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Getting over someone...

it gets better feelings fade after time..Could take a year or longer, More so if you see this person often... Keep your head up there is always somebody better out there for you :)
 
GoldenDelicious said:
girls just have to get with a better guy. guys have more trouble. took me about, oh...2 years, from a 4 year relationship

and yes, gets much better. you go back to feeling great, even
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I hope you're right :).
 
jh1 said:
Bitch, I broke ur heart. It will remain so forever. Learn to live with it.
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now this is true .. he broke my heart and it still hasnt healed yet
 
start sleeping w/someone right away. they will like you and bolster your waning self-confidence with possibly drunken insincerities....
 
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had my heart broken once. . .jewish girl. . .back in college. . .couldn't even look at a bagel for a year without getting misty. . .it went away. . .it took a while. . .in retrospect, it was probably good for me. . .my next "real" relationship was with my wife. . .best thing that ever happened to me. . .if i had it to do over again, i'd probably do it a little bit different, but i would want it to end up working out exactly like it did. . .
 
HumanTarget said:
start sleeping w/someone right away. they will like you and bolster your waning self-confidence with possibly drunken insincerities....
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Thanks lol That was no help at all.

Seriously!... Any women on here gone through this? This is/was my first serious relationship. We've lived together for the past 2 and a 1/2 years. It feels like I'll never get over him.
 
fitnessgrl8621 said:
Thanks lol That was no help at all.

Seriously!... Any women on here gone through this? This is/was my first serious relationship. We've lived together for the past 2 and a 1/2 years. It feels like I'll never get over him.
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How old are you ?
 
fitnessgrl8621 said:
Thanks lol That was no help at all.

Seriously!... Any women on here gone through this? This is/was my first serious relationship. We've lived together for the past 2 and a 1/2 years. It feels like I'll never get over him.
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you won't. and you'll compare every next guy to him. be careful, cuz you're vulnerable now. weigh every decision concerning your heart cautiously....unless you like the strange.
 
fitnessgrl8621 said:
Thanks lol That was no help at all.

Seriously!... Any women on here gone through this? This is/was my first serious relationship. We've lived together for the past 2 and a 1/2 years. It feels like I'll never get over him.
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PMing you in a minute...
 
fitnessgrl8621 said:
I'm 23. I wasn't really a relationship type girl in HS, so I never had that first heartbreak... This is it.
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I can imangine how much you hurt.. You are so young , You have your whole life in front of you,,, You life has barely begun...You have alot to offer the world and it has alot of offer you ...:)


i know that sounded so gay .. but sometimes the truth
 
fitnessgrl8621 said:
Thanks lol That was no help at all.

Seriously!... Any women on here gone through this? This is/was my first serious relationship. We've lived together for the past 2 and a 1/2 years. It feels like I'll never get over him.
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You'll never "get over" him.I ran into one of my loves a few months ago. I still got a pang in my gut when I saw him.

On a side note, it's better to be this way than some cold hearted bitch or bastard and NOT give a shit about people.

It will get easier, but it won't ever go away-IMO. :heart:
 
vixensghost said:
You'll never "get over" him.I ran into one of my loves a few months ago. I still got a pang in my gut when I saw him.

On a side note, it's better to be this way than some cold hearted bitch or bastard and NOT give a shit about people.

It will get easier, but it won't ever go away-IMO. :heart:
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Are you happy now, though?
I don't think I'll ever get over him, I just want to be able to move on with my life and with someone else eventually. Right now it feels like I'll never love someone as much as I did him, and that I'll have this sick to my stomach feeling forever and ever.
 
vixensghost said:
You'll never "get over" him.I ran into one of my loves a few months ago. I still got a pang in my gut when I saw him.

On a side note, it's better to be this way than some cold hearted bitch or bastard and NOT give a shit about people.

It will get easier, but it won't ever go away-IMO. :heart:
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You make it sound like ur life will be miserable.

I think the point here is - if you love/d someone you always will (or at least should) care about them to a degree.

