Fucking Ex Girlfriend

[biggernu]

I know this is not the place for this, but i don't have to many friends and the ones i have are assholes to me, but i can't get over my ex girlfriend. IDK if its the HCG, or armidex or what, but i am horny as all hell. Then i started thinking of my ex gf and i got all pissed off and sad. Then my friend got off work and told me she had 4 people in her car and was makin gout with them in front of him. I defineatly didn't need that. Ive tried to treat her like my enemy, but i am seriously the nicest guy around, i always get fucked over by chicks. God i just want to sleep but i can't do that either. There my rant for the day. karma for the best idea to get rid of this shit.

 

[partagus]

Damn Bro, I feel for you. Your options are limited. You can be an asshole and try to mess around with one of her friends, but will that help? No. You can try sleeping with a few other people, but will that help you? No. How about a slump buster? Not yet.

You're in the right place. Take a few weeks, stay completely away from her and transform your body. In several weeks, when you're all stacked from this project, let her see you with a real hot ass chick. Hang in there. There will be other girls.

 

[Acela]

the a-dexx could be making emotional as well...something to think about

 

[whitedragon]

Bro, I'm sorry to hear that. So much harder to do this through typing, but "bitchslap", dude wake up! I don't know the whole story aside from this and your other thread that I replied to but I would say this to any friend in your situation.

First off, what you're feeling is natural, this happens after ending a relationship at times. You need to focus though on you. You're what's important and you're what matters. Your ex doesn't matter. What she does with other people don't matter, it's not your concern. Maybe she's a slut, but that's fine, lots of girls are. Some girls go through phases, you can resent her for it, but honestly bro it's not healthy. Seriously, she doesn't matter, what she does doesn't matter. You can treat her like your worst enemy but that honestly won't help you.

There are over 3 billion women in this world. 3 billion!!! Don't get so caught up over just 1! Do you know how many of these women are cute, sexy, funny and just downright sweet and adorable? A lot my friend. Now, these women need one thing, you

It sounds dumb and a little hokey but I'm serious. If you're horny go out there and talk to these women. They're everywhere. Get yourself some nice clothes, don't try to look like everyone else though, express yourself, but nicely. Don't forget shoes. Seriously, buy nice shoes that go along with your outfits. If you can't shop recruit a girlfriend, or a gay guy. The gay guys are a lot better though to be honest. The sooner you find some nice women you'll be say to yourself, "I can't believe that I wasted so much time with 'bitch', breaking up with her was the best thing that ever happened to me." That is true bro, you guys weren't meant to be together, no hard feelings, that's life.

The fact that you're a nice guy, fucking great! Seriously, chicks really dig nice guys. Don't be a weak guy, people get these confused all the time. You can be nice, not weak. They're different things. You can be firm, strong and nice all at the same time. The mix is important. You can't be brave without having fear. You can't be completely confident with being vulnerable at times. Do you kind of get what I'm saying?

I could honestly write a book on this, but I'll let you dwell/question this for the moment. I hope it makes sense, I think/rant a lot faster than I can type and I lose a lot of what I want to say at times. It's my own fault.

Also, one last thing, if your friends are assholes to you, fuck them too. You don't need negative people in your life at all.

Getting off soap box.

 

[biggernu]

Bro, I'm sorry to hear that. So much harder to do this through typing, but "bitchslap", dude wake up! I don't know the whole story aside from this and your other thread that I replied to but I would say this to any friend in your situation.

First off, what you're feeling is natural, this happens after ending a relationship at times. You need to focus though on you. You're what's important and you're what matters. Your ex doesn't matter. What she does with other people don't matter, it's not your concern. Maybe she's a slut, but that's fine, lots of girls are. Some girls go through phases, you can resent her for it, but honestly bro it's not healthy. Seriously, she doesn't matter, what she does doesn't matter. You can treat her like your worst enemy but that honestly won't help you.

There are over 3 billion women in this world. 3 billion!!! Don't get so caught up over just 1! Do you know how many of these women are cute, sexy, funny and just downright sweet and adorable? A lot my friend. Now, these women need one thing, you

It sounds dumb and a little hokey but I'm serious. If you're horny go out there and talk to these women. They're everywhere. Get yourself some nice clothes, don't try to look like everyone else though, express yourself, but nicely. Don't forget shoes. Seriously, buy nice shoes that go along with your outfits. If you can't shop recruit a girlfriend, or a gay guy. The gay guys are a lot better though to be honest. The sooner you find some nice women you'll be say to yourself, "I can't believe that I wasted so much time with 'bitch', breaking up with her was the best thing that ever happened to me." That is true bro, you guys weren't meant to be together, no hard feelings, that's life.

The fact that you're a nice guy, fucking great! Seriously, chicks really dig nice guys. Don't be a weak guy, people get these confused all the time. You can be nice, not weak. They're different things. You can be firm, strong and nice all at the same time. The mix is important. You can't be brave without having fear. You can't be completely confident with being vulnerable at times. Do you kind of get what I'm saying?

