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Headholio
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When you say stay out of it, do you mean give him his stuff back? It's almost $200 worth, and I wonder where he got the dough.
I'm not doing any juice, and have been clean for almost my whole life, so I'm not being hypocritical to tell him no. On the other hand, I completely understand his temptation to do it, especially to keep up with kids he plays against in football. But now that FB is over, I have a lot less understanding about it.
I know back when I was his age, we were told about how that stuff makes you sterile and bald and shinks the johnson etc. Kids know better now. The typical hysterical scare tactics don't work, and its hard to come up with something that sounds truthful and convincing enough to make him think twice about it.
On the other hand, the old "If I catch you one more time I'll kick your ass" routine definitely doesn't work.
first off its a shame ... I chose not to use steroids when i was his age for several reasons.. its all about being educated and understanding how the body works, at his age he just doesn't get it and hell people older don't get it either.
if you really want my advice i would get a few guys on here to call him up and talk to him one on one and educate him on why he should hold off on any type of hormones until he is older. lets face it 18 year olds aren't gonna listen to their dad on anything, but hearing it from some juiceheads who know their shit and did not touch steroids until they were much older would really wake him up. not through scaring him but through overwhelming him with information where he would be like "damn i really don't know what i'm doing here and i should definately wait till i am older"
i do high school weightlifting judging so i deal with these kids all the time, they can be reached if you know how to talk to them and if he is serious about lifting then he will listen close to what a juicehead has to say... if he just wants to listen to his friends and ignore everyone else than he is unreachable and there isn't much you can do here..
maybe a guy like gladiator can talk to him who used when he was that age and now has low T in his early 20's. and also a couple guys who waited till they were much older so he gets a full perspective on things
really he should be preparing for college and worrying about that right now, bodybuilding especially if he isn't even gonna play any college sports should be way down on the list right now.. i mean yeah workout a few times a week to stay in good shape but using steroids and having the crazy dedication many of us on here have is not gonna fly for a college student who is gonna be busy writing papers and studying.. he is not gonna be able to stay consistent in the gym for the next 4 years so steroids are not even necessary.
if you really want my advice i would get a few guys on here to call him up and talk to him one on one and educate him on why he should hold off on any type of hormones until he is older. lets face it 18 year olds aren't gonna listen to their dad on anything, but hearing it from some juiceheads who know their shit and did not touch steroids until they were much older would really wake him up. not through scaring him but through overwhelming him with information where he would be like "damn i really don't know what i'm doing here and i should definately wait till i am older"
i do high school weightlifting judging so i deal with these kids all the time, they can be reached if you know how to talk to them and if he is serious about lifting then he will listen close to what a juicehead has to say... if he just wants to listen to his friends and ignore everyone else than he is unreachable and there isn't much you can do here..
maybe a guy like gladiator can talk to him who used when he was that age and now has low T in his early 20's. and also a couple guys who waited till they were much older so he gets a full perspective on things
really he should be preparing for college and worrying about that right now, bodybuilding especially if he isn't even gonna play any college sports should be way down on the list right now.. i mean yeah workout a few times a week to stay in good shape but using steroids and having the crazy dedication many of us on here have is not gonna fly for a college student who is gonna be busy writing papers and studying.. he is not gonna be able to stay consistent in the gym for the next 4 years so steroids are not even necessary.
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LiftLearnLove
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im 25 when I was 18 I got caught with alot of hash.. my mam and dad went bonkers and threatened to kick me out of the house if I ever got caught again..
Play hard ball and say its your house your rules dont bring drugs into your house or your out on your ass..
Throw away the epi do not give it back if hes doin that shit now he'll be on injections in no time by 21 he should be smart enough to realise hes too young
Play hard ball and say its your house your rules dont bring drugs into your house or your out on your ass..
Throw away the epi do not give it back if hes doin that shit now he'll be on injections in no time by 21 he should be smart enough to realise hes too young
^^^ okay so he kicks him out and he gets his own place and does whatever he wants.. how does that solve the issue?
i was out of my parents house at 19 and got an apartment, but that didn't mean i went out and did steroids or drugs or whatever. i think its a mistake to tell a kid you are out of my house IF....... cause the guy is gonna be out of high school in a few months and go off to college anyway. its not like he is 13, the guy is 18 and about to leave anyway .. see my point?
an 18 year old is NOT the same as a 12 or 13 year old as to how you should approach them. we were all that age at one time so look back at yourselves and remember how things were back then. a lot of what you did was based on the friends you had. i will bet anything that this kid got his steroids from his buddies at school (or at the very least got the idea in his head from them) ...
and in a year he will be getting a lot more ideas from his idiot frat friends in college (things like paying someone to do their term papers, getting hookers, going to spring break 1000 miles away and banging random chicks, getting wasted, adderall or whatever that shit is called that college kids are taking nowadays to focus harder) . its all about making the right decisions on who you hang out with, the parent has no control over that except to instill good morals into their kids. and even in that case a lot of kids still fall into the wrong crowd.. the kid needs some role models ASAP he can want to follow, hell all 18 year olds need that. otherwise they will follow what their idiot friends tell them who don't know shit either
i was out of my parents house at 19 and got an apartment, but that didn't mean i went out and did steroids or drugs or whatever. i think its a mistake to tell a kid you are out of my house IF....... cause the guy is gonna be out of high school in a few months and go off to college anyway. its not like he is 13, the guy is 18 and about to leave anyway .. see my point?
an 18 year old is NOT the same as a 12 or 13 year old as to how you should approach them. we were all that age at one time so look back at yourselves and remember how things were back then. a lot of what you did was based on the friends you had. i will bet anything that this kid got his steroids from his buddies at school (or at the very least got the idea in his head from them) ...
and in a year he will be getting a lot more ideas from his idiot frat friends in college (things like paying someone to do their term papers, getting hookers, going to spring break 1000 miles away and banging random chicks, getting wasted, adderall or whatever that shit is called that college kids are taking nowadays to focus harder) . its all about making the right decisions on who you hang out with, the parent has no control over that except to instill good morals into their kids. and even in that case a lot of kids still fall into the wrong crowd.. the kid needs some role models ASAP he can want to follow, hell all 18 year olds need that. otherwise they will follow what their idiot friends tell them who don't know shit either
digimon7068
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bah! take his shit (for your own personal use)...replace it with fake shit...two birds...one stone...problem solved!!
noodles1010
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Whenever I was doing something stupid growing up, my parents let me know that they knew what I was doing, what I was up to, and what was going to happen and said its up to you... You're 18. Except when it came to my health. No one wants to see their kids doing stupid shit that puts them at risk.
Take him to get his levels checked and and SHOW him how high his levels are and that it's a waste to take ph and shit that will suppress that. Telling isnt always enough. Give him some test infusion, daa, shit that won't hurt him. He's gonna do it anyway. Control it with shit that won't hurt him. Get him some c4 and n2amp, some test infusion and creatine nitrate. Tell him u know he's gonna do shit anyway but atleast you can show him the right way so his health isn't at risk. Yes you're enabling him a little, but with supplements. IMO your protecting him by guiding him and at least he won't be lying to u
Take him to get his levels checked and and SHOW him how high his levels are and that it's a waste to take ph and shit that will suppress that. Telling isnt always enough. Give him some test infusion, daa, shit that won't hurt him. He's gonna do it anyway. Control it with shit that won't hurt him. Get him some c4 and n2amp, some test infusion and creatine nitrate. Tell him u know he's gonna do shit anyway but atleast you can show him the right way so his health isn't at risk. Yes you're enabling him a little, but with supplements. IMO your protecting him by guiding him and at least he won't be lying to u
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