Friends With Benefits - Why Can't We Have The Cake And Eat It Too?

[heatherrae]

If someone wants to have my cake and eat it to....I'm okay with that.

 

[Cal_21]

Well, why not?

I just feel in my experience when you look for a fuck buddy that you have a connection with it's inevitable to turn into more...but if you're looking for a fuck buddy, that must not be what you want. So either pick a fuck buddy you don't like lol; or go for an open, VERY casual relationship, that way you can have your cake and eat it too. Both have worked wonders in my experience.

 

[Hard-Bitten]

If someone wants to have my cake and eat it to....I'm okay with that.

You're cute!
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[crazyjoe]

 

[rubberneck]

You're cute!
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e-flirt

 

[Hard-Bitten]

I just feel in my experience when you look for a fuck buddy that you have a connection with it's inevitable to turn into more...but if you're looking for a fuck buddy, that must not be what you want. So either pick a fuck buddy you don't like lol; or go for an open, VERY casual relationship, that way you can have your cake and eat it too. Both have worked wonders in my experience.

Yep!
I wannnnt that cake (= but I'm ready to commit..
Haha, i just find it so frustrating that if there's that someone that can turn you on and can't be with you in that way.. is just irritating at times.

 

[Cal_21]

If someone wants to have my cake and eat it to....I'm okay with that.

accepting applications?

=slight elephantitis lol

 

[Hard-Bitten]

Getting off work in like 20mins and I should get me some of that!

 

[crazyjoe]

Getting off work in like 20mins and I should get me some of that!

I don't understand why YOU would have a hard time finding someone to commit to?

 

[Hard-Bitten]

because.. I think I'm picky