I could honestly write a book on this, but I'll let you dwell/question this for the moment. I hope it makes sense, I think/rant a lot faster than I can type and I lose a lot of what I want to say at times. It's my own fault.

Also, one last thing, if your friends are assholes to you, fuck them too. You don't need negative people in your life at all.

Getting off soap box.

I try hard, man i was at hooters sunday and this chick from my class was working and was talking to me and but my idiot friends treated her like crap saving they wanted the hot waitress etc, mason your a pussy you only drink water, so i told my friends to go fuck off, i just don't have anybody that i can really talk to. Im either in the gym or working on my house, fucking had broken pipes and busted faucets. Thanks for all of you for helping me out. Karma to all of the above.

 

[OMEGA]

hey bro I have an opinion give me a day or two

I had a real bad GF once almost toasted my mind,

you got to see bad people for what they are and do not impose their badness on your self......

 

[biggernu]

This last summer after i dumped this chick, i dated a hot chick that weight 110 lbs, but some girls i work with at a friends bithday party at the bar answered my phone casue i was hammered, told her to quit calling my bf. Then a few weeks later i was dating another chick and the same girl i work with got my phone and told her we were fucking, and started moaning into the phone, boom that chick hates me now too. But that is what lead me here to these fourms so im thinking mabey it is karma. I mean shit my house was forclosed on and im 21 years old, my car was repoed, my 4 wheeler repoed, my rocket repoed, but someway some how i got my house back and am fixing my credit, so i guess if i keep being myself good things will happen to me.

 

[Self-Inflicted]

That sucks to hear. I'm pretty much in the same boat. Nice guy, fell in love and got my heart broken. We didn't break up due to arguments or not getting along. She just needed to focus on making a life for herself before creating a life with someone else. Too me this makes the situation that much harder because all the feelings are still there and I want to be angry at her, but I can't. It doesn't help that she wanted to be friends right after the break up and still sent messages like "I love you", "I miss you", "This destroyed my heart" etc etc. I finally had to tell her I couldn't talk to her and I needed to focus on my happiness instead of trying to keep her happy by keeping a friendship going.

I've been in a slump and depressed for the last month so I sort of know how you feel. The Omega project is helping out though. Working out is my only escape atm and I don't know where I'd be right now if it weren't for this program.

 

[whitedragon]

Mason, get new friends. Tell the girl you work with you're not attracted to her and to stop all of the crap. Those playground antics would drive me nuts. Don't put up with it, tell her how you feel about it. Don't sugar coat or be mean, just honest. She might not like, but she'll have to accept it.

Same thing with your friends at hooters. They want to put others down because their lives suck. Surround yourselves with better people and your life will be better. I promise, scout's honor.

Of course, you always have us to talk to

Also, being 21 and having a house is a big accomplishment. I don't know what exactly a "rocket" is, but I want one Don't sweat things like debt/credit, you're alive and well. I'm 27 and I'm in more debt than I ever thought one guy can be in, but it's all good. Everytime I look at my card debt I lose a little more hair, but it's half way gone so then I'll have nothing else to lose

 

[whitedragon]

Self-Inflicted, that sucks what happened. You did the right thing though for both you and the girl. Much respect friend

 

[biggernu]

rocket means crotch rocket. I took my agressions out on my bathroom, gutted the fucker in an hour man. Sawzaw and 10lb mini mall. Yea those so called friends are not going to be around me any more. All they do is drink all weekend, screw that.

 

[needtogetaas]

hey bro I have an opinion give me a day or two

I had a real bad GF once almost toasted my mind,

you got to see bad people for what they are and do not impose their badness on your self......

So true.

 

[biggernu]

So true.

Oh ya this one got me to, i was on FMLA from work last year to go see a pshyc. They put me on all these damn meds and shit. Fuck that i don't take that shit more, got rid of the problem. There is so much pussy out there, i just realized when you think your happy, something better will come along.

 

[Sub-Zero]

iv had my share of manipulative bitches (1 lol im a loser)

for me, alot of it was guilt, thinking i messed up, that i was bad, that it was my fault. then i realized she was just immature and manipulaitve and a liar.

for a while my feelings that i thought were sadness, were really embarrasment and anger for being pissed off so bad. all i wanted was to fuck her one last time and jizz all over her hair and shoes and laugh and walk out leaving her naked and shamed.

then i realized none of those made ME a better, or happier, person. let go of those feelings. but accept them at the same time. dont deny them. embrace them, think about it, but be a strong alpha male and realize thus is life, and its just another thing we can learn from...

hope that helps my bro in iron.

 

[whitedragon]

Oh ya this one got me to, i was on FMLA from work last year to go see a pshyc. They put me on all these damn meds and shit. Fuck that i don't take that shit more, got rid of the problem. There is so much pussy out there, i just realized when you think your happy, something better will come along.

You're in FL? If so, what part?

 

[biggernu]

No im in WISCONSIN. FMLA is the Faily Medical Leave Act

 

[OMEGA]

So true.

I have seen some straight up demonic people ( if there is such a thing)

good people must learn to understand just how bad, bad people can be,
and be appreciative of their own goodness and make that goodness STRONGER