However, you can and will 'get over' that love loss and move on with your life and be able to find other love that is as meaningfull and fulfilling as the love you are losing - the love that you think you will never ever ever ever be able to replace. We all know that is not true - you're just blinded by the loss.

What FGirl is asking is - will she be able to move on? Will she find a relationship / love just as meaningfull?

Answer that for her, before we have a meltdown.
 
Fitness Grl, so wait, that 35 yo brolly dumped your ass and your free on the market now?
 
jh1 said:
Yo

What FGirl is asking is - will she be able to move on? Will she find a relationship / love just as meaningfull?

Answer that for her, before we have a meltdown.
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Yes
Yes
Yes

It hurts for a while, but then one day you wake up and things feel ok again.
And you start to "rediscover" yourself. And you learn and grow. And eventually you actually realize you are better off than you were when you were in the relationship. That sounds so cheesy. But it is true.
 
vixensghost said:
You'll never "get over" him.I ran into one of my loves a few months ago. I still got a pang in my gut when I saw him.

On a side note, it's better to be this way than some cold hearted bitch or bastard and NOT give a shit about people.

It will get easier, but it won't ever go away-IMO. :heart:
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at the risk of stepping over the line into swv territory. . .i think i agree. . .i still have some contact with my broken heart (christmas cards. . .yeah. . .she's jewish. . .whatever, and an e-mail every now and then). . .a couple of years ago i got an e-mail from her. . .she was being treated for cancer. . .i thought she was going to die. . .it felt like someone punched me in the gut. . .i was sitting there thinking that i had never told her how a really felt back then. . .i decided that if she took a turn for the worse, i was going to drive the three hours to where she lives, sit down beside her, and in front of anyone that was there, tell her "you may not know, because i never told you, but back in college, when we dated, i was madly and completely and totally in love with you". . .the thought of doing it scared the shit out of me. . .the thought of not doing it, scared me even worse. . .she got healthy, she's in remission and has had a clean bill of health for a couple of years now. . .i'm glad she lived. . .and i'm glad i didn't have to do it. . .
 
fitnessgrl8621 said:
Those of you that have been really serious with someone, and they were the ones wanting to end things... How long did it take you to get over that person? Were you able to move on, and have just as strong of feelings for someone else? Does it ever get better?
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i look exactly like david wright :D there is hope for you
 
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I thought Ftness Grrrl was married to some 38 yo Lance Armstrong dude... how can u break up with a piece like that?
 
Stefka said:
Yes
Yes
Yes

It hurts for a while, but then one day you wake up and things feel ok again.
And you start to "rediscover" yourself. And you learn and grow. And eventually you actually realize you are better off than you were when you were in the relationship. That sounds so cheesy. But it is true.
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Thank you so much for the response. I guess I just need the reassurance that it DOES get better. I really hope it's sooner than later. He and I haven't been happy for a long time, but I guess because it's HIM ending things, and not me, it some how makes it worse. Espeically since he's already found someone else, and we're still living with one another.
 
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Can we all get some nudie pics now?


Get back and that bastard! Post naked pics for everyone to see.. that will teach him!!!!
 
fitnessgrl8621 said:
Thank you so much for the response. I guess I just need the reassurance that it DOES get better. I really hope it's sooner than later. He and I haven't been happy for a long time, but I guess because it's HIM ending things, and not me, it some how makes it worse. Espeically since he's already found someone else, and we're still living with one another.
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Wow.
Things will be so much better when you move out.
You can't really start to get over someone when you have to see them every day like that.
 
fitnessgrl8621 said:
Are you happy now, though?
I don't think I'll ever get over him, I just want to be able to move on with my life and with someone else eventually. Right now it feels like I'll never love someone as much as I did him, and that I'll have this sick to my stomach feeling forever and ever.
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I'm a lot older than you. So, yes, I'm VERY happy now in my marriage. However, those loves were the "stepping stones" to WHO I became. All my lost loves had something to do in my happiness later in life I'd like to think! I learned a lot about myself thru those experiences. You'll do the same in time.

