Friends With Benefits - Why Can't We Have The Cake And Eat It Too?

[bigmann245]

If someone wants to have my cake and eat it to....I'm okay with that.

yea but right now your cake has a little someone waiting to jump out like a birthday surprise.

 

[Nathan]

I'd say hold out for what you want and don't compromise. And here's hoping the right guy doesn't come along while you're involved with the friends with benefits cause, if he's worth it, he probably won't even look your way.

Not being involved in anything sure does suck and gets boring, but I'm now of the opinion that the odds of finding something you really want are a lot greater if you do that. Good luck dude.

 

[slat1]

I'd say hold out for what you want and don't compromise. And here's hoping the right guy doesn't come along while you're involved with the friends with benefits cause, if he's worth it, he probably won't even look your way.

Not being involved in anything sure does suck and gets boring, but I'm now of the opinion that the odds of finding something you really want are a lot greater if you do that. Good luck dude.

You hit the nail on the head there.

 

[Hard-Bitten]

You hit the nail on the head there.

except for the fact.. im not a dude.

 

[heatherrae]

yea but right now your cake has a little someone waiting to jump out like a birthday surprise.

Then, it would technically be him jumping out of his own birthday cake.

 

[Nathan]

except for the fact.. im not a dude.

Yeah...guys don't typically like to share. And if they do, they only want to sleep with you. And if that isn't the case, you're sleeping with a loser.

 

[bigmann245]

Then, it would technically be him jumping out of his own birthday cake.

like a jack in the box.....get it???? im so evil

 

[GoldenDelicious]

learn how to play the game and not make classic fuckups that turn a great relationship into a shitty stale one

fuckups include: expecting your lover to be your emotional sponge, not trying as hard later in the relationship as you did in the beginning (basic complacency) etc etc

for chicks, the forumla is as follows:

find a guy that turns you on
DONT FUCK HIM
get him to hang with you and invest in you emotionally
DONT FUCK HIM
get him to actually like you
DONT FUCK HIM
keep being attractive
DONT FUCK HIM
keep being fun, not let your bullshit drama infect his life
DONT FUCK HIM
keep doing that for a month
then slowly work your way to sex...but not too fast

the end.

the wrong way to do it (most common) for chicks is

find a guy that turns you on
fuck him too quickly
expect him to be your boyfriend/mom/dad/best friend/counsellor rolled into one
get bored
wonder why he isnt attractive anymore
find another guy you think is attractive
proceed to ruin him too

the end.

 

[javaguru]

It Just Me Or It Seem The Ones You Find So Incredibly Attractive To Are The Ones That You Have Nothing In Common But Just Physicalness...and Among Other Things "benefits"

If you're into it,and a woman, and he's a guy then it shouldn't be a problem...

 

[wootoom]

whore much?