yourself out there to find new potential mates.

as a guy...i don't know, i'll let you know when i feel that way. gets better at times, just gotta have other people worthwhile in your life and things/hobbies/career to occupy your mind.

when you sit around and do nothing or are alone is when you start reminisicing and thinking about things you shouldn't
 
fitnessgrl8621 said:
Probably so... I just hope I don't run into him.. unless I'm with someone else. lol... Don't want to see HIM with this other woman.

Oh, and he told me last night..that this 'woman' he's talking to... He's never even met her in real life! What an idiot. They started talking over 3 years ago, talked quite a bit... then I moved in with him. They stopped talking, and supposedly she just called him about 3 weeks ago, and he said they've been talking everyday since. BUT never met this woman in person. zzzz.

Didn't your "ex" used to post here? If it's who I think it is, I have a really funny story about something from about 5 years back....
 
BIKINIMOM said:
If you don't mind my asking but why did he decide to end your relationship?

He was 40ish she is 20ish. She lived in his place for a few yrs. (He told her he has been talking to another girl that he never met in person)

Ask your husband why they probably broke up.

My guess she started hinting about kids or getting married. That is when guys get nervous they might FORGET to take birth control.

I am sure she is hot. But, your husband knows how a hot YOUNG piece of ass can be very annoying as time goes on.

Myself it would wear me down with a young girl living in my house sponging of me. (I am sure she contributed. But, MOST of the time a younger girl is living with an older the man pays the LION share)
 
calveless wonder said:
as an attractive girl...much easier. not that hard to find a replacement from a numbers perspective. highly coveted, don't even really have to put yourself out there to find new potential mates.

I don't agree that being an attractive girl makes it ANY easier. if anything it's that much more of a challenge to wade through the bullshit of guys just trying to get a piece of the pie while you're still vulnerable.
 
nefertiti said:
I don't agree that being an attractive girl makes it ANY easier. if anything it's that much more of a challenge to wade through the bullshit of guys just trying to get a piece of the pie while you're still vulnerable.

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nefertiti said:
I don't agree that being an attractive girl makes it ANY easier. if anything it's that much more of a challenge to wade through the bullshit of guys just trying to get a piece of the pie while you're still vulnerable.

Ugly girls have no chance.

At least she's going to receive attention....even if it's from goofballs who think they even have a chance at her pie.
 
gotmilk said:
Ugly girls have no chance.

At least she's going to receive attention....even if it's from goofballs who think they even have a chance at her pie.

men and women must deal with heartbreak differently. Getting attention isn't going to heal her hurt, and fucking it away won't work like it might with a guy. She just needs time.

lol@ atw...I was talking about her, not me. In case you missed it, fg is a stunner.
 
superdave said:
jesus christ youre still living together and hes got a new chick. the train wrecks never cease on EF. move the fuck out for gods sake, anywhere has got to be better than staying with him.

Done.
Here's my new apartment, I'm so excited :) I love living on my own.

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And here's my itty bitty tree:
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nice kitchen


so Fitnssgrl, have you met any new guys prospects yet or are you still healing?
 
Fitnessgrl I think you should shoot for younger bro's this time around


just sayin
 
mountain muscle said:
See? I got totally ignored by the american woman. I am going back to mexico.

:) Not ignoring you, sorry. Computer issues. JH helped me set up my wireless, and it's been working great for the past few days... But tonight it's giving me issues.
 
fitnessgrl8621 said:
:) Not ignoring you, sorry. Computer issues. JH helped me set up my wireless, and it's been working great for the past few days... But tonight it's giving me issues.

Just messing around FG. How have you been? Better?
 
mountain muscle said:
Just messing around FG. How have you been? Better?

Yeah, better. I've been so busy buying everything for my apartment. I literally had nothing... I had to buy couches, tables, plates, cups, pots, pans, tv, bed, towels, etc... Everything. But it was a lot of fun :) Expensive, but fun.

I took all 3 of our kitties, so that's helped, too. I know he was really attached to them as well, but oh well. He wants to come to my aparmtment next weekend with his son to see the cats lol Haven't decided if I'm going to let him yet... I do have a bunch of Christmas presents for his son, we'll see.
 
blueta2 said:
Let the healing begin......
Good for you for pulling your boot straps up. Nice apt. Happiness is not far :-)

pulling your boot straps up for a hot girl = taking the money he gave you to get the fuck out.

Or, atleast the money you save while he paid the lion share of the bills.
 
fitnessgrl8621 said:
lol What am I lying about? He wasn't rich.

He had the money, home, cars, and could take you to places that the average guy your age could take you to?

lol

I am sure he was poor.
 
This just in.

FG met her older man when he was broke!

A few months later he was rich again!!!!1 (with her help)

BTW. He met her on the same sugardaddy site someone else here used.
 
all the whey said:
He had the money, home, cars, and could take you to places that the average guy your age could take you to?

lol

I am sure he was poor.

Wow. lol
Uh, yeah... He had a vehicle and a home, I guess if you consider that 'rich', then yes, he was rich. I know guys my age that have the same. I could afford to buy my own home right now if I wanted to, but I don't know that I want to stay here.
I paid for my own stuff... Vehicle, insurance, clothing, etc. And I contributed to some of the household bills as well.

Just an FYI, I didn't meet him on a 'sugar daddy' website. I actually met him on a fitness website.
 
all the whey said:
This just in.

FG met her older man when he was broke!

A few months later he was rich again!!!!1 (with her help)

BTW. He met her on the same sugardaddy site someone else here used.
Maybe you should look into that site?
 
javaguru said:
Maybe you should look into that site?

it worked for bikinimod
 
fitnessgrl8621 said:
Done.
Here's my new apartment, I'm so excited :) I love living on my own.

Holy shit..I lived on Seawall Blvd in Galveston for one year and my place was ghetto compared to that.........
 
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