:heart:
 
jesus christ youre still living together and hes got a new chick. the train wrecks never cease on EF. move the fuck out for gods sake, anywhere has got to be better than staying with him.
 
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the cold-hearted science is that you're feeling physical withdrawal symptoms no different than withdrawal from nicotine or heroin.

according to studies, when you see the face or hear the voice (or even think about) someone who you like or has given you pleasurable times in the past, your brain releases endorphins and you feel good. you become addicted to the endorphin rush.

when you stop seeing this person, you suffer withdrrawal symptoms which is your body trying to get you to give it the stimulus it needs to pump out some more endorphins.


so basically you're a lovehead.

just like most other addictions there's a crash and then it gets better over time. But every phone call or visit lengthens the process.


it took me at least a year before I didnt hurt every time I thought of a special ex.

no contact, keep busy, IM Mava more often, problem solved.
 
vixensghost said:
I'm a lot older than you. So, yes, I'm VERY happy now in my marriage. However, those loves were the "stepping stones" to WHO I became. All my lost loves had something to do in my happiness later in life I'd like to think! I learned a lot about myself thru those experiences. You'll do the same in time.

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there's pieces of everyone that i've ever had a meaningful relationship with (friends included) that i carry with me everywhere i go. . .gawd. . .i definitely gotta go do something manly today :worried:
 
Mavafanculo said:
it took me at least a year before I didnt hurt every time I thought of a special ex.

no contact, keep busy, IM Mava more often, problem solved.
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Yeah. Fuck you and your advice.

Same thing EVERYONE SAYS about tough break ups.

Listen, DipShit, not all of us have that choice. Some of us have to keep in almost daily contact, it's torture I tell you - torture.
 
fitnessgrl8621 said:
Thank you so much for the response. I guess I just need the reassurance that it DOES get better. I really hope it's sooner than later. He and I haven't been happy for a long time, but I guess because it's HIM ending things, and not me, it some how makes it worse. Espeically since he's already found someone else, and we're still living with one another.
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That's be rough.

You'll get over it, but will always see things that reming you of the guy. I was home last year for Christmas and thought I saw my ex (hadn't seen her for 12 years) and it froze me in the middle of the street. Some things will set you off and bring you down, but like anything else you learn to deal with it.

Just don't go getting loaded and hang out with your slutty bar slut group of friends. They always make it so easy to treat yourself like shit and it keeps you from dealing with what you need to address. Plus, teh herp would be a bitch.
 
jh1 said:
Yeah. Fuck you and your advice.

Same thing EVERYONE SAYS about tough break ups.

Listen, DipShit, not all of us have that choice. Some of us have to keep in almost daily contact, it's torture I tell you - torture.
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I know NadMonkey, that must suck - in that case I would use the "replay every insult in my head & review every flaw" approach before every time I had to see her :evil: .
 
digimon7068 said:
there's pieces of everyone that i've ever had a meaningful relationship with (friends included) that i carry with me everywhere i go. . .gawd. . .i definitely gotta go do something manly today :worried:
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BINGO!

I'd not trade any heart break in my life- I LEARNED from each one of 'em. Trust me, sometimes it was NOT a great learning experience about MYSELF either. It's hard to look at the imperfect side of one's self when trying to find truth.
 
jnevin said:
That's be rough.

You'll get over it, but will always see things that reming you of the guy. I was home last year for Christmas and thought I saw my ex (hadn't seen her for 12 years) and it froze me in the middle of the street. Some things will set you off and bring you down, but like anything else you learn to deal with it.

