friends who NEVER have your back?

[Sub-Zero]

blindly supporting assholes whether they are right or wrong is a good way to find yourself in big trouble quick. learn to be your own person and be able to make snap decisions in a seconds notice. ive seen rat packs get rolled up big time in college because level headed people were too stupid to tell their friend hes wrong and lets get out of here.

dont be the guy in a coma because your head was crushed in after your friend thought he was talking shit to 3 dudes and he missed the 12 others in the other room. ive seen it happen. dont be that guy.

jesus, its an example. ill have my friends back but if it looks like we are going to get our asses whooped id diffuse the situation to save us both, but id make sure it was BOTH OF US that was safe.

you guys most be from the hard thugged out streets getting into all your fights, beacuse im not talking about fighting here

 

[Sub-Zero]

you need to start doing that again, they probably all think you're a giant pussy now.

I remember one little rat-boy we used to smoke with back when I was your age, my other friends used to beat the crap out of him all the time, throw him down stairs and kick him in the nuts , then laugh at him as he cried on the floor .. but I didn't because I didn't want to hurt him & even let him sleep at my place when his parents kicked him out.

So of course when he finally decided to steal from one us it was my fucking wallet he ran off with.

these are the kinds of examples and advice/stories i was looking for.

thanks for being a bro and participating instead of trying to be my psychologist, lol

 

[fistfullofsteel]

time to find a new friend, fuck that jerk off

 

[timtim]

jesus, its an example. ill have my friends back but if it looks like we are going to get our asses whooped id diffuse the situation to save us both, but id make sure it was BOTH OF US that was safe.

you guys most be from the hard thugged out streets getting into all your fights, beacuse im not talking about fighting here

not a thug but there were tons of fight when i was in college, especially at the bars where the fraternities ran the show and these issues would carry over into campus life. i figured defending your friend as you described meant in situations where physical violence occured.

if the dude is a prick to you, next time he is, call him on it and see his response. if he tries to play you out fuck him up and put him in his place. everybody needs an ass whooping every once in awhile, including myself. show him you mean business or this behavior will probably get worse and ruin the friendship. happens all the time at college.

 

[Sub-Zero]

not a thug but there were tons of fight when i was in college, especially at the bars where the fraternities ran the show and these issues would carry over into campus life. i figured defending your friend as you described meant in situations where physical violence occured.

if the dude is a prick to you, next time he is, call him on it and see his response. if he tries to play you out fuck him up and put him in his place. everybody needs an ass whooping every once in awhile, including myself. show him you mean business or this behavior will probably get worse and ruin the friendship. happens all the time at college.

ya i just need to put him in his place more often. i thought by not getting carried away like that, it made me a better friend, but i guess to him it just makes me his bitch

 

[H_T_]

i remember you complaining in some of your posts about how your bouncer buddies didnt have your back when you got shot. and then the establishment u bounced at sued the shit out of you.

you probably joked around with and loved your buddies u worked with and didnt realize the entire place would fuck you like that.

well thats the vibe im getting from this guy. its one of those

mostly correct. i always knew i was nothing more than a goon for them. but anyway, sounds like you're having your doubts, so, act on them. just pull everything back until it's confirmed, one way or another....

 

[timtim]

ya i just need to put him in his place more often. i thought by not getting carried away like that, it made me a better friend, but i guess to him it just makes me his bitch

do it. if hes a real friend he will realize he is wrong and deserved it. my old roomate whooped my ass 2 times in college and it was WELL deserved.

 

[Sub-Zero]

do it. if hes a real friend he will realize he is wrong and deserved it. my old roomate whooped my ass 2 times in college and it was WELL deserved.

the problem is hes one of those (as described in my long as post) who thinks everything he says is correct.

he "decides" whats cool, whose cool, whats funny, whats not funny, what music is gay, what music isnt gay, etc. i never take him seriously on it, but in his mind hes 100% correct about everything all the time, and thinks he deserves everything and give nothing. and hes very convincing, untill you figure out hes like that, you sorta fall for it. our one other friend who realizes that the guy is full of shit, in the group is on vacation right now so the "friend balance" is a bit screwed up, since one of our other friends (who was there for anyone who read the post) is gay for this guy (my roomate).

so there is no ass beating or amount of logical convincing, or discussion, or anything that will ever convince him hes wrong

 

[timtim]

the problem is hes one of those (as described in my long as post) who thinks everything he says is correct.

he "decides" whats cool, whose cool, whats funny, whats not funny, what music is gay, what music isnt gay, etc. i never take him seriously on it, but in his mind hes 100% correct about everything all the time, and thinks he deserves everything and give nothing. and hes very convincing, untill you figure out hes like that, you sorta fall for it. our one other friend who realizes that the guy is full of shit, in the group is on vacation right now so the "friend balance" is a bit screwed up, since one of our other friends (who was there for anyone who read the post) is gay for this guy (my roomate).

so there is no ass beating or amount of logical convincing, or discussion, or anything that will ever convince him hes wrong

thats a tough spot then. you might have to consider new friends. sucks, but college is like that. if he is unreasonable he will be very hard to deal with. you dont need know it alls as friends, they are the worst.

 

[Sub-Zero]

thats a tough spot then. you might have to consider new friends. sucks, but college is like that. if he is unreasonable he will be very hard to deal with. you dont need know it alls as friends, they are the worst.

yes. very annoying. except im living with him for the next year