Just don't go getting loaded and hang out with your slutty bar slut group of friends. They always make it so easy to treat yourself like shit and it keeps you from dealing with what you need to address. Plus, teh herp would be a bitch.
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Mind your own business...she can do what she wants.
 
digimon7068 said:
at the risk of stepping over the line into swv territory. . .i think i agree. . .i still have some contact with my broken heart (christmas cards. . .yeah. . .she's jewish. . .whatever, and an e-mail every now and then). . .a couple of years ago i got an e-mail from her. . .she was being treated for cancer. . .i thought she was going to die. . .it felt like someone punched me in the gut. . .i was sitting there thinking that i had never told her how a really felt back then. . .i decided that if she took a turn for the worse, i was going to drive the three hours to where she lives, sit down beside her, and in front of anyone that was there, tell her "you may not know, because i never told you, but back in college, when we dated, i was madly and completely and totally in love with you". . .the thought of doing it scared the shit out of me. . .the thought of not doing it, scared me even worse. . .she got healthy, she's in remission and has had a clean bill of health for a couple of years now. . .i'm glad she lived. . .and i'm glad i didn't have to do it. . .
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Yeah, but even if you did go see her and tell her that you were in love with her, if she told you that she was STILL madly in love with you... You wouldn't leave your wife for her, right? So, even though you still have feelings for her, you've obviously moved on? (crossing my fingers hehe).
 
fitnessgrl8621 said:
. Espeically since he's already found someone else, and we're still living with one another.
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holy crap.

1st priority is fixing that prontissimo. you're just going to torture yourself.

and eventually, he'll want to bring his new girl home. then what?
 
Mavafanculo said:
holy crap.

1st priority is fixing that prontissimo. you're just going to torture yourself.

and eventually, he'll want to bring his new girl home. then what?
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Wait, this could be good :p
 
Mavafanculo said:
holy crap.

1st priority is fixing that prontissimo. you're just going to torture yourself.

and eventually, he'll want to bring his new girl home. then what?
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If I was broken up with and the ex brought someone home and proceeded to get a thouough rogering, I'd go insane. I'd leave immediately, but holy fuck, that would throw me for a loop.
 
Mavafanculo said:
holy crap.

1st priority is fixing that prontissimo. you're just going to torture yourself.

and eventually, he'll want to bring his new girl home. then what?
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I know he's 'talking' to someone, I don't know how serious it is. He'll deny there's anyone else because he doesn't want me to think that's the reason for us breaking up, but I know there is. I do know that there were other problems with he and I, and that this other person isn't the reason, but that doesn't mean that there ISN'T someone else. It just makes it more 'real'. I guess in my mind if there wasn't someone else, there would still be hope that we could work things out. But if there is, there's nothing I can do about it.
 
fitnessgrl8621 said:
Thank you so much for the response. I guess I just need the reassurance that it DOES get better. I really hope it's sooner than later. He and I haven't been happy for a long time, but I guess because it's HIM ending things, and not me, it some how makes it worse. Espeically since he's already found someone else, and we're still living with one another.
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fitnessgrl8621 said:
Yeah, but even if you did go see her and tell her that you were in love with her, if she told you that she was STILL madly in love with you... You wouldn't leave your wife for her, right? So, even though you still have feelings for her, you've obviously moved on? (crossing my fingers hehe).
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oh HELL no. . .i'm definitely not in love with her anymore. . .but due to my lack of maturity at the time, there were a number of unresolved issues at the time of the relationship's demise. . .that was a big one. . .in fact, i didn't even know it myself until i had been in love with my wife (then girlfriend/fiance) for a while. . .it was only with that historical perspective that i was able to look back and realize why that relationship had been so difficult for me to put to rest. . .i had the bug BAD, and didn't even know it. . .
 
Seriously, You will be fine. You are only 23.

Also, you picked a great place to get advice on being dumped.

The girls here are experts on the subject!!!!!!!#$@$@

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all the whey said:
Seriously, You will be fine. You are only 23.

Also, you picked a great place to get advice on being dumped.

The girls here are experts on the subject!!!!!!!#$@$@

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Not nice.

I just thought on here nobody would be bias, as they don't know me. If I ask my friends/family, people that care about me, of course they're going to tell me it will get better because they don't want to see me hurt.
 
you're a 23 y/o victim. and will continue to be one until you make it stop. living with him still? wtf. unfuckinghealthy.....
 
HumanTarget said:
you're a 23 y/o victim. and will continue to be one until you make it stop. living with him still? wtf. unfuckinghealthy.....
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Yeah, well, I've been in WA visiting family for the weekend, he was in another state visiting his. I fly back to TX today... This all came about this morning. Well, like I mentioned earlier, we haven't been happy for a while, but the him already talking to someone else... was this morning.
 
fitnessgrl8621 said:
Yeah, well, I've been in WA visiting family for the weekend, he was in another state visiting his. I fly back to TX today... This all came about this morning. Well, like I mentioned earlier, we haven't been happy for a while, but the him already talking to someone else... was this morning.
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so it just means he dumped you before you knew it. that's his malfunction, not yours. i'd get out, asap. he's pretty much just a punk by this info....
 
Wait.

So your boyfriend that you live with has already got a new girlfriend?

And he basically told you (after cheating on you) that he longer wishes to be your boyfriend and that he's found someone else?

Am I close or am I just assuming here?

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Yes, of course you can get over this - unless you choose not to let yourself.

One of you needs to move, I don't know the details of your living arrangements so I can't say whom. Don't think delaying this will makes things change because it won't and even if he turns to you and says "oh honey I love you I made a mistake" you need to have enough strength and respect for yourself to not go back.

You are at a fantastic age to do all sorts of things, fun things with or without a man by your side. Get out there and try something you've not tried before or better yet go travel for a while and when you're done try something else.

You're gorgeous - better try these new things quick because you will have packs males coming after you when they hear you're available.

Remember you are always you whether you are with someone or not, I think people forget that after they've been in a relationship for a while and they've grown so accustomed to being the we and us that they don't remember what it's like to be a me or a I and that's what makes parting so devastating.

We have a great capacity for love, so you will be able to feel the same great emotion for someone else.

How long it takes to get over him is really up to you.
 
what a total dick, btw. i wouldn't want a guy like this living next door to me, even.....unless you were such an awful bitch that he couldn't stand to look at you.....
 
HumanTarget said:
what a total dick, btw. i wouldn't want a guy like this living next door to me, even.....unless you were such an awful bitch that he couldn't stand to look at you.....
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fitnessgrl8621 said:
Yeah, well, I've been in WA visiting family for the weekend, he was in another state visiting his. I fly back to TX today... This all came about this morning. Well, like I mentioned earlier, we haven't been happy for a while, but the him already talking to someone else... was this morning.
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MOST relationships at a young age do not break up until one finds someone else.

You will look back and say "We should have broke up earlier, and I am glad we didn't married because we were not ready"

But, he is a total pussy for having to line up another girl before you broke up with you.
 
velvett said:
Wait.

So you're boyfriend that you live with has already got a new girlfriend.

And he basically tells you (after cheating on you) that he longer wishes to be your boyfriend and that he's found someone else?

Am I close or am I just assuming here?

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Yes, of course you can get over this - unless you choose not to let yourself.

One of you needs to move, I don't know the details of your living arrangements so I can't say whom. Don't think delaying this will makes things change because it won't and even if he turns to you and says "oh honey I love you I made a mistake" you need to have enough strength and respect for yourself to not go back.

You are at a fantastic age to do all sorts of things, fun things with or without a man by your side. Get out there and try something you've not tried before or better yet go travel for a while and when you're done try something else.

You're gorgeous - better try these new things quick because you will have packs males coming after you when they hear you're available.

Remember you are always you whether you are with someone or not, I think people forget that after they've been in a relationship for a while and they've grown so accustomed to being the we and us that they don't remember what it's like to be a me or a I and that's what makes parting so devastating.

We have a great capacity for love, so you will be able to feel the same great emotion for someone else.

How long it takes to get over him is really up to you.
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Thank you, Velvett :heart:
I don't think he has a new girlfriend, but he's definitely talking to another woman... In the process of getting to know her better.
You said something that really makes sense. That I can get over him, but only allow myself to. I know you're right, and there are millions of people in this world that have gone through what I'm going through, and have moved on with their lives... and haven't died single and lonely :) The rational side of me knows that, just hard to comprehend right now.
 
HumanTarget said:
i'm just hoping she's being forthright concerning her character.....
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No, it has nothing to do with my character... I know I'm a good person. Jealous sometimes, yes lol... But a good person, none the less.
 
all the whey said:
MOST relationships at a young age do not break up until one finds someone else.

You will look back and say "We should have broke up earlier, and I am glad we didn't married because we were not ready"

But, he is a total pussy for having to line up another girl before you broke up with you.
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He's not some young pup, though, he's 40 years old.
We've been uphappy for a while, but in my mind I always thought we could work through it, IF he didn't have someone else in his life... Now that I have reason to believe that he DOES have someone he's communicating with, now is when it feels 'real'.
 
fitnessgrl8621 said:
Thank you, Velvett :heart:
I don't think he has a new girlfriend, but he's definitely talking to another woman... In the process of getting to know her better.
You said something that really makes sense. That I can get over him, but only allow myself to. I know you're right, and there are millions of people in this world that have gone through what I'm going through, and have moved on with their lives... and haven't died single and lonely :) The rational side of me knows that, just hard to comprehend right now.
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"talking" = fucking

Not trying to be harsh. But, there is a lot more he didn't tell you. Going out on dates...etc Definately more than "talking".
 
I'd like to think that age isn't an issue in relationships, but nine times out of ten it is. I've dated girls far younger than me, and it always wound up in the shit house because all of the things we thought we had in common, we really didn't.

I've since swore off the age gap, and I like the heifers that orbit around my age group. I never thought they would be any fun, but I was wrong.
 
KillahBea said:
I'd like to think that age isn't an issue in relationships, but nine times out of ten it is. I've dated girls far younger than me, and it always wound up in the shit house because all of the things we thought we had in common, we really didn't.

I've since swore off the age gap, and I like the heifers that orbit around my age group. I never thought they would be any fun, but I was wrong.
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Your email set this off, good going.
 
i'd just stop posting, log off and get about things. you're not likely to get good info here, seeing as it's folks schooled in internet knowledges....
 
KillahBea said:
I'd like to think that age isn't an issue in relationships, but nine times out of ten it is. I've dated girls far younger than me, and it always wound up in the shit house because all of the things we thought we had in common, we really didn't.

I've since swore off the age gap, and I like the heifers that orbit around my age group. I never thought they would be any fun, but I was wrong.
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Is this why you're deleting your myspace?
 
jnevin said:
Is this why you're deleting your myspace?
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I suppose it's an indirect part of it. The other part is that the female in question is not only a youngin, she's also an e-stalker.
 
KillahBea said:
I suppose it's an indirect part of it. The other part is that the female in question is not only a youngin, she's also an e-stalker.
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I'm familiar with their work. Even though it's been 10 years with a 1 year break since I've been with anyone different, I've had some weird chicks that have flirted, been rejected, and then gone nuts. One girl works at a title company I used to use, and we were always kind of friendly flirty. Nothing ever happened, only a lunch that her office took my office to. Anyhoo, she has access to public records and pulled mine. She went into my divorce decree, looked up my record and started asking me about my tickets and everything. I pretty much told her to fuck off, but nicely, and she went nuts. She would drive by my house and say she was going to knock on the door and tell my s.o. that we were having an affair. So, I got her fired and had to get a restraining order.
 
all I gotta say is if i'm not married by 40 that hopefully i'll be pulling 23 yo dimes around that age
 
jnevin said:
I'm familiar with their work. Even though it's been 10 years with a 1 year break since I've been with anyone different, I've had some weird chicks that have flirted, been rejected, and then gone nuts. One girl works at a title company I used to use, and we were always kind of friendly flirty. Nothing ever happened, only a lunch that her office took my office to. Anyhoo, she has access to public records and pulled mine. She went into my divorce decree, looked up my record and started asking me about my tickets and everything. I pretty much told her to fuck off, but nicely, and she went nuts. She would drive by my house and say she was going to knock on the door and tell my s.o. that we were having an affair. So, I got her fired and had to get a restraining order.
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HO-LEE shit!
The one that I have, I dated during the spring & summer of '07. She did some pretty cruel things to me, and I was gonna let it go but I just couldn't. I had to give it back ten fold so I played the nice guy until I got my H&D. It surprises me that six months later, she is still tracking me down by e-mail and such. She has given me her new number via e-mail several times and keeps asking when I'm gonna call, or when she can drive up to MI to visit me.

It's amazing. I mean, I know she's not all that bright, but I didn't realize I was dealing with a 5W bulb here...
 
I think girls hang on to it a lil longer but things all work out in the end. Ive seen dudes at rock bottom who rebounded nicely and are better for it. It was tough, but they are much happier. I mean, how you ever gonna be happy with a one way relationship?
 
goal one is move out, all other goals regarding "getting over" anyone are secondary.
and lol @ 40 and 23. nothing against you but any man who feels the need to be involved (i.e. more than fucking) with a girl that much younger has got issues. take it as a lessoned learned.
 
fitnessgrl8621 said:
Are you happy now, though?
I don't think I'll ever get over him, I just want to be able to move on with my life and with someone else eventually. Right now it feels like I'll never love someone as much as I did him, and that I'll have this sick to my stomach feeling forever and ever.
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I had an ex I lived with for 2 years...and she royally fugged up in the end. It took about 6 months before I found someone else I was interested in....and awhile of wondering why she stabbed me in the back so badly.

I even bumped into her 3 years after and went to her parents anniversary party (big mistake).

You'll have no problem getting over David Wright as he's gay and blows the Mets bullpen catcher.
 
fitnessgrl8621 said:
Are you happy now, though?
I don't think I'll ever get over him, I just want to be able to move on with my life and with someone else eventually. Right now it feels like I'll never love someone as much as I did him, and that I'll have this sick to my stomach feeling forever and ever.
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everyone feels this way at one point or another in their lives

but, good news:

You WILL get over this. We all do.

Have lots of sex with other mens right away. That always helps.
 
a 3 yr on and off relationship proly set me back one solid yr of mourning.
now i look back at it and cannot believe i was such a douch
 
Smurfy said:
everyone feels this way at one point or another in their lives

but, good news:

You WILL get over this. We all do.

Have lots of sex with other mens right away. That always helps.
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lol, thanks for the advice, Smurfy :) Hopefully I get over it sooner than later. I'm glad he owns the house so it's easier to just get up and leave... Don't have to worry about a lease, etc.

May hold off on the sex thing for a while longer, though.
 
You'll be fine FG. It will take some time to get over certainly. Look at this an as opportunity to improve your life.

Too bad I am stuck here, we could go have some sushi/sake in Kemah.

Keep your head up and get out of that living situation as soon as possible.
 
mountain muscle said:
You'll be fine FG. It will take some time to get over certainly. Look at this an as opportunity to improve your life.

Too bad I am stuck here, we could go have some sushi/sake in Kemah.

Keep your head up and get out of that living situation as soon as possible.
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Thanks.

I don't know if I'll want to eat there for a while... Sigh. We ate there ALL the time. Good stuff, though :)
 
fitnessgrl8621 said:
Thanks.

I don't know if I'll want to eat there for a while... Sigh. We ate there ALL the time. Good stuff, though :)
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Only ate there when I was down for the interview. We'll find some other sushi bar lol.

Keep your chin up. :qt:
 
fitnessgrl8621 said:
Thanks lol That was no help at all.

Seriously!... Any women on here gone through this? This is/was my first serious relationship. We've lived together for the past 2 and a 1/2 years. It feels like I'll never get over him.
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I would say you won't, but you're a woman and all women are cold hearted bitches. LOL... You may be one of the few that actually have a soul.
 
MightyMouse69 said:
you may want to remove his name from underneath you EF screen name and replace it with Mrs. MightyMouse69
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lol... different guy... I could only wish to marry David Wright of the NYM. He's closer to my age anyway.